My husband 28m and I 28F have been married nine years. We have a handful of kids together. Today we were bickering and he called me a c*nt and told me that he's been trying to get me to break up with him for years. This made me really sad and question why he wouldn't just break up with me if he felt this way. But he continued to tell me that he's been trying to get me to leave him. I don't understand. If he's unhappy why can't he leave the relationship? He constantly calls me names and honestly doesn't treat me the best. It's not a surprise that he doesn't want to be with me. I just don't understand why he would rather stay with me and be miserable and treat me with such disrespect when he could easily just divorce me and be happy.
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