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Aye who are we to judge I like seeing pregnant woman sometimes. Kinks aren't supposed to be socially accepted. Doesn't make us any different
She should be doing back flips to prove to you that there is nothing inappropriate between them.
Matching tats is a major fail. It's a nude no.
Pack her a bag so she can be with her BF full time.
Yeah, how is nobody thinking this. If the story is true, I’d be inclined to think parents were probably involved. God knows what went on…
“nothing will change except that you're aware of the situation” is such a baffling and tone deaf way to look at this situation, holy shit???
it CAN work, but only if everyone involved is happy and comfortable with it. you're included in everyone, and you're not happy.
Definitely talk to her about it. Both of you will have to discuss the changes made due to the fact that she is a SAHM while you are going to be occupied with all the work necessary to keep the family financially stable.
My father was a stay at home dad. He had to do the housework while my mother worked as a radiology transcriptionist. Both had a discussion about who's responsible for what, how the handle getting the kids ready and dropped off. It's not just sitting around, but it is another job.
However, just like a job, expectations needs to be made clear. And the only way to get that done is to talk about it. I can't expect a new employee at a business to know everything they need to do on their first day and what they are responsible for simply by clocking in.
You and her vs the problem. Kick its ass together.
You have a right to say no. Your concerns are valid. If she doesn’t listen or dismisses your concerns, that is very selfish and she is being coercive. Time to have a chat.
Oh of course, never engage in emotional conversation with a troll, factual conversation on the other hand, not their forte
Yeah that’s fair. The Hentai weirds me out though. More so than the masturbation while I’m home
I'm just here to give my little piece of advice. You're obviously in no way obligated to follow the advice you're given.
You go girl good for you, a man will always appreciate a partner that's loyal and unwilling to cheat.
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He doesn't say if she's having him sleep over in her bed or just having him stay in the house with the son. I think there is a difference. If he (boyfriend) is sleeping there with her and ex (bio dad) is sleeping in another room, then that's one thing, but if her boyfriend isn't there and she's having the ex sleep over for holidays, then yeah, that's not good. I think I'm leaning towards your interpretation, sadly. The other commenters really don't seem to get it.
So, he's obviously lying about where he is, and when someone is a liar who doesn't respect you or your time you….Dump Them, that's right!!
Your dude sounds time blind. If this happens throughout his life and it’s not just you it’s an executive dysfunction. He should see a Dr about that.
That said it’s on him to address the problem.
Is this the only thing you don’t like about him? Is he otherwise a kind, caring, supportive partner or does he always make you feel like you come in second place? If he is there for everyone else on time but you why stay? At the end of the day you’re the only one who knows if this is a deal breaker or not but as a rule don’t stay with someone who makes you feel less than. You want to be with someone who builds you up.
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If she wanted takeaway she could get takeaway on her own, the fuck lol. Read between the lines, she’s looking for someone who is willing to be a partner. Assuming they want kids, most parents don’t feed their children takeout even 50% of the time. It’s not healthy. She would be doing a majority of that work on top of the other housework. She knows the labor division won’t be equal. And she knows it still won’t be equal even if she chooses to pay 50% of the finances, as her husband will still be unwilling to do 50% of the cooking.
If she’s wearing it for you and you were being satisfied why do you need to come clean about it? I’m not sure you need to reveal that at this point. If she weren’t willing to do it, then it might be a time to talk about it but since she put it on and it’s doing it, what is the point?
Academia smart is nothing like being street/people smart. If you’ve told him repeatedly that it’s not okay and he’s still refusing to respect you and listen, the only option left is letting him find his own way around, without you being his ride in future.
No, my aunts father. She was married to my moms brother, so she was my aunt by marriage. I’m not an idiot
Yeah, I bought some over sized band t shirts to sleep in so I was with the wife until her daughter’s boyfriend comment. That’s super weird.
She did use to have romantic interest in me, but we failed to make it happen last year. I forgot to mention that. Then we went out this summer, when she rejected me. Then only in October did we start dating officially.
I feel like I was the guy you'd just settle for as you had nothing else on the table.
And I dislike the fact that she hides that she's had any crushes in between, or that she dated anyone. She did, because my friends kept mentioning seeing her on dates.
I think that, if she was more open, I'd have no problem with those things. But the fact that she sugar coats and hides things is what's bothering me.
I might be overreacting though, please tell me if I'm wrong.
Yeah, exactly, be kind and have a mature conversation about why he feels this way. Kindly. Don't immediately call him a sexist arsehole.
Sounds like you’re judging her expecting the house to be a certain way (which will cause defensiveness), instead of being curious as to why it’s that way, and offering to help. For some info you may have overlooked being pregnant can be nude on the body, giving birth is as well. So for the two years straight she’s basically either been pregnant or given birth so her body has been through the ringer. Then after that she’s probably sleep deprived as young kids often make it naked to sleep as they tend to need nightly feedings. So for three years she’s either been physically taxed or sleep deprived. Add to that if she has postpartum depression, she’s probably really struggling. If you can afford it, discuss hiring a house keeper to come in and clean once a week or once every few days to do the dishes and such, so you get what you need with out pressuring her. And check in on her sleep, her energy levels, her mental health. If she’s struggling in any of those areas, help her. And if you can’t, at least use that info to be a bit more forgiving when you notice the house is in disarray. At the end of the day what’s more important that your wife and kids are cared for, healthy, and content or you have a clean house? Because sometimes you won’t be able to have both, and trying to force that will often make it so that you get neither.
I think you missed the point. The grandfather is attempting to assert control and will not budge. He and he alone is responsible for his own misery when it comes to this. He could easily have a loving relationship with his grandchild but has drawn a line of control in the sand. It speaks to other issues they have.
You have to learn to communicate with your partners before rushing to the internet to get opinions from strangers who don’t know you or them.
If you’ve communicated this isn’t something you approve of or like and he was awake, then that’s an issue. If you have not communicated this, sure it’s lame he just assumed it was okay for his own satisfaction, but now you need to set your foot down and draw a line of what is and isn’t acceptable. If he continues, it’s up to you if you want to allow him to continue to disrespect and assault/use you this way.
If he was asleep and had no clue he’s done this, then you might need to figure out different sleeping arrangements if you don’t want him touching you and moving your hand like that.
It could be really innocent, it could be really bad. But you need to communicate to him and not keep it to yourself.
Justetting go is a sign of a beta that will get used again
Justetting go is a sign of a beta that will get used again
I strongly recommend just a bit of liquid courage until alcohol has negative effects on either of you. Just to keep both of you safe.!
Even if your husband was a licensed psychologist/psychiatrist, he would not ethically/legally be allowed to be your therapist. And if, indeed, he knew anything about being a therapist he would already know that. You need to see a REAL therapist who can actually help you.
Your husband only wants to know all your secrets for his own purposes. He's just nosy! He wants to know everything you haven't told him because he's nosy, controlling, and has plans to use that information against you. He is acting like a 5 year old who thinks because he made a mess mixing vinegar and baking soda that he's a nuclear physicist and should have a job with the government making a million dollars a year.
Please, get a therapist and start working on healing yourself. My guess is once you start healing you might start questioning why you married such a controlling buffoon in the first place.
Seriously. Smdh
Froster’s beereal
Yes but it's Reddit. God forbid its fair.
Are your career path comparable? If they are and it's just that you are behind her then ask her if she prefers you huslte for a while to try to get in par or have more time to care for her/the house.
If careers are not comparable say like my case nurse vs CFO then there is nothing you can do besides doing stupid thing like working 2 jobs.
At least that's not that far fetched of an age gap though. I'm not a big fan of age gap relationships but 3 years at that age isn't so bad.
If you really are platonic with your bf, you’d be able to talk to her about it. But don’t mention it unless you are interested on the fwb with the sister.
Don't kick yourself, that's why you came to us.
If you work at a big company, you should already have plenty enough of a case for HR.
“Infamous Vagina Spammer”, that's quite a title. Not quite as catchy as Pepper from /r/whereispepper though.
An unexpected change in financial status should be understandable. It's not like you just decided you'd rather not be her ATM. You actually can't afford to take her anymore and wouldn't be going yourself if you didn't have to go. These things happen and it sounds like it was beyond your control. Honestly, she should have been contributing for her share of the trip from the beginning.
What it boils down to is things happen, plans change. While it's understandable that she is disappointed, her making you out to be untrustworthy is stretching reality. Is she really worth all of this drama?
“You repeatedly bringing attention to the subject will make her associate sex with nagging…”
This!!! And then after years of being nagged at, posts start popping up about how they aren't getting it anymore. Can't imagine why!?!
This was my suspicion as well – he just isn't their type of “guy's guy” – which honestly, that kind of expression of masculinity can be toxic, so I think him not being like that is probably good for you, OP.
Go to your medical school graduation, and just chill with your families friends (at my med school graduation there were a few people who’s families lived abroad and didn’t make it, their friends families clapped and cheered for them!)
I'm loving seeing so many people offering to do this!
I hope it works out. Best of luck ?
I would never believe a thing he says in the future. He went so far to concoct a lie and involved his friend in it. That speaks volumes to his character and the lengths he will go to to hide his deception. As you said you are only 24. Go and find someone so much better, you deserve to have trust in your relationship.
You can't convince her. She wants to break up so you need to respect that.
So what did you mean? Cause it sure does look like you're trying to say that being in a relationship with your rapist is a valid choice.
I think it's cos the comments get deleted for being too short or they don't have enough karma or something on this sub. I get that sometimes with replies
Is it possible he's negging you? I would not stick around for it.
So, based on the breakdown in finances YOU provided, she's absolutely paying more for you to maintain your lifestyle. The rest of this post is such a train wreck that I'm not going to bother explaining. However, as much as you don't like it, you should break up. Not for your sake though.
She doesn’t want to let you doen
This is textbook domestic violence.
Don't believe me? Let me guess – It's not that bad? It all on accident? He can't control himself?
Go read “why does he do that” by Lundy Bancroft. You're going to realize that you're repeating, word for word, what hundreds of abused women have said for decades.
You're being abused.
So you say horrible things when you are drunk and angry? Also both of you know that your relationship isn’t good when alcohol gets involved, yet you both regularly drink? What’s happening here? How are you going to promise change, even if she grants you forgiveness, if you haven’t looked at why and how what happened, could happen.
Fundamentally, you need to discuss your issues when not drunk. You feel she disrespected you with her actions. She apologised, but keeps doing it…so she clearly doesn’t agree with your assessment, that she is being disrespectful, yet for some reason can’t say that, when you guys talk about it. How’s your communication in general? Do you feel she is honest and open? Are you talking effectively about issues and do you invite her opinion or do you just get heated and shout horrible things at her?
Someone who is a decent person who wants to commit to you is not going to suddenly dump you because you “gave up the goods.” That is a gross and misogynistic mindset and you're better off avoiding those men anyway. At least she knows sooner rather than later.
He is abusing you. He doesn't love you, he doesn't respect you, ur seems like he doesn't even like you anymore.
Break up, get some counselling, go see your doctor again and be honest this time and really follow through with treatments.
Do you really trust your boyfriend about the restraining order.
Close friend of mine had a boyfriend whose ex was toxic and falsely accused him of beating her up and getting a restraining order against him. One year later, this boyfriend pushed my girlfriend down the stairs and beated her up. She almost died…
She no longer thinks that the crazy ex was lying.
Make sure you know the whole story about the restraining order. Nude to believe that a judge is easily fooled.
I remember seeing this quite a few years ago, but it was from people ingesting bleach. Iirc, it was an 'oxidation cleanse' or some shit like that.
But yeah, they were pooping out their intestines
He’s worried his parents will have the ex around when they are invited to family events. That is total BS
Having divorced parents is better than having parents together who fight and don’t show love or companionship towards one another. Kids living in a house full of anger, bitterness and tension, having to walk on eggshells waiting for the next implosion is no way to online.
Your wife was having an emotional affair. If she’s still finding ways to see this girl then she’s not going to move on.
Are you referring to Jake?