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Take off Panties [Multi Goal]
Date: November 27, 2022
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He is being extremely selfish and also immature not to talk about it. Sex is give and take and can be an amazing part of a fulfilling relationship, but not without any communication ??♀️
He sounds lazy
Open relationships anit for everyone. In fact I'd say very few people could actually handle the unique problems that come with open relationships or swinging. I think you just found out you don't actually like that kinda life.
Your husband sucks on multiple levels. Sorry he pushed you into it and then got mad that his feewings were hurt. Boohoo.
WASP means White Anglo Saxon Protestant. It doesn’t say anything about money or social class. So even though you are also Irish Catholic, you are by definition a WASP.
They weren’t even fighting or having an argument. It’s out of the blue after she met his family.
Then I feel sorry for your wife that you’re so insecure?
We’re a hispanic family, where my parents only know strict traditional rules, emotional neglect, and so on. Me being a legal adult means nothing to them as long as I live! with them. “Just move out”. That would be wonderful if it were just that easy. I skipped some very important details about why I can’t just get up and leave, but I chose to leave that out because it’s very personal. I am aware that I’m a piece of shit for not bringing this up way sooner and I am also disgusted in myself. I am telling him the whole situation and I understand that he could end it with me. I seriously do appreciate your comment, not being sarcastic.
Christ-mas is all around us…
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Sis… please……. ?
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Advice? if he doesn't follow the rules, he doesn't get the goods. Could mean no more BJs
Love this. First step was boundaries. He didn't respect it (more than once).
Firm & hard boundaries step 2
Breaking up over this? Fucking dumb from him. Why dumb? Because if he let's a relationship fall because of a simple fucking boundary like this, then he's a fucking idiot. You're worth more than this, op.
If/when op inevitably breaks up, her ex-bf is going to be begging to have her back. It's actually funny to see how toxic people turn when they suddenly don't have someone that actually cared for them.
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He doesn’t want to marry you he has told you that. But he will agree to marry you in order to stay in his lifestyle and as long as you pay for it. This tells you everything you need to know.
Do not marry a man who clearly doesn’t want to marry you.
Your were the side piece …..depends n whether you feel revenge is justified?
No, because I get 8 hours—I don’t have to use an alarm to get up. My husband sleeps around 10 per night, so he’s in bed at the same time as me and usually wakes up right when I’m leaving for work. On our days off, I don’t set an alarm but don’t sleep any later. I’m just grumpy in the morning!
Ugh thanks for validating that. I wouldn't do that either, and I said that to him and he got defensive. I'm going to talk to him about it again once things have cooled off but I thought we were on the same page with that stuff. And we share a phone because mine broke recently and I'm working on getting a new one.
The part where he shut the conversation down and now won't initiate sex, maybe? Wild guess.
Take a page from the lady's playbook of white lying when they want to diffuse a situation without pissing the other person off
“Sorry, I have a girlfriend”
Yeah, she is having a reaction without thinking. Explain to her how it works, and if she still has a bad reaction, she may not be mature enough for your life.
A post nuptial agreement.
It would be very easy, as she said the lills were kept near the bread so already in the kitchen. Microwaving something would take a minute while she could be on the toilet or something.
I am not sure what part of this story you need advice on? Do you expect your girlfriend to want sex every single time you do? Do you expect that your sexual connection will be as strong as the start of a relationship every single day then on and never dim? What do you think she's “bullshitting” you on exactly?
OP has very much embarrassed his girlfriend
OP has really put her in a crap position by not thinking about how that picture looks out of context.
What the fuck are you talking about? OP isn't the one who took the picture, nor was he aware that the picture was taken until it was sent to the group chat.
This is why sex ed is important. Unfortunately OP still has the mind of a teenager. Its always immature and clueless ppl like him rush in to having children this young. I feel bad for his kids
He told you at the top of the relationship – no pets. Not sure why now you think he should compromise? He laid it out honestly and at the beginning? What more do you want?
It terms of ‘fairness’ m, it seems you are to one being unfair?
Look, I get it, some dudes can be kinda lazy, but if you're really into this guy, you gotta make it known what you need from him. Don't just sit around and wait for him to change, you gotta speak up, bruh.
He's obviously not listenin' to you right now, so you gotta make it clear that you ain't gonna take the lack of affection and love anymore. And, seriously, stop pouncing on him for sex, that's not how it works. You gotta make him want it, not just be available all the time. Show him what he's missing, ya know?
And, as for the “I love you” thing, don't hold your breath, man. Some dudes just ain't good with the emotions and stuff, and that's okay. But, if it's really important to you, you gotta let him know that too. Communication is key in any relationship, bro.
And, finally, don't you dare even think about leaving this guy. You love him for a reason, remember that. But, if things don't change, then you gotta make a decision. Don't waste your time on a dude who can't give you what you need.
There is such a thing called ethical porn…….. Hell, there’s even subreddits were couples do porn together. Not all of it is vile and disgusting. You just haven’t bothered to look for the good in it.
Plainly he needs to shut the meddling sister who obviously is doing this on purpose to you down! You are gonna have to face the fact that you are more than likely going to just have to break up with him and move on.
Are you married to my ex husband? Because he said the EXACT same thing to me with an added “I just want a NORMAL wife!!!”
Okay byeeeee!
OP please leave him, he’s only going to get worse and there are men who actually appreciate those qualities.
You’re 38 and still this naive? Move on
Okay yeah I just have to think of some explanation so he doesn't press me for answers because it's going to seem really random to him when we break up I think. You're right I think it's best to just not tell him what happened. Thank you very much for taking the time to reply I really appreciate it.
I think when I was talking with her I really only said the first half, or at least at first. I wonder if putting that kind of reassurance that this is temporary and I just have to cool down up front would be helpful in easing her anxiety. Thank you for the suggestion!
Breaking up would be my go to move. I would never stay with someone who disrespected me so badly.
Relationship is over, it's obvious he's already banging her and he wants to do it guilt free. Nobody with respect for their S/O would keep in contact with their ex's. Child custody is the only exception
If your always told to not do something because a specific response will happen and then the one time it’s done you get the exact response you were told is going to happen 9/10 you probably won’t do that thing again that’s just a fact
I’m not saying it’s right I’m saying I understand and calling it misogynistic is not the correct description of this situation
20 minutes for a 23yo isnt alot of time tbh. But I do see your point. Were the text convos more one-sided?(i.e. you always get one word answers from her?)
I fully accept this is my trauma, hoping to get some advice how to address this ongoing issue
Find a husband who supports you and tries to work with you on your issues
My advice is too dump her and learn from your mistakes.
You are 22, meaning you started dating her when you were 15 and you have 3 damn kids?
My dude. Dump her and learn how to have sex with protection with your next girlfriend.
When you live! with someone it is wildly disrespectful to have people over without giving them some forewarning. Wife should have given some warning. When people come home they should be able to be themselves and at peace. You have to fake smile at work all day. When you come home you should be able to feel how you feel and if you can’t at the very least someone should let you know beforehand that you need to fake smile for another few hours. I would have a conversation with your wife that she needs to let you know when people are over beforehand. You could apologize for being rude just to keep the peace but your wife is rude and selfish.
Like a friend… Friends have opinions based on what he says
You ignored a million red flags and bought a poor innocent child into this mess. Focus on your kid and let this guy go.
So she threw a tantrum over an overpriced purse? That ain’t love, that’s gold digging, drop her like a hard potato.
Grow a spine and dump her. Stop being a doormat. You are in charge of your own destiny!
Wow if knowing that he is married is still not enough for you to get over your crush then you need to grow up tbh and stop giggling over every guy who pays you any slight attention. You're 24 not 14.
Just tell your mom and let her talk to him. Case closed.
He was heartbroken when I ended things and pleaded with me to try and figure things out
Meaning: take the abuse to date him..he wont stand up, he will never stand up to them..
What does he expect to just you work it out and he just not do anything and run away from it
Yikes at least it's curable. Welp time to tell her and break up for good. You should also stop being a creep and date women closer to your age.
Leave him and get intensive therapy for yourself. Do not allow your child to be raised in this environment.
She sounds absolutely exhausting. Maybe she doesn't even realize how much she bitches about everything at you, just tell her. “Hey, I'm sorry I said STFU but you are constantly at me over EVERYTHING. Do you know how much you criticize me?”
And he says..? What is his explanation?
My husband’s 53 and there’s no sign of this oh it’s old age, hormone decline etc. Don’t accept that.
Poor diet (too many ultra processed foods) underlies so much. Makes you feel rubbish mentally and physically and why would you want sex when you feel rubbish? It’s the first thing to go.
Alcohol, stress, anxiety, he reeled you in and now has stopped making any effort? What is it?
Simply a loss of attraction or his attention is being diverted elsewhere then it’s game over. Other reasons can be worked through.