You’re totally right. You need to coparent and the kids deserve to spend time with the mom. You need to tell her that option of no coparenting is off the table bc YOUR kids should be your priority. If she can’t understand that then you shouldn’t have ever married her. She should’ve knew the consequences as an adult she’s not seeing both sides as she should
What… what would be better if he proposed? He will do this the moment he realizes she is really leaving, and acceptance of this would be the worst idea?
I don’t see anything wrong with this honestly, you gave her the a gift that you think she deserved.
You’re totally right. You need to coparent and the kids deserve to spend time with the mom. You need to tell her that option of no coparenting is off the table bc YOUR kids should be your priority. If she can’t understand that then you shouldn’t have ever married her. She should’ve knew the consequences as an adult she’s not seeing both sides as she should
Doesn’t matter you asked to be exclusive and he got someone pregnant what don’t you see that’s wrong with this
He's a taker. You can do both, tell him how you feel, and then cut him out of your life. You found out what kind of friend he really is.
What… what would be better if he proposed? He will do this the moment he realizes she is really leaving, and acceptance of this would be the worst idea?