My coworker and I started the job on the same day a few years ago, we were like partners in crime, always helping each other, always looking out for each other. I always admired him because he was a hardworker and all about money and building wealth and he always gave me great advice on finances. I thought we were pretty good friends, he would invite me to parties, movies, and trips and I appreciated the invites but I'm usually swamped with errands and chores on weekends so we never really got to hang outside of work for longer than an hour. I kind of thought we had a brotherly/sisterly friendship… I was wrong.
My coworker has never really flirted with me, or said anything suggestive or anything that would even make me think he was attracted me. I think we're both good looking but I never thought I was his type. Recently I saw him reading a book about sex and I asked him about it, jokingly. Boy oh boy did I open up pandora's box. Despite us talking about what kind of porn we watch, how often we had sex, etc I was still naive and thinking we're just having a conversation until he asked to FUCK ME.
I was so incredibly shocked, surprised, blindsided and caught off guard. Im usually good with letting a guy know if im dtf or not interested without having much emotions about it, however I felt very very emotional about this, I didnt know what to say or how to feel or couldnt believe it that i didnt see this coming, i felt stupid. He said to me that he feels that he makes it very obvious because he tries to spend time with me, call me, and he touches me (on the shoulder, back, etc) which i thought was all normal stuff it never made me feel "special".
While Im processing kind of losing a friendship and he asking when im available for a booty call.. i hope things arent weird on Monday. What can I expect from now on, now that the cat is out of the bag?
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