Are you even serious about asking for opinions in Reddit?
What kind of man you are ????? You were supposed to end it right there.
You are a weak, low-value man. That is the reason she had the balls even to discuss it with you. Grow a pair, leave her and find a new partner. Act like a man.
I have seen where youve said everytime you try to bring up the situstion she says youre being manipulative.
Can i ask how youre asking her and what is actually said? Having a frank conversatiin about the lack of intimacy in a relationship is not manipulative. Its necessary. But it depends on what youre saying and how.
If yiu both cannot get on the same page on jow to communicste this issue then i think the best thing to do is tell her you both need relationship counselling because youre trying to communicate a very real problem in your relationship and its not fair to palm this proboem off with 'youre being manipulative' each and everytime to make you feel guilty and shut you down.
She needs to open up about how she feels. Why does she say this? Does she really think that or is there a bigger issue she doesnt want to talk about? Like shes no longer interested in you sexually but she doesnt know how to say it or if she even wants to so she just makes you feel like shit to shut the subject down? Is there something you can both be doing to improve libido? Etc. Shutting you down like that and making you feel guilty for a basic need is manipulstive in and of itself assuming you srent using guilt trips when talking to her about it.
So as said. You both need help communicating and maybe the best way to do so is therapy of some kind or mediation.
Chesting wont help this issue. Be frank with your wife about the fact this issue needs to be explored properly and its not fair of her to keep making you feel like shit to stop the convo.
At the end of the day sexual incompatibility is perfectly ok to break up over and you are not ridiculous for doing so. But you should try everything you can to salvage things before either walking away or giving up on a happy sex life. Life is too sjort to be miserable either way.
You leave!
Are you even serious about asking for opinions in Reddit?
What kind of man you are ????? You were supposed to end it right there.
You are a weak, low-value man. That is the reason she had the balls even to discuss it with you. Grow a pair, leave her and find a new partner. Act like a man.
I have seen where youve said everytime you try to bring up the situstion she says youre being manipulative.
Can i ask how youre asking her and what is actually said? Having a frank conversatiin about the lack of intimacy in a relationship is not manipulative. Its necessary. But it depends on what youre saying and how.
If yiu both cannot get on the same page on jow to communicste this issue then i think the best thing to do is tell her you both need relationship counselling because youre trying to communicate a very real problem in your relationship and its not fair to palm this proboem off with 'youre being manipulative' each and everytime to make you feel guilty and shut you down.
She needs to open up about how she feels. Why does she say this? Does she really think that or is there a bigger issue she doesnt want to talk about? Like shes no longer interested in you sexually but she doesnt know how to say it or if she even wants to so she just makes you feel like shit to shut the subject down? Is there something you can both be doing to improve libido? Etc. Shutting you down like that and making you feel guilty for a basic need is manipulstive in and of itself assuming you srent using guilt trips when talking to her about it.
So as said. You both need help communicating and maybe the best way to do so is therapy of some kind or mediation.
Chesting wont help this issue. Be frank with your wife about the fact this issue needs to be explored properly and its not fair of her to keep making you feel like shit to stop the convo.
At the end of the day sexual incompatibility is perfectly ok to break up over and you are not ridiculous for doing so. But you should try everything you can to salvage things before either walking away or giving up on a happy sex life. Life is too sjort to be miserable either way.