You don't need his consent to be broken up. You also don't need for him to be on board, or assure you that he still likes you and doesn't resent you. He's entitled to be upset if he wants to be. You can't control the narrative here. Just like he can't choose to stay together when you don't want to, you can't decide that he won't be upset.
I really like this idea. Thanks so much for taking time to type this out.
She had some VERY dark trauma from her past before we met (SA) and never would talk to her family/me/friends/counselor about it and I know it affected her in ways I clearly couldn't see or help with. Since we've broken up she told me she got help and worked it out.
I also grew exponentially and changed myself as a man 100%.
She has also expressed there is no rush at all, and she is willing to work it out slowly with me until I am comfortable “trying again”.
He has a reason, he just doesn't want to tell you. Could be he prefers a work/home separation. Could be he doesn't want to be around you all day. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
The man prefers to go into the office and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, don't create a problem that doesn't exist.
If he is so uncomfortable and embarrassed he may as well end it. All she is asking is for him to say the words “I need space” he is a sad little child with a bruised ego and honestly she could do better than someone who causes her physical pain then gets upset when she calls him out
I'm not gonna waste my time arguing about the ethics of abortion.
You married a boy, not yet a man. When people mature and find themselves, they support others doing the same.
-dude in his 40’s who didn’t start growing until his 30’s
I didn’t. I didn’t say either way. Perhaps I should have made it clearer in my original post, I just assumed that it was obvious that I didn’t go.
bruh, I don't have time to read 114 comments for every information
Which plays into my argument that OP left out information confirming her story
But yeah downvote me to hell people of reddit, I know the rules of speaking against the stream
Skipping some parts of the post there sailor-boy 😉
They hang out alopt and he spends the night, sounds like it happens often.
OP is allowed to be sceptical, if this isn't normal for him, he only asked for advice, not to be made a fool.
Why you drag all sorts of non-related situations into this only you know, but advice it's not.
Plot twist: Your wife is the one with the crush on Gabbie, she acted on it, and now she's bad-mouthing Gabbie all over the place.
I'm kidding…. sort of?
You don't need his consent to be broken up. You also don't need for him to be on board, or assure you that he still likes you and doesn't resent you. He's entitled to be upset if he wants to be. You can't control the narrative here. Just like he can't choose to stay together when you don't want to, you can't decide that he won't be upset.
I really like this idea. Thanks so much for taking time to type this out.
She had some VERY dark trauma from her past before we met (SA) and never would talk to her family/me/friends/counselor about it and I know it affected her in ways I clearly couldn't see or help with. Since we've broken up she told me she got help and worked it out.
I also grew exponentially and changed myself as a man 100%.
She has also expressed there is no rush at all, and she is willing to work it out slowly with me until I am comfortable “trying again”.
It’s not about exercise, it’s about eating more calories then you burn. If you don’t want to work out then don’t eat so much.
It’s not about exercise, it’s about eating more calories then you burn. If you don’t want to work out then don’t eat so much.
He has a reason, he just doesn't want to tell you. Could be he prefers a work/home separation. Could be he doesn't want to be around you all day. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
The man prefers to go into the office and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, don't create a problem that doesn't exist.
If he is so uncomfortable and embarrassed he may as well end it. All she is asking is for him to say the words “I need space” he is a sad little child with a bruised ego and honestly she could do better than someone who causes her physical pain then gets upset when she calls him out