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Date: October 20, 2022
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Lots of things, like their plans over Christmas, school, how things are going… lots of things 🙁
You made your request and it was denied. But, at this stage unless he removed himself from all social media. You will just assume he is looking at women. So, probably best for both parties that it ends.
Sometimes things don't go the way u think will do. Some great people don't have supportive and good families. And after all ur not gonna on-line that much with ur families. Ur gonna online mostly with each other and meet families only on a few occasions. If ur having a good time with ur GF. That is most likely enuf to be exact.
So sorry for what you've been through ok. I will advise you get yourself engage in different kinda activities e.g playing games each time that feelings of her comes up. It really helped me and i pray you get over it soon ok.
This person has no regard for you or anyone else. Unless you want a life of this, move along.
Get the job. A lot of families have two working parents.
A lot of older men with kids sucker their much younger partners into giving up their lives to play underpaid nanny.
He should be supporting you in this. If something were to happen to him, you'll have no way of supporting yourself.
Personally, I think farting is gross. I'm not gonna leave the room to do it with my spouse but I'm definitely not gonna do it to be funny but that's me.
Good luck bud!
so as a guy, this actually happened to, albeit in a smaller scale, how the fuck did you let this go so far.
you tell him, right now.
you are going to permantly and violently alter this person for the rest of his entire life, he might never trust anyone ever again, you might just grind his little should down to a smoldering stunted lump of coal permanently.
we know you can on-line with being a piece of shit so it probably doesn't actually matter to you that much.
but if you don't tell him I hope he finds out, and you find that deep down in the void where your souls should be guilt explodes to life like a little universe in there and it's the only thing you can ever feel, forever, and you are never not feeling it.
because even then, itl be nothing compared to whats about to happen to him.
Everyone projects an image. I’m not the same with my girlfriend as I am with my best friend, or my family, or my colleagues. It’s not necessarily deceptive
So, you tried to talk about a lack of intimacy and him not initiating things physically. And he flipped this into criticism of how you act at parties?
Do you not see what a manipulative tool this guy is? He builds you up to tear you down so you'll stay with him. Look up emotional abuse. Hell, look up “negging”
The only thing you're doing wrong is staying with someone who plays these horrible games to hurt you. Wake up.
Now defending her but it honestly sounds like an addiction.
Dump her.
I’m confused.
Are u saying u ARE street smart?
There is a difference between street and book smart. And street smart is not always covered by “common sense”
Idk, not sure
U directly asked him tho so it’s I guess moving foward, be sure not to ask stuff like this that could hurt ur feelings.
But you are complicit in the lie / scheme.
Ignore the relationship aspect for a second. It is like an apartment owner / landlord renting to a tenant, and the tenant secretly sublets a room in the property without informing the landlord.
As you are at the bottom of the totem pole in this scheme, there isn't much you can do. Familiarize yourself with local tenancy laws perhaps so that you know your rights in the event that she or her parents ever try to evict you. If you are renting, do you have a rental agreement?
Does she report her rent as income and pay taxes on it? I doubt it.
Would $800 instead of $1000 be more reasonable? I don't understand what aspect of of paying for shelter is embarrassing.
You mention she is abusive but fail to elaborate. Please explain. So she says “hey I want to go out for dinner” and you say “sorry I can't afford to” and somehow she abuses you until you change your mind. Then when you are there you somehow are still paying for some percentage of the meal greater than 0%?
I don't understand that. If she wants to take you out for dinner why doesn't she simply pay for both of you? And then you would have no qualms about going out either, correct?
Lol wow that's a wild story! My ex cheated a lot and would have a tracker on my phone, always went through it and was nosey about every conversation I had. Wouldn't let me go to the store by myself even. I had no idea he was cheating until it had been months, maybe longer.
This is a very good point and OPs husband may not understand that. He may have been told but he clearly is not getting it. I know he wants to have a child, but I don’t think he should. He’s not mature enough to deal with the consequences.
Leaving you with that level of vulnerability and not taking into account all the time you’ve already dedicated to his family is terrible. I think you’re right about him being arrogant and emotionally immature. He’s 31, few chances that this will ever change.
Cut your losses and be grateful that it took just one trip to find out who he was.
I felt that feeling for sure. At 16. And again at 19. And again at 23. And then again with my now husband years later lol you will fall in love many times in your life, over and over, but you stay in love with someone who trusts you.
This might be a case where its better to take the L and move on. My froend was in a similar situation with a cop and things got much worse before they got….. well… not shit.
Should explain what happened, then you can ask more questions if needed.
Recently, I tried to commit unalive, and reason isn't to do with him, but other reasons I won't get into.
The person I spoke to told me to pick something out, pick a day to do it, and look forward to it until my counsellor appointment, which is today.
The whole week him and I talked about this event that I was excited for and come 2 nights ago. He found out this movie he wants to see is out and he started organising with his friend to go do it. I told him, the movie isn't going anywhere and he can pick going on the weekend. He agreed with me.
Then come the morning… he is asking me if I want to come that night to go see the movie. I reminded him of the event happening that night and his response was “I forgot”
Then he tries to make me decide what do I want to do. “We can go to the movies or the event, it's completely up to you”
I don't want to see the movie, I wanted to go to the event. That's why I am upset with him and I asked for some space, he dropped off a gift for me as his way of sorry and he went to the movies last night.
We haven't spoken since last night and then this morning I woke up to those messages. I would rather talk to him in person about this but, my space I needed to think of what I was going to say without saying the wrong thing or doing what I usually do which is those messages from this morning, I would of gone straight to apologising to him for making him feel bad and that would be it. Him acting like he didn't do something wrong
Not 4 me.
Go on the trip, have a great time, have growth and experiences and then come back and realize even more how pathetic it is that he’s feeling some kind of way and making it an issue.
He’s now tied to her for life. Physically, emotionally and financially. It’s NEVER going to go away. You will NEVER have a better chance of walking away unscathed. Not married. No kids. No mortgage. No joint debts. You only get to make decisions perhaps two or three times which are going to affect your whole life. This is one of them. Big girl’s pants on now. Good luck. ❤️
Breaaaaakkk uppppppppppppp
You’re overthinking. If you’re not feeling healthy, move on.
I know, he lacks the empathy and awareness to fathom that COVID is still a problem. He doesn’t have bad intentions, but he’s apparently oblivious to life and the concerns of people outside his 24yo bubble 🙁 it is selfish
Yeah this is super possessive and abusive. And VERY manipulative. Take your fight. He threatens to break up with you hoping you'll cave again and come hang out with you. He didn't mean it. Her just wanted to manipulate you into something. And when you called his bluff it became nothing but overel exaggerated boo-hoo. He's trying to isolate every aspect of your life to revolve around him.
If you think this is bad now. How do you think it'll be once it completely isolates you? You're so young. You're going to be off to college soon. Please don't let this guy drag you down. Because once you're out of school. Ohhhh boy, he's going to push and shove for you to only be with him instead of moving forward in your life. This is extremely not healthy. You need to break it off and go zero contact ASAP. Will it be hot? Very. But then day by day you'll realize you've made the right choice.
Conversations with siblings are often unfiltered in a way that would offend most partners.
Here’s the most important question: is he a good, caring, respectful partner to you, in person and in your life?
You invaded his privacy and saw a conversation with that wasn’t meant for you, that’s on you.
But if he treats you well, loves you and demonstrates that love, why would you take a few dumb texts with his sister so seriously?
She could flip??? She unplugged all the electronics and brought them upstairs while throwing all of his clothes downstairs. This person is completely unhinged