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There's a difference between expressing that you need space to process whatever mood you're in (healthy) and saying it to get her to beg to come over anyway so he can feel wanted, as seen by him changing his mind when she doesn't bite and takes him at his word not to come over. To me, this hints what he really wants is for her to come over but is being passive aggressive about it, hoping she will validate him and feel off kilter wondering what she did that put him in his mood. So, in this case I don't think he is expressing a healthy desire for space, I think he is likely trying to manipulate her.
Yikes this sounds really abusive mentally.
Are you always traveling to see him at his place?
Only a few people here are giving you the actual tools that you can take with you whenever you are trying to discern whether your partner is a good fit for you. Let's take a step back from the Trump issue and generalize. Is it fine to break up over a difference in politics? Absolutely, it's fine to break up for any reason. You are the arbiter for what constitutes dealbreakers in your relationships, not the internet. Now, it's certainly fine to ask friends, family, and the web if you worry you might be unreasonable in some regard and fair enough. When it comes to someone's political compass, you can often take it as a proxy for a person's normative ethics and values. It's good to understand your boyfriend's values over anything else and see whether they are compatible with yours. Personally, I would find it difficult to be with someone that is conservative leaning, but that's me. Your political lives shouldn't be turned into a taboo, they should be front and center along with all the other domains that are of great importance when being with a partner. This is why when I've seen posts on this sub of the form “Everything is so great, we only disagree politically but we just don't discuss it”, I find it utterly baffling. I think you both should be able to discuss these topics, but if you find yourself a bit irritated by his views time and again, that could be a good signal that it might just be a dealbreaker and that's okay. There will be other people out there that are a better fit for you.
You came here to ask if this old guy is stringing you along. HE IS. We're all telling you he is, because you asked.
Now you're arguing with anyone in comments.
What are you here for? What did you make this post for? Why are you defending this relationship as if you're not the victim of some creep?
Again: you are the victim of a manipulative creep. That is the answer to your post. That is the advice. Stop arguing and start planning how you leave.
there needs to be a change in your partners brothers lifestyle really, he needs to be independant, and if like you say its just a habit thing, there are ways to improve that, he needs to talk to someone about how to transfer himself, and on-line independently.
Otherwise you are all heading for a cliff in your lives and relationships. especially at your ages, What'll happen when he gets older or you have kids ?
He's not a pet, he needs to be able to function without you, and you need to have a conversation involving him 100%, maybe he doesn't want to live! with you, maybe an assisted living arrangement will suit him better.