He was trying to see her Monday, the say after Christmas. I found all this out Tuesday. While I was with him I mentioned that he needed to get his hair done, not sure if this is what prompted him to reach out.
Why did you have to quit your job? Could you not have called in sick for a few days?
Violence is never the solution. If my partner hurt me I would leave as well.
Sounds like you should back of for a few days and talk to a therapist. You seem very dramatic but do not seem to understand the gravity of a fight turning physical, it's not nonsense, it's very concerning.
He’s supposed to be your equal partner not your therapist and emotional support animal.
What you’re asking of him is impossible.
He’s a teenager. He’s not even fully formed mentally and emotionally and it sounds like you’re constantly making demands on him that he cannot possibly help you with.
You are being really unfair to him.
Then on the one night he wants to go meet a friend to decompress from your drama, you STILL won’t let him off, you blow up his damn phone.
You should be speaking to a therapist and you should NOT be dating until your therapist says you are ready.
This is definitely just a personal preference thing. If you don’t have the same values and it’s a deal breaker for you, then walk away.
If she says it again, you say “Excuse me?” with that one raised eyebrow side look of extreme concern. “
Yes I’m wondering that too. She mentioned that then kind of implies it doesn’t mean anything. OP, what does her being a partner entail?
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He was trying to see her Monday, the say after Christmas. I found all this out Tuesday. While I was with him I mentioned that he needed to get his hair done, not sure if this is what prompted him to reach out.
Why did you have to quit your job? Could you not have called in sick for a few days?
Violence is never the solution. If my partner hurt me I would leave as well.
Sounds like you should back of for a few days and talk to a therapist. You seem very dramatic but do not seem to understand the gravity of a fight turning physical, it's not nonsense, it's very concerning.
This is not a courtesy that often gets extended on here if the genders are reversed
He’s supposed to be your equal partner not your therapist and emotional support animal.
What you’re asking of him is impossible.
He’s a teenager. He’s not even fully formed mentally and emotionally and it sounds like you’re constantly making demands on him that he cannot possibly help you with.
You are being really unfair to him.
Then on the one night he wants to go meet a friend to decompress from your drama, you STILL won’t let him off, you blow up his damn phone.
You should be speaking to a therapist and you should NOT be dating until your therapist says you are ready.