I think it is pretty simple, don’t talk about your inheritance. If and when you get more serious, and finances comes up, you still don’t have to mention your inheritance. If you’re not running around flaunting it, it won’t make a difference. If you are, you will definitely not only attract the wrong partner, but friends as well.
Yes, that’s disgusting. 18 is still a boy, only just entered adulthood months ago, absolutely zero adult life experience whatsoever.
At 18 I was a child still living with my parents, complaining about homework and getting excited about school dances. At 24 I had a masters degree, my third job, a fiancé and was planning my first pregnancy.
The real question here is what is wrong with YOU that you’re not able to connect with your peers and instead have to date teenagers.
Is he putting on make up when he goes out? Is he dressing up?
He is very shallow.
Toss him and get a new husband. You are 30. You can do better than him.
why is it so bad that I should want my wife to look good?”
Because you are belittling her and bullying her. Your wife is much more than “looking good.” If you want your wife to have time for selfcare, then get her a gift card for a massage or a mani-pedi and take on house chores. Instead, you are belittling her and telling her she looks shabby. And how much selfcare do you do?
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Same. If a partner does something sketch/out of character, they have given you a reason to investigate. If you never check their phone when they don't act shady, then your conscience should be clean.
As you state the BDSM is hurting your relationship He doesn't respect your boundaries or decisions by trying to get sex after you say no. In fact that does violate a lot of bdsm which is built on consent.
If you want to try couples therapy then go for it
Otherwise I think you are in the right to want to end it
Just go get a needle, poke holes in the existing ones he has. If allllllll of a sudden someone is having a baby, you know what happened.
I think it is pretty simple, don’t talk about your inheritance. If and when you get more serious, and finances comes up, you still don’t have to mention your inheritance. If you’re not running around flaunting it, it won’t make a difference. If you are, you will definitely not only attract the wrong partner, but friends as well.
Yes, that’s disgusting. 18 is still a boy, only just entered adulthood months ago, absolutely zero adult life experience whatsoever.
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Is he putting on make up when he goes out? Is he dressing up?
He is very shallow.
Toss him and get a new husband. You are 30. You can do better than him.
why is it so bad that I should want my wife to look good?”
Because you are belittling her and bullying her. Your wife is much more than “looking good.” If you want your wife to have time for selfcare, then get her a gift card for a massage or a mani-pedi and take on house chores. Instead, you are belittling her and telling her she looks shabby. And how much selfcare do you do?
My friend was going to get one and they told her $1300.
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Sadly, it looks like poly or bust …. you would probably be better off without this prick …..
He’s a redneck. He’s not only never going to change, but he enjoys this lifestyle.
I mean…it would in that you would no longer be married to someone who can’t give you the relationship you mentioned wanting.
I think that’s due to Reddit going berserk when you mention these things explicitly
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Just so that she gets all excited about Valentine's and then see it go down the drain in one big flush
Some friends have said that to me, but I just can't believe it. If she is in fact trying to really do it that way I will be the traumatized one.
Just move on. Your safety is paramount.
Same. If a partner does something sketch/out of character, they have given you a reason to investigate. If you never check their phone when they don't act shady, then your conscience should be clean.
First off you're not wrong.
As you state the BDSM is hurting your relationship He doesn't respect your boundaries or decisions by trying to get sex after you say no. In fact that does violate a lot of bdsm which is built on consent.
If you want to try couples therapy then go for it
Otherwise I think you are in the right to want to end it
I promise this isn’t troll bait, I genuinely do have a pretty bad level of self-awareness that I am constantly working on. Thank you for your input.
I find it pretty drastic on a first offense, personally. Assuming that this was some kind of fuckup, and not something he set out to do.
But it's the kind of mistake I would only accept once.