He doesn't see it as ruining it. Just downsizing so it's more managable. The invitation are done and are being sent out today. Once again I will power through him being a stick in the mud. I know it's going to negatively effect our relationship but it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make. When I told our daughter I rented a church for her birthday she got so excited she wants a piñata at her party and she knew there couldn't be one in our house. I still have the feeling like I'm being incredibly disrespectful to my husband but I can't do another crappy birthday party in our house. Her third birthday was a disaster and it resulted in one of the moms pushing me because she wanted more space to take pictures with her kid. My extended family still complains about her first birthday because the house was so cramped and naked.
Throwing it out there, but if he’s that much of a person of faith and you’re ok with dating an atheist, isn’t that his “failure” as a parent? Why would he cut contact with you over his inadequacy?
You need to work on saving money so that you can get a different living situation because I can tell you right now you can talk to this chick all day long but she's used to having other people clean up her messes. Whether that's her parents, her partner, or now her roommate.
Talking with her and giving ultimatums is just going to make the entire situation stressful for you both and it's going to result in you still continuing to clean up everything.
Get your ducks in a row, and try to find somewhere else to live.
I don’t really understand the reference… just my personal preference so i don’t know what else to tell you really
He doesn't see it as ruining it. Just downsizing so it's more managable. The invitation are done and are being sent out today. Once again I will power through him being a stick in the mud. I know it's going to negatively effect our relationship but it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make. When I told our daughter I rented a church for her birthday she got so excited she wants a piñata at her party and she knew there couldn't be one in our house. I still have the feeling like I'm being incredibly disrespectful to my husband but I can't do another crappy birthday party in our house. Her third birthday was a disaster and it resulted in one of the moms pushing me because she wanted more space to take pictures with her kid. My extended family still complains about her first birthday because the house was so cramped and naked.
Throwing it out there, but if he’s that much of a person of faith and you’re ok with dating an atheist, isn’t that his “failure” as a parent? Why would he cut contact with you over his inadequacy?
You need to work on saving money so that you can get a different living situation because I can tell you right now you can talk to this chick all day long but she's used to having other people clean up her messes. Whether that's her parents, her partner, or now her roommate.
Talking with her and giving ultimatums is just going to make the entire situation stressful for you both and it's going to result in you still continuing to clean up everything.
Get your ducks in a row, and try to find somewhere else to live.