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Date: November 28, 2022
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Why stress about revealing that you looked at her phone? she's basically sexting another guy…a guy she used to have sex with! It's time to break up with her. I'd tell her straight to her face that you saw her sexting that guy and that her betrayal and disrespect for you has ended the relationship. I'd actually ensure that other's know about her actions so she doesn't make you out to be the bad guy when the breakup goes public.
Does he get you to approve of his every purchase? Have you cared about how he spent his money otherwise? You clearly have a lot of cash to spare. What's one extra kid at this point. You've been financially supporting your daughter in law this whole time too. She's not your kid either.
Why is it all so black and white? Why can't you just have a convo with the dude and say I'm not going to support the kid so figure that out but business as usual otherwise. Why cut him out of your whole will?
Just admit this is about controlling his life and your wounded ego already.
“I have nothing to gain from telling you, but I’d rather keep my identity private. I’ve given you the information I know because I felt bad knowing what he was doing behind your back. What you do with it is up to you.”
Why would you forgive him? He didn’t told you you found out. He only regret it because he got caught. So break up with him, he is going to do that again and will be more careful so you don’t find out.
The worst part is I’m head over heels in love with him
But you cheated on him so this can't be true. Love doesn't equal cheating after all so the only conclusion is that you may “think” you love him but deep down you don't.
but I think he’s falling out of love with me because of this
That is guaranteed. He used to love you but you showed him what he is really worth to you – which is less than nothing – and as soon as he found out he lost his love for you. It's natural and it happens and it, that easy to have love for each other, never comes back.
I will do anything to save the relationship.
Sadly for you the cheating has meant that there is little you can do to save it. It's broken and ruined, tainted if you like, by your actions.
You did what you did and it can never be undone. Hopefully you take what you learn from this, see the pain that your actions can cause and never do it again in any future relationship (if you ever have one as most guys run a mile if they find that they are dating an ex-cheater).
I feel i should mention we have known eachother for 2 years… i also have liked him for those two years. he took my virginity a year and a half ago and we have been involved ever since. that doesn’t really help my case
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Cliff notes: threatened and harassed her to have an abortion
Nope, I would block and ghost, IMO she's trouble
Lmao my bad!
A lot of ppl don’t go on dates in order to win or lose whichever game is being played. If OP just acts like a non jerk it doesn’t matter who wins, as long as everyone is having fun
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i'm not saying weight is the problem.
the weight gain is the problem.
my doctor always asks about any side effects of the antidepressants i'm taking, and specifically asking about weight gain. antidepressants work in the body for a long time after stopping and changing the medication. new medication could have the same effect on OP, which is why she should talk to her doctor early so she doesn't gain more than she's comfortable with before finding the medication suited to her.
If I were Adrian I would throw you a bone and make a joke like, I just wanted some pumpkin pie or something funny. I don’t know if he would help you out or not. The older I get the more stuff isn’t as big of a deal as they first seem. Just text the group back and say, “I’m sorry, I made a mistake”. You thought what you thought. Geez I’m glad it went against your morals, haha. Half of these stories it would of turned into an affair or something haha. They will get over it. I mean you will get teased in the future but who cares. Make a joke saying the toddler needs to keep his hands to himself or something the family will think is funny
You’re young, eventually you’ll understand that a lot of people are made up of different aspects of their personalities that on paper, seem incompatible.
I was/am the same way. Full of rage. I’m also the nicest, cuddliest, friendliest person around. I’ll help people out, I’ll pet dogs, and even talk to total strangers in the supermarket about the best way to potatoes, if they ask.
But say the wrong thing, or, god forbid, TOUCH me…
And it is also drunk talk. It’s the kind of thing people who aren’t full of rage say or think when they’re drunk., so just saying it doesn’t really mean they it’s true, nor does it mean that it’s false.
But I wouldn’t worry that he’s someone you suddenly don’t know. He’s the same person he was when he wasn’t drunk, it’s just now he says dumb shit.
Until you see him fly into a rage with a stranger over nothing, I might give him the benefit of the doubt.
intractable
I learned a new word today. Thank you.
Client?
She wants a partner in life who won’t be out partying. She wants a proper father for her kids. It isn’t unreasonable. You’re going to be a father – you can’t just be out partying.
They are married, it is their home. She is allowed to invite her own parents over, that’s just not feasible to only expect one partner to be able to invite anyone over. “Two yeses/one no”, this is a partnership not a business deal. It takes compromise sometimes, and sometimes you’ve got to suck it up and deal with things you don’t absolutely love. She visits with his family all the time, and he still has the same issue with his own parents. This tells me it’s not just her mother that is the big issue here.
I would honestly say if he can’t deal with having a guest over for a week every year and a half, then they need to work some things out. He can book a trip with friends, opt out of excursions so she can give him his space for some of the days, spend some time with his own family or invite some friends over so he can feel included. There’s lots of ways to make his time easier but if the alternative is OP never getting to see her parents, since they can’t afford flights + hotel, then I’d say he is a huge ass for not being even remotely accommodating.
I have been in your situation twice. I cried and whined about it the first time, blew it off as a one off and then it happened a second time. Then met the guy I got dumped for and understood yeah “I totally get it, now how do I avoid this a third time?”
My dude you're 20, dont know shit. Just dust yourself, do what you gotta do and keep it moving. You dont figure this stuff out until much later after you've done all the fucking up. You're look back at this later and realize you were fussing over nothing.
Might as well you break up with your fiance now rather than to go thru expensive divorse later. Open your eyes, this relationship will not end well. There is not much love between you, you both think you're in love but the truth is his love for you changed when he slept with the other woman, now it is just atoning. Your love for him has changed when you found he cheated, hence you slept with your coworker.
Break up.
What your husband does is how a sewage station processes solids, after adding bacteria that digests it. It isn’t something anyone wants going on in their home.
I’d get a plumber in the house and ask them, in front of your husband, what they do. A man who can’t admit when they’re wrong in front of an expert is a fool.
BTW, I’m no plumber and I very well could be wrong about how sewage is treated.
I’m leaving her after posting this question and getting the clarity
Typically if you wash with vinegar, it doesn’t linger. That’s why people use it in replacement for fabric softener. Idk if her pregnant nose would be able to detect it, but it might be worth a shot. But maybe don’t tell her first and try it and see if it works.
Or if someone handed me one I wouldn’t intentionally drop it
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I'm probably gonna give a bit different of a response than most people, but you should learn from this relationship. But regardless, I believe the relationship is over.
Yes, this is a serious set of issues, and are the main reason I say this relationship is over.
Her avoidance of her work, had nothing to do with you, and you shouldn't be pushing after a point. She is mad at you for bringing it up, at some point you need to stop. Also worth noting that multiple mental health issues, as well as just general stress, have a common symptom of avoiding the issue.
3.yes, this is a serious issue. However, you also need to learn to set boundaries, especially financial ones, on future relationships.
no. This is not her fault, and she is not spending time with her friends to upset you. You need to expand your own social circle instead of trying to slip into hers, because having seperate issues and friends outside of a relationship is healthy.
This just sounds like a libido mismatch, that you are taking personally. But also, life gets in the way sometimes, and you will need to be able to not take that personally in your future.
Either way, yes, your relationship isn't right for you and should end. But there are things you can learn from this about your own behaviour and assumptions as well.
This is some dumb shit
I would say focus on yourself brother. It’s obvious that he had a major effect on her mentally. That’s normal, but to have a meltdown if front of you is totally inappropriate.
Community College in my state is almost $200 a class
yeah, I told him, he said he is too embarrassed by his reaction he doesn't feel comfortable discussing it with anyone
You think SHE was rude to YOU???!! Seriously? Dude, you're fucking delusional and useless. I hope she wises up and leaves your dumb, selfish ass.
This is sexual coercion, please leave him.
If I at any point during sex, stop moving/responding like I am not enjoying having sex, my partner would stop. The fact your boyfriend treated you like this is disgusting.
What shall I do?
Get the fuck over yourself
We don’t really know anything about OP. It says a lot about them that they want to stay lol.
How do you proceed? Unfortunately, you probably don't, if you mean “what do I do”. You were faced with a terrible choice, and you made a decision, knowing what you had been told the consequence would be. Maybe that will, for all time, be the consequence, but really that's up to Jake. All you can do is give him time, and see whether that makes a difference.
I went through the exact same thing and it does hurt, but op, the friendships you build from now on, especially with women, will be the ones that matter. you’ll get to see what real friendship feels like, not transactional waiting-in-the-wings to jump on you at your most vulnerable.
You are not mature enough to be in a relationship. Pick up your shattered pride and self-respect off the ground and work on yourself.
I second this. Lending money is more often than not simply giving it away. Money issues are the number 1 reason relationships fall apart. It’s unclear if he’s your spouse (legal husband) or your fiancé, but either way he is gaslighting you and it’s serious. Definitely get your own personal account and see what happens next.
I think you’re both valid with your concerns. You’re trying not to accrue debt, while you feel like she’s hell bent on it. But 6 years, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to go on this trip. Now, if you go on this trip, and she’s immediately booking the next one, that’s an issue!
Life is short, you’ve been together 6 years and hadn’t been able travel before! Take the trip! Good luck!
Dogs are actually naturally happy outdoors. Have you seen some of the dog houses that are available today? These dogs were never house trained. She is going to rehome untrained dogs. They will end up in the animal shelter. She needs a good dog run and dog house.
You need to UNMAKE a life with this guy. This is horrifying. Why would you stay with someone like that?
You don’t. You grow a backbone and ghost her. She garbage
I have seen both sides of it.
Some women get a lot of male friends who will fuck them if given a chance.
Some women are “relegated” to platonic friend territory and considered unattractive and “one of the boys” even if they want to be desired and romantically pursued.
Homeboy couldn't set his own alarm? He is a grown man right? Does he not know how to? Are you his girlfriend or his mom?
The beginning of the end.
Just remember, when you play in the devils sandbox, don't complain when you get sand in your bed