He pursued you then gave up any effort when he got you.
You told him to do something differently once and he hated you for it.
You shared your goals for the future; that doesn’t mean he’ll be in your future.
There’s nothing wrong with you. Give up the idea that every relationship will last forever and be successful. You don’t like how he’s treating you, and it’s his decision to treat you that way; you deserve better and you know it. Either he needs to change how he treats you, or you need to be ok with a lackluster “relationship”, or you need to face a little heartbreak so that you can eventually move onto someone better.
As a side issue, if your friends are shared friends then you need to get them in side first. Call your two most trusted girl friends of the group and get them to come over and support you.
He pursued you then gave up any effort when he got you.
You told him to do something differently once and he hated you for it.
You shared your goals for the future; that doesn’t mean he’ll be in your future.
There’s nothing wrong with you. Give up the idea that every relationship will last forever and be successful. You don’t like how he’s treating you, and it’s his decision to treat you that way; you deserve better and you know it. Either he needs to change how he treats you, or you need to be ok with a lackluster “relationship”, or you need to face a little heartbreak so that you can eventually move onto someone better.
As a side issue, if your friends are shared friends then you need to get them in side first. Call your two most trusted girl friends of the group and get them to come over and support you.
She practically admitted to cheating on you.
And now she’s telling you that she’s going to continue it, regardless if you approve or not.
These are the type of people you run away from. They will fuck up your mental headspace long term.
Please for the love of god dump her.
Thank you so much ?
I am not quite following all the drama here, but my advice is don't be with a liar and/or cheater. You can do better.