Hi. Me again.
backstory I have been seeing this guy for about 5 months now, our relationship was almost perfect, we did everything together, except on Saturdays. Saturday was his time with his "mom" and by mom I mean his ex girlfriends mom. 11 years ago he was dating this girl and he had a bad relationship with his biological parents so he moved in with them and hasn't really left since. The ex doesn't on-line there anymore and he is the only one there. The "dad" is currently going through some health issues and my boyfriend helps them both out. Is it strange, yes, have I grown used to it, also yes. I thought I had a good healthy relationship with his parents but what happened a few days ago, I guess I was blind.
So earlier I mentioned that Saturday is meant for "mom" and son time. She had pulled me aside last Saturday and explained that her time with my boyfriend is respite care and it's her break from her husband and that she is going to "steal him away from me for a few hours". So I get sent home at around 11:30 Saturday morning and I choose to just kill time while I wait for him to text me once he's done.
So I saw that there was a local car show going on that a few of my friends were at so I thought I would kill some time with them. When I showed up at the bar they were at, I had just missed them as they walked outside to see the cars. I ordered a drink and figured I'd see them eventually. I was playing on my phone and saw that my boyfriend was at the bar that we always hang out at next door so I thought "well, shit, I might as well say hi while I'm here" BIG MISTAKE.
it was like 7:30 at night and I walk in and his face just looked so angry that I was there. He just kept saying "why couldn't you just wait for me to text you, what are you doing here." I explained that I was just trying to be nice and say hi. I apologized and said if it's a problem I can just leave no big deal. If it was a problem, I feel like he just could have said," appreciate seeing you, but I'm still with my mom, call ya after" and I would've left. He calmed down enough to tell me it was okay and that I'm here now. His "mom" looks over at me and she just says "how fucking dare you." Suddenly my boyfriend is screaming at me saying that I should have just waited and everybody's staring. So I get a tad embarrassed and hurt by what is being said so I started to tear up. His "mom" looks over and she puts both of her fists up on her face and like just says boohoo and is mocking me, "you could consider this relationship over". My boyfriend is just staring at me so angry, so I tell him to just call me later and he said he would on Sunday.
update
So it is now Wednesday, up until last night I had not heard a word from him, I just decided to give him some space before I decide to pick this situation apart. sigh everyone on here told me to just leave, that his "mom" and him are doing it, and that she never liked me. So the only update I have for everyone is that he will be coming over after 4 today to come get his shit. I have been so stressed and emotional over wondering if I really did mess up bad enough to deserve this, but it is what it is.
update to my update
A bartender at the bar this happened at messaged me on Facebook. They came in yesterday and immediately the "mom" started talking about me, my ex just got up and left the conversation. now I have no idea what she said about me, but the bartender witnessed what happened with me so she explained to the "mom" that she was wrong and I was just trying to be nice. I don't know how it ended.
Ope. The bartender told me this is not the first time this has happened. I guess the last relationship before me ended the same way too.
Lol my life is a ROM-COM rn. ❤️❤️
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