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Date: October 16, 2022
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It means you to break up with him and not waste another second of your time.
That’s what an ultimatum is. An incentive to make a choice. Really think about the one you want to make for your life
Bring upthe subject to your girlfriend (when you are by yourselves and you are not fighting)that you are very uncomfortable with her sister running around half hard when you are there and until they solve this you would prefer if you and her (your girlfriend) meet elsewhere. Your house,outside etc. She needs to understand you guys are on the same page .
And the husband failed to establish that as a boundary. He brought her into the lifestyle, didn't give his expectations, adopted a Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy, and then got mad when it didn't match the expectations that he never communicated.
and this is the main reason why people side eye age gap realtionships. Manipulation is easier, this marriage will be a roller coaster. Stop ignoring the red flags and ask yourself if want to be spending the rest of your life like this. After the breast surgery, he’ll move on to something else, in his eyes, you’re not enough.
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Yeah, that's an average value. Averages don't apply to individuals who exist on a bell curve. You're acting snotty about statistics and probability but you're not very great at it yourself.
Why?
You both have your own truths, tell him you want to set up a camera or something, see who's truth pans out.
Well I just don’t want to make this mistake again. Just thought I was being helpful and loving.
I absolutely loathe thongs and would never ever wear them for anything other than sex but i do have a few pretty matching sets that I wear purely for sex. They go on in advance and the second the sex is over and I'm getting dressed then the comfy pants go on.
If it's just for sexy time just mention to her how much you love her body and you'd love to see her in a thong and offer to buy something for her, maybe even go together. I had an ex who had a list of stuff he liked but it was always down to me to buy the stuff which at the time I did but having grown up a bit now it should be on both parties to contribute to sex.
what’s an “ick” lol
He’s gay, not bi (maybe you misread the title, we are all guys here). But if I don’t sleep in his bed, I wouldn’t have anywhere else to sleep unless I bussed back to where I on-line at, which could be difficult at night and after I’ve had drinks. Honestly I’m not sure I want to go based on the fact that if I do end up uncomfortable, I can’t just bail and I’m kinda stuck. If it was closer it would be a lot easier.
This here is a good advice
I wanna start by saying i get your point,theres nothing wrong with platonic friendship between any individuals, however, I understand how your partner came to this conclusion when you literally call another person your rock.
Your partner should be your rock, end of.
Please please please don’t fall for this manipulative bullshit. Walk away. He is not a hood person – he is now guilting you and love bombing you too hook you in. He will then try and repeat the cycle of control and abuse. Walk away before he destroys you
thank you for the kind words. we’ve been together for about a year and 7 months (we dated previously as well but broke up due to both of our mental states). i love him. he literally saved me. and idk if i can just leave him like that.
I see you replying a lot about the rest of the relationship being “good”/“perfect” but your post also mentioned that he is hard work. So even when he isn’t treating you badly, it seems that you are likely putting way more effort into the relationship than he is. This is not healthy.
He is breaking you down so you can’t leave. He is causing you to make yourself smaller so he has less to be angry about. He doesn’t want you to succeed. He doesn’t want you to have friends. He wants you isolated. In those in between times.
So even when he isn’t yelling, he is still abusing you. You need to leave. Someone posted some UK resources for people who need help leaving an abusive situation. Please access those and start to build a healthy life for yourself. Get therapy. Find friends. Get in touch with healthy family members you miss. Build a support network and build a life. Then when you are in a good, healthy, strong place, then you you can think about how to find a healthy partner to do life with.
Please heal yourself first.
My story is pretty similar to yours. Mom died when I was a teenager. Dad remarried. I had challenges with them as I grew up. Left home and went Low / No contact until I got married. At that point things slowly started to change for the better. To the point where we see each other fairly often.
I was angry at them for a long time. I was angry at my dad for not having my back and not setting better boundaries with my Step mom. I was angry with her for pushing the relationship she wanted with a complete disregard for how I felt. In a way I am still angry at both of them because I got the label as the bad kid when all I was trying to do was be the adult in the relationship and communicate how fucked up the situation was and how they as the adults needed to do something different to have a better relationship. Instead I was ignored and told that as the adult they made the decisions. This was all wrapped up in grief and the pain of loss. Making my teenager years an ongoing toxic conflict.
It's up to you about if you want a relationship with your dad and his wife. Where our situations are different is my parents respected my boundaries. Mine never pushed for a relationship. Mine certainly never showed up at my door without an invitations. THAT'S A RED FLAG.
You don't need to have a relationship with them. But I would strongly encourage you to continue therapy to work through your feelings on the matter. You carry that weight with you and it will have an impact on the relationship you have with your kids. Working through your own pain and so that pain doesn't impact the life you have built is by far the most important task you have in front of you. Lastly, Even if you don't agree with your therapist you should understand why they think you should have relationship with them.
If you consider having a relationship with them, I would start by treating them as individuals. Relationship require work from both parties. Part of what infuriated me with my step mom was that she wanted to title of Mom but didn't want to put in the work. She wanted that respect but didn't give it. What I realized is the titles are meaningless. She can call herself your mom, but she isn't if you don't have a relationship. She can call herself Grandma all she wants but if she never meets your kids, they will never run up to an hug her like a Grandma if she doesn't have a relationship. They can call themselves whatever they want, that doesn't entitle them to have that relationship. They have to earn it.
If they want a relationship, What do you want from them? Acknowledgement. To be heard. Respect. If you met with your Dad, what do you want him to hear from you? If you met with his Wife, what would you want to tell her? I'd tell them for you to have a relationship with them: 1) It needs to start as a blank slate. Not as parent to child but simply as 1 adult to another. 2) You want to find a therapist (different than your individual therapist) to go to therapy sessions with them (one on one and the three of you). 3) Failing to follow the boundaries set will result in no contact and a restraining order.
I hear your anger and your pain. With the red flag, your parents may still be as toxic in an adult relationship has they were when you were a child. Whatever the outcome of this, your goal is to take care of yourself, your family and the life you have built. Separate,