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I‘ve good friends and acquaintances in the medical field who see death everyday and don‘t react like that. F.e. one is a lung doctor in the hospital and saw a lot of s*t during Covid.
This is a PERSONALITY problem. Not a WORK problem.
Not quite. There are many couples who allow each other to follow thirst traps, but draw the line at posting thirst traps themselves. So not really the same thing. A better analogy to two different set of rules would be if he doesn’t want her to follow male thirst traps on Instagram, but still insists she let him, or vice versa.
Still, I do agree that his disregard for her personal boundaries in this matter warrants her breaking up with him so that she can find someone with the same view on something that is apparently very important to her.
Wait you were supposed to get married? And they cheated on you not once but multiple times over few months? They had enough chances to stop it. Why would you give them a free pass? Why exactly did they now stopped with cheating and did they end it or another person? That says also a lot. Personally i don't think i would be able to forgive. Especially since it wasn't just one time. And you never know if they gonna do I again. Take time and think it through. Do you wanna try? Can you even forgive them and move on? Some people stay and keep going some cannot. Sadly you need to answer that for yourself.
It sounds like you already know you should break up now.
It’s only been 4 months, what are you really losing?
Was there even a conversation of him spending the same amount of time in Canada as you spent in France? Was there a discussion about living literally anywhere else? Or was this just a “hey you’re already here where I am, why not just stay?” kinda deal
Get her involved with a church or her local senior center. It may take some serious effort, like going with her, but she needs a community and you need to not be her only friend.
You’re 62. A 42 year old woman wanted to date you for money. This is a reality you are not prepared to accept because if bruises your ego… but that is what you have to offer a so-much-younger woman.
Be glad you got your money back and date a woman closer to your own age.
there are far, far too many women out there posting about their literal nasty ass boyfriends and what to do about it. LEAVE is the most dignified thing to do, great personality or not. just disgusting.
Most people will never be the perfect type of everything someone wants AND your not suppose to your job isn’t to be this perfect person for HER it’s to stick to the partnership you agreed to be in. So what your not assumed her sexual preference your probably a lot more than that to her. 90-10 but she’s with you so your definitely the 90 in her book, calm down.
Your daughter called CPS on your husband. Pretty sure he does not feel safe around her and does not trust she won’t pull another abusive stunt. Sounds like you are ignoring his trauma from your daughters actions.
It’s not about the holiday no matter how important to you.
It’s that y’all made plans and he bailed on you without giving you notice.
Coulda been drunk, lost track of time, whatever, but at the end of the day he dropped the ball.
“Doesn’t think about you often” as an excuse means, he doesn’t respect you enough to make that simple of an expectation a priority. In his head you weren’t worth that low bar of effort. You should be upset.
Most guys aren’t wired to feel emotions the same, but he should be wired where he can recognize that’s not okay, he should communicate better, want to be more responsible, and made you feel bad.
He’s doing none of that though. So listen to him. You are the person that sets the bar for how people treat you. After you try to communicate that there’s a problem(which you did) and you get treatment like this, it’s your job to act on it. If you don’t expect to be treated and prioritized like this moving forward.
This feels bad but feeling bad is part of the learning curve to figuring out what you need in a good relationship and how you need to treat someone to have one. If you choose to find this an unacceptable quality in a bf, you are taking steps to having that.
That will bite him in the ass in court. People need to stop giving this terrible advice. Same with contacting every lawyer in town so she can't find one. It's vindictive and doesn't end well for the person who did it.
Do not tell ANYONE a damn thing until you have been with them for 8 months to a year. Minimum. Money changes people and attracts bad intentions. Money shouldn’t even be in the mix of things at 23. Most 20 year olds are broke, and you’re putting a HUGE target on your back for people with manipulative intentions.
1-2 times a week away from a partner is not a big deal at all. In fact it's pretty healthy to have those gaps. When you're living together those things change just through the practicalities of sharing a home but even then, it's healthy for partners to have their own outlets and interests.
It sounds like you've hit a really strong loved up level of fully smitten… and it's not uncommon when you feel that strongly that you want to spend every waking moment with someone. That kind of thing does tend to taper off to something more manageable over time but you're probably just hitting a personal high on the honeymoon part of the relationship.
None of this is a bad thing in reality and don't let the dark thoughts of doubt creep in. They may feel real but they're not a reflection of reality.
It sounds like he's no longer emotionally invested in the relationship tbh. I feel like it's better to break it off now and have wasted five years, then keep trying to fix it and maybe waste five more.
He seems wholly disinterested in you as a person and I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s only with you because you’re so doting on him. Please break up with him and find someone who values you for you and not what you can do for them. He’s 7 years older than you and treats you like a maid or his mother- he doesn’t even let you have a job?
Mom here. Lots going on. I think that you move home for a bit. It’s not because I think you are losing her. I don’t. I really don’t. I think that you are losing yourself and need a mental health reset. It’s the perfect time to do that. You take a semester and you both work on yourselves while continuing to talk and plan for the future. Go home.
Option 2. Contract: never go into a business without a legal contact. You can help with funding providing you get a monthly balanced statement and percentage of said business also a return on your investment but you're only helping to finance only. Due to how your finances are established.
10:1 he wants you to join your funds so he can have access to your money and it's not really about starting a business.
Repeat after me: I deserve better and there is no point in being with a person who doesn't know what they want and don't make some effort to show me that I'm important to them.
I am just curious here. A lot of people says she needs to divorce him and run away.
Divorce is expensive, how would it make her situation better? She has a low income salary, struggle to keep herself a float. He has nothing, i guess no savings the way she made me think about it.
He made a stupid mistake, maybe his old job had him stressed and he hated his boss. He made a very poor call, he burned his bridges and now he got burned while doing it. No one here disagrees on that.
I just feel that he might need some support, hopefully someone can get through to him and help him understand that he made a stupid mistake.
He has to own up to this mistake and learn from it. Maybe he has some serious mental issues.
To immediately just divorce him for being this stupid, not the best move.
If he does not want to work on himself and try to improve his mental capacity and he does not realise he made a stupid mistake, sure, cut him lose before he sinks your ship too.
This subreddit is filled with stories like this, usually it’s a FWB situation and one of the involved parties was still sleeping with the FWB while dating the other person. While there is nothing wrong with this as long as everything is communicated up front and there isn’t any lying involved, you still have a right to feel bummed about the situation. You have to ask yourself whether or not you can move past it or if it will on-line rent free on your head for the duration of this relationship. If you can move past it, great. If not, you owe it to yourself and the woman you are dating to end things because it’s not fair to either of you.
The long distance has now started affecting when we are together too. It's like there's nothing gone really bad yet but still there's something missing.. I am getting used to not having him around.
This is 100% inappropriate from somebody in a position of power. I’m not going to say “report him immediately” as many might say. But definitely consider talking to someone if you can. It depends on your comfort level on which route to take.
But this is definitely not normal. He’s like 3x your age, married AND your boss.
Not always, this is the first time he's reacted like that to something that has happened between us. Sometimes when he feels sad he'll close himself off and ignore the world for a bit but I've only seen that one other time. (he had some family issues I think)
You need to break up with him. You’re not compatible. Can you see yourself living like this for the rest of your life? If the answer’s no then you already know what to do. Do not settle for less. I’m Chinese and this is not an excuse for his behavior, culture has nothing to do with it.
He cleans the dishes, throws away the scraps, cleans the workplan, cleans the sink because she puts all her garbage there. The issue is her disregarding the mess she causes and disrespecting his time. A diswasher addresses nothing at all. It's like saying “hire a housemaid” when a partner refuses to help clean the house.
100% do as she says and leave her alone. She sounds awful and this sounds like nothing but a trainwreck for you. She dumps you after two months, then dishes insults at you after you go out of your way to help her? Screw that. Wash your hands of this mess.
You just have to swallow it like a man and try to forget it. Go talk to some one or a therapist to understsnd your feelings.
There is too much at stake if you keep this bottled up or take issue with your wife now. You have 3 children and so far you have a happy.marriage.
Just pretend that she slept with those guys that you dont know about. Think of it this way, you have also slept with many women before you met your wife that Im sure you havent fully tell her about, some you also may have still.be in contact!.
wont your wife also have these issues to score with you as well.
Forget the information and dont ever talk to your brother again..
I‘ve good friends and acquaintances in the medical field who see death everyday and don‘t react like that. F.e. one is a lung doctor in the hospital and saw a lot of s*t during Covid.
This is a PERSONALITY problem. Not a WORK problem.
So he can be cruel to you, but you can’t be cruel to him? How does that work?
your partner is unfortunately a very severe alcoholic. the shaking and gagging are withdrawal symptoms
Not quite. There are many couples who allow each other to follow thirst traps, but draw the line at posting thirst traps themselves. So not really the same thing. A better analogy to two different set of rules would be if he doesn’t want her to follow male thirst traps on Instagram, but still insists she let him, or vice versa.
Still, I do agree that his disregard for her personal boundaries in this matter warrants her breaking up with him so that she can find someone with the same view on something that is apparently very important to her.
Wait you were supposed to get married? And they cheated on you not once but multiple times over few months? They had enough chances to stop it. Why would you give them a free pass? Why exactly did they now stopped with cheating and did they end it or another person? That says also a lot. Personally i don't think i would be able to forgive. Especially since it wasn't just one time. And you never know if they gonna do I again. Take time and think it through. Do you wanna try? Can you even forgive them and move on? Some people stay and keep going some cannot. Sadly you need to answer that for yourself.
It sounds like you already know you should break up now.
It’s only been 4 months, what are you really losing?
Was there even a conversation of him spending the same amount of time in Canada as you spent in France? Was there a discussion about living literally anywhere else? Or was this just a “hey you’re already here where I am, why not just stay?” kinda deal
Get her involved with a church or her local senior center. It may take some serious effort, like going with her, but she needs a community and you need to not be her only friend.
Thank you, take care.
You’re 62. A 42 year old woman wanted to date you for money. This is a reality you are not prepared to accept because if bruises your ego… but that is what you have to offer a so-much-younger woman.
Be glad you got your money back and date a woman closer to your own age.
there are far, far too many women out there posting about their literal nasty ass boyfriends and what to do about it. LEAVE is the most dignified thing to do, great personality or not. just disgusting.
Most people will never be the perfect type of everything someone wants AND your not suppose to your job isn’t to be this perfect person for HER it’s to stick to the partnership you agreed to be in. So what your not assumed her sexual preference your probably a lot more than that to her. 90-10 but she’s with you so your definitely the 90 in her book, calm down.
Your daughter called CPS on your husband. Pretty sure he does not feel safe around her and does not trust she won’t pull another abusive stunt. Sounds like you are ignoring his trauma from your daughters actions.
That trip sounds like deal breaker to me. Manipulation, silent treatment.. he sounds like a kid who needs to grow up and learn to respect others.
This is denial speaking. You already said it was a dealbreaker. You need to break the deal.
It’s not about the holiday no matter how important to you.
It’s that y’all made plans and he bailed on you without giving you notice.
Coulda been drunk, lost track of time, whatever, but at the end of the day he dropped the ball.
“Doesn’t think about you often” as an excuse means, he doesn’t respect you enough to make that simple of an expectation a priority. In his head you weren’t worth that low bar of effort. You should be upset.
Most guys aren’t wired to feel emotions the same, but he should be wired where he can recognize that’s not okay, he should communicate better, want to be more responsible, and made you feel bad.
He’s doing none of that though. So listen to him. You are the person that sets the bar for how people treat you. After you try to communicate that there’s a problem(which you did) and you get treatment like this, it’s your job to act on it. If you don’t expect to be treated and prioritized like this moving forward.
This feels bad but feeling bad is part of the learning curve to figuring out what you need in a good relationship and how you need to treat someone to have one. If you choose to find this an unacceptable quality in a bf, you are taking steps to having that.
That will bite him in the ass in court. People need to stop giving this terrible advice. Same with contacting every lawyer in town so she can't find one. It's vindictive and doesn't end well for the person who did it.
Do not tell ANYONE a damn thing until you have been with them for 8 months to a year. Minimum. Money changes people and attracts bad intentions. Money shouldn’t even be in the mix of things at 23. Most 20 year olds are broke, and you’re putting a HUGE target on your back for people with manipulative intentions.
He did it to make you feel guilty when he was the one doing something guilt-worthy.
He is going to cheat with her.
1-2 times a week away from a partner is not a big deal at all. In fact it's pretty healthy to have those gaps. When you're living together those things change just through the practicalities of sharing a home but even then, it's healthy for partners to have their own outlets and interests.
It sounds like you've hit a really strong loved up level of fully smitten… and it's not uncommon when you feel that strongly that you want to spend every waking moment with someone. That kind of thing does tend to taper off to something more manageable over time but you're probably just hitting a personal high on the honeymoon part of the relationship.
None of this is a bad thing in reality and don't let the dark thoughts of doubt creep in. They may feel real but they're not a reflection of reality.
Follow through and put his stuff on the curb. If you're worried about him being depressed contact a family member, but you gave him enough notice.
And save all the texts and warnings about changing the locks and where you put his stuff just incase
It sounds like he's no longer emotionally invested in the relationship tbh. I feel like it's better to break it off now and have wasted five years, then keep trying to fix it and maybe waste five more.
If she felt so uncomfortable, why did she spend the whole night with him?
What happens when the next guy wants to sleep with her?
She knew what she was doing and wanted to alleviate her guilt by asking for a free pass from you.
You deserve better.
Thats on you, not her. You have to adjust to your issues.
He seems wholly disinterested in you as a person and I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s only with you because you’re so doting on him. Please break up with him and find someone who values you for you and not what you can do for them. He’s 7 years older than you and treats you like a maid or his mother- he doesn’t even let you have a job?
Mom here. Lots going on. I think that you move home for a bit. It’s not because I think you are losing her. I don’t. I really don’t. I think that you are losing yourself and need a mental health reset. It’s the perfect time to do that. You take a semester and you both work on yourselves while continuing to talk and plan for the future. Go home.
Judging from your comment, you misunderstood the point of the post
Option 2. Contract: never go into a business without a legal contact. You can help with funding providing you get a monthly balanced statement and percentage of said business also a return on your investment but you're only helping to finance only. Due to how your finances are established.
10:1 he wants you to join your funds so he can have access to your money and it's not really about starting a business.
Contract contract contract!!!!
Repeat after me: I deserve better and there is no point in being with a person who doesn't know what they want and don't make some effort to show me that I'm important to them.
Is this even the right subreddit for this?
This is the correct subreddit if you want to be told that you need to immediately end the relationship, not if you want real relationship advice
Is this even the right subreddit for this?
This is the correct subreddit if you want to be told that you need to immediately end the relationship, not if you want real relationship advice
You're young and stupid. I get it.
I am just curious here. A lot of people says she needs to divorce him and run away.
Divorce is expensive, how would it make her situation better? She has a low income salary, struggle to keep herself a float. He has nothing, i guess no savings the way she made me think about it.
He made a stupid mistake, maybe his old job had him stressed and he hated his boss. He made a very poor call, he burned his bridges and now he got burned while doing it. No one here disagrees on that.
I just feel that he might need some support, hopefully someone can get through to him and help him understand that he made a stupid mistake.
He has to own up to this mistake and learn from it. Maybe he has some serious mental issues.
To immediately just divorce him for being this stupid, not the best move.
If he does not want to work on himself and try to improve his mental capacity and he does not realise he made a stupid mistake, sure, cut him lose before he sinks your ship too.
This subreddit is filled with stories like this, usually it’s a FWB situation and one of the involved parties was still sleeping with the FWB while dating the other person. While there is nothing wrong with this as long as everything is communicated up front and there isn’t any lying involved, you still have a right to feel bummed about the situation. You have to ask yourself whether or not you can move past it or if it will on-line rent free on your head for the duration of this relationship. If you can move past it, great. If not, you owe it to yourself and the woman you are dating to end things because it’s not fair to either of you.
The long distance has now started affecting when we are together too. It's like there's nothing gone really bad yet but still there's something missing.. I am getting used to not having him around.
You realize engaged isn’t married? You realize she broke the promise when she slept with someone else?
Get a job and move out. ?
This is 100% inappropriate from somebody in a position of power. I’m not going to say “report him immediately” as many might say. But definitely consider talking to someone if you can. It depends on your comfort level on which route to take.
But this is definitely not normal. He’s like 3x your age, married AND your boss.
Not always, this is the first time he's reacted like that to something that has happened between us. Sometimes when he feels sad he'll close himself off and ignore the world for a bit but I've only seen that one other time. (he had some family issues I think)
You seem to have a shitty girlfriend. You should reevaluate your relationship with her.
Either she is stupid or she thinks you are.
Yeah it probably is. If not fake that's some outrageous shit straight from the Z category movies.
You need to break up with him. You’re not compatible. Can you see yourself living like this for the rest of your life? If the answer’s no then you already know what to do. Do not settle for less. I’m Chinese and this is not an excuse for his behavior, culture has nothing to do with it.
How about shoes when he has found you?
I would press nude on stuff you wear see if you feel something out of place.
He cleans the dishes, throws away the scraps, cleans the workplan, cleans the sink because she puts all her garbage there. The issue is her disregarding the mess she causes and disrespecting his time. A diswasher addresses nothing at all. It's like saying “hire a housemaid” when a partner refuses to help clean the house.
100% do as she says and leave her alone. She sounds awful and this sounds like nothing but a trainwreck for you. She dumps you after two months, then dishes insults at you after you go out of your way to help her? Screw that. Wash your hands of this mess.
You just have to swallow it like a man and try to forget it. Go talk to some one or a therapist to understsnd your feelings.
There is too much at stake if you keep this bottled up or take issue with your wife now. You have 3 children and so far you have a happy.marriage.
Just pretend that she slept with those guys that you dont know about. Think of it this way, you have also slept with many women before you met your wife that Im sure you havent fully tell her about, some you also may have still.be in contact!.
wont your wife also have these issues to score with you as well.
Forget the information and dont ever talk to your brother again..