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Date: October 12, 2022
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Propose to him, if he rejects leave.
You don’t because it is not normal. You taking this view point from where?
Unless it's your job, video gaming for 8 hours is indeed terrible for you. I enjoy it also and can play that long to, but don't say it's healthy. Even if it was your job, it would still be terrible for you, but at least you're making money for your troubles.
I’d honestly pull back and stay professional and polite.
Truthfully, I’m not sure the intentions were there as you don’t seem like an airhead.
Still, it’s wrong behaviour.
In life, it doesn’t matter what our feelings and intentions are. Right is right and wrong is wrong. Do not engage with this person outside of your gaming mediums.
Thank you for your feedback
Don't ask her, this might lead to lots of worries and troubles down the road.
Her approach to touch doesn't have to mean anything. I touch my friends all the time, especially my female friends, in a platonic manner. That doesn't mean I want to have sex with them.
(Even though I'm a lot more attracted to women than I am to men)
You don’t have to share that with anyone you don’t want to. Ever.
Sounds like a you problem. I was stating a fact. If you're butthurt, nothing I can do about it.
This dude suckss
Have the discussion now and set expectations.
This is such a nonsense to ask anyone else than your BF…! In fact I was in the same position as your BF but we never ever discussed the performance in bed, because it was very good as it was! Just follow your vibe and must be good enough! Oh, if we speak about kinks and stuff, ask him.
You will be good, trust me. More love with your bf is all needed and nothing else. Good luck!
Definitely, the way you say it can change the whole deal. Even without being as nice as the previous commenter scripted it, there is a difference between basically « You’re putting the baby in danger, get out » and « Wouldn’t it be better if you stayed elsewhere for a while ? I know it’s not ideal but imagine if the baby catches it ».
Plus you said your family being here prevented you from having a room where he could have been quarantined in your house. It’s a loft, but it has a room, you just left it to your parents.
I understand he’s not happy about it, these are situations where you have to talk together and not dictate things. He was tired, sick, probably needed a little love and hugs and he didn’t have a saying in the discussion, you said he couldn’t stay, period.
Soft YTA, because I definitely understand your heart was in the right place and you did what you thought was better, but you just had a baby, your parents are home, you were separated for a while. It’s a tough moment, and you both have to communicate better to avoid this type of things affecting your relationship. He’ll calm down eventually.
on one hand that almost seems like she did feel guilty if she reached out after that long and if it was bugging her and the fact that she needed you to forgive her. but then the way she acted like she had no idea how badly she hurt you sort of contradicts that. it's very weird.
Right.. so there are “texts from him” that have his number at the top. The number looks to be photoshopped. In the multiple screen shots she sent there were pictures of him included that could have been screenshotted from his social media. What I am saying is they look fake, but A LOT of work went into this if it was faked.
He is a grown man, and if he is old enough to have a girlfriend, he is old enough to discuss normal bodily functions that happen to every woman on the planet.
ya i dont wanna hurt. i will just not respond to his texts.
That is a good point.
I just don't want to see him so hurt.
In a perfect world I guess they would just hear him out you know? but its not a perfect world and I think I just have some accepting to do.
Thank you for your advice x
Thank you so much.
Why do you want to be in a relationship with him?
Do you honestly think that he wants to be in a relationship with you?
Divorce immediately. There’s no valid excuse to cheat on someone and then lie and get caught.
I’ve got Autism, I’ve got depression, anxiety, Just Right OCD, PTSD and you know what? None of that is a valid excuse to cheat.
My grandma was bipolar and she never cheated. Her first husband did though. He was a piece of shit and blamed it on PTSD for marrying a woman in Vietnam and having 2 kids with her while still married to my grandma then left my grandma and my mom and aunt to get married to some other lady and had 5 kids with her.
I’d wait til he left for work, have a bunch of friends and family help me pack everything and leave before he got back.
You deserve better op
She was just thinking about it and clearly wanted to talk to you. If this is how you treat her no wonder she hasnt bought it up till now.
And if fucking anyone compared me to my abusive parents id end it, thats so cruel.
It still blows my mind how many couples do not have this very serious conversation before getting engaged. Or lead their partner on making them think they want kids when they really don’t. That’s not really something that changes. Make sure you talk about all the major topics when it comes to being married BEFORE getting engaged.
Accountable is what I did was wrong, I'm sorry I will go.
Accountable is not, but she's done worse to me, but she didn't respect my boundaries, but she touched feet with another dude, and I didn't.
You are doing the latter
You are shit talking this girl into the ground to hold onto that you didn't do something as bad as she did, so she shouldn't break up with you because it was only once.
Tbh. I CANNOT see why you are fighting so nude to be right in this situation she doesn't even sound that great
She should break up with you for the shit you've said here alone.
You started dating but hadn't agreed to exclusivity? Seems to me that she didn't do anything wrong.
The fact that you were looking to add a third to the relationship makes this choice of yours super weird. It seems like you're the non-trusting/jealous type. Getting into threesomes is not a good idea for someone like that.
First idea : voice this to him , tell him you’re insecure , that even if there’s no reason for you to be insecure , you feel like you need emotional support
Second idea: you don’t seem ready for a relation ship, if all the energy you will have is you being insecure , then maybe you need to learn more about yourself , learn how to love yourself and trust yourself, this is a journey of your own , and having the relation at the same time might be unpractical
Third idea: this age gap isn’t healthy , one way or another , this will create some discourse in the relation ship , men who date younger girls are usually walking red flags, it means they struggle to date women who are their own age, this is not a 100% science , but it’s pretty consistent
So the first time, maybe you did right by working it through.
But his continued inappropriate communication with women is a massive red flag.
As for what you are doing wrong, nothing other than staying in the relationship. Dump him now.
Why should she turn down a free drink?
Listen, there are very few perks to being a woman. We deal with periods and cramps and childbirth. We usually make less than a man doing the same job function. We are usually are the ones doing the lion’s share of parenting, house work, and cooking. ONE perk to being a woman is getting some free fucking drinks! ?♀️?
Admittedly, your ex was shady so I get it. You didn’t trust her for valid reasons. But I hope you don’t expect other women to follow this no clubbing rule because it IS controlling. Don’t date women you don’t trust. It’s not worth it.
Thank you. You are absolutely right. I'm just terrified that he will lie to me again. And it freaking hurts that he lied about 4 women. It wasn't just a one time lie, he hid all that from me
I mean…late is late and if you knew you’d be late, why not call in advance?
Her reaction is shitty and this is a way bigger issue than today’s event. But not responding isn’t exactly the healthy thing to do either.
Seems to me that you two need some couples counseling. She’s dumping a lot on you in a very manipulative way. Like…she knew the dog was out of food. She just figured she’d ask you to feed it, realize it was out, and you’d fix the situation.
She doesn’t sound very fun to be with.
My partner and I (both mid 40’s) do for each other and are appreciative when someone helps the other out. Like today…..partner’s vehicle needed repairs. We had a thing to go to for his brother. Repairs took longer than planned so I took his son to the event, sorted the dogs, No problem. He thanked me. But this was like a one time thing in YEARS. And if I have to work late and ask him to take over dinner for me as I’m usually the one cooking, he does and I thank him.
But your wife is taking advantage of you. And she’s not appreciative either!
He thinks he is your parent and you are playing along.
I eventually told her my opinion about it… Issue is resolved
I’m sure you left out some parts for brevity sake, but it sounds like you’ve talked AT her and not WITH her. You told her your opinion, but did you ask her about her opinion? Did you seek to understand her behavior, her feelings, her thoughts?
Relationships aren’t about being right and being wrong as much as they are seeking to understand each other, learn from each other, and find common ground.
It sounds like she took the time to look at things from your perspective. Did you do the same for her?
And if you did? Good for you! Just didn’t come through in your post??♂️
Tell him his ideals aren't ideal.
Brown eyes are lovely. ALL eye colours are!
Thank you, this is a good summary. Sorry for the late respond, let's just say life happened a few days after i posted and it's been a bit of a whirlwind since.
But you make many good points here for me to consider.
I've had to spend some Time with Emily lately withouth going into to much details (not back together) and a few of my questions have been aswered, others not, as you say what was in her head is a big puzzle. But she seems genuinly remorsful, and i have confirmation that she has denied Mark twice since he sent that latter, the last time with a long and brutal text about that she hates him. But i still feel conflicted where to go, some days i like keeping her as a friend, others i feel like i want more then the next day i wake up and don't want to see her. That's basicly the repeating cycle the last weeks
Because saying okay while passed out drunk on the couch is totally the go ahead I look for while making major decisions.
How is her lying to me about a medical exam none of my business?
Just say hey, i haven't said anything before because it's a weird thing for me, but I have some issues surrounding food sharing. Would it be ok if we just got our own things from now on?
This man is going to murder you if you stay.
If you leave, at least you have a chance.
But seriously, you need to go to a divorce attorney and figure out a safe exit strategy and get professional guidance on how to safely exit this marriage. You need to keep both yourself and your daughter safe. And, just a little reminder, men who marry their partners are the same people who often murder their children.
Don't fool yourself into thinking staying makes you or your daughter safer, because it doesn't.