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Why be in a romantic relationship if you’re not basically be best friends with the person? You have a duty to be honest to your girlfriend if you’ve decided to commit together. And I’m sure if she had roommates she’s been intimate with you’d want to know.
So I got a message similar to this from my fiancés ex while we were still dating. The thing is… he had been honest with me about stuff he had done during his past relationships that he wasn’t proud of. So she thought she was surprising me with all this stuff about him which I already knew. The other thing is that I really thought about the way he treated me and if there had been any ? because anyone can say that they have changed. And his actions and the way he treated me showed me that the things he had said and done in his past relationships were things he had learned and grown from. They weren’t things he brought into our relationship. So my personal advice would be to just observe and see if you notice any red flags. It’s also very possible for two people to date the same person and also date very different versions of that person.
This is so so common when someone who claims to be sexually liberated forces their monogamous partner into an open relationship they never wanted, be that swinging, polyamory, unicorn throuples, or what have you that anytime I hear about a similar situation as yours I recommend jut ending the relationship.
They’re not actually interested in fair, equitable sexual exploration. They just want to sleep with whoever they want and get their partner to accept that and participate with only their sexual desires considered, not the partner who was forced into the situation, while keeping the security of their relationship there.
Notice how it’s fine for him to engage in threesomes you are super uncomfortable with.
Then as soon as the monogamous partner tries to enjoy themselves, all of a sudden the one who set up the swinging/open relationship/ethical” nonmongamy (ha!) blows up at their partner and accuses their partner into not following the “rules” they agreed to but never clearly defined and only seem to benefit the one who wanted the situation, or saying they “didn’t communicate” their intentions just right, so they actually cheated, and they’re just such shitty partners for being tricked into a nonmonagmous situation they never wanted in the first place.
Spoiler: he never wanted you to have fun either. It was all about his sexual wants, not yours.
Everyone shutting in you for “accidentally cheating” doesn’t seem to understand your husband never intended for you to actually get some on your own. He was lying to you to trick you into participating into this.
This happens over and over again in these nonmonogamous situations.
I WOULD NEVER FORGIVE HIM!
Depends if you can still trust her or not, sounds like you don't. Besides, the age gap, while not huge, is still quite significant. Mid 20s vs 30 = different stage in life even if not quite as extreme as 20 vs 25.
She sounds like an emotional person who is easily swayed by former lovers. Can you handle all this baggage while hoping no emotional/physical cheating takes place? If yes then maybe let it slide, if no time to get out
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I love your fam. But grandma is The King! ???
Jeez, that's full-on. She crossed the line when she started calling everyone up though, bigtime. You need to tell her that it was a hypthetical though. You also need to be ready that it means the end of the relationship.
this reminds me of years ago, I was with someone who missed their home country. We were living together, and I was working from home. She raised the subject of what I thought about maybe moving overseas, and I said something like “Sure it's possible. I can work from anywhere.” Meant it more like..”I could. Let me think about it though”. She took that as a definite yes and it was so fucking awkward a few nights later where we're at a friends for dinner, she clinks her glass, stands up and announces that we're moving overseas! And how much all those present had meant to her. I. Was. Mortified. What the fuck? It became the most awkward time as I shook my head no, then stammered “..what?”. We quickly left and had the most tense time on the way home where I told her I definitely didn't want to move. Yeah, we broke up and she moved home.
And the thing is when your partner opens up about something like that you mostly just have to listen and give a hug at the end.
Just my two cents: if this guy has been driving 2 hours on weekends to see you for three years he deserves more than a phone call or a text.
Sometimes sex is worth ruining a friendship for if we’re being real… but the age gap is a bad look here
You are being manipulated into thinking you might be in the wrong.
This is what manipulative people do. It’s an early version of ‘you made me hit you’. Please consider this a red flag.
Unfortunately, behavior like this tends to get worse.
Yikesss, that makes it even worse. Know your worth OP, you’re a smart and successful lady who’s got everything going for her, don’t settle for someone who makes sexist comments and insults you to get back at you for a perceived slight.
She’s clearly not mature enough even at 22
That’s silly. I had my first baby at 23, and that pregnancy started in my 22nd year. And we are not all cookie cutters of each other. How mature people are varies, as does life experience.
so you are basically thinking that she is hiding much more than just this from me about the whole situation? Why did she in first hand come clean about it then? She told me she was feeling extremely guilty and had to let go of this.
We work very well as friend, as a couple…
We have snacks and everything.
Say no more fam! Address?
Oh, really. As a former 18 year old who got taken advantage of by older people I completely disagree.
I don’t want to divorce him
Genuine question given what you've written here: why not?
This is the way.
First of all, I am sorry that you and your girlfriend are going through this difficult situation. It sounds like a very traumatic experience for her, and it is understandable that you are feeling confused and upset about the situation.
It is important to remember that regardless of what happened, your girlfriend was not in a state to give consent, and that is not acceptable. It is possible that she was drugged, or that she simply drank too much and was taken advantage of. Either way, she was not able to give consent, and that is a violation of her autonomy.
It is also important to note that victims of sexual assault often struggle with feelings of shame, guilt, and fear after the event. Your girlfriend may be feeling all of these things, which could explain why she initially lied about what happened. It is not uncommon for victims to blame themselves or feel like they did something wrong, even when they didn't.
It is important to approach this situation with empathy and support for your girlfriend. Encourage her to seek counseling or therapy to help her process the trauma and to provide her with a safe space to talk about her feelings. You may also want to consider couples therapy to help you both work through your feelings and to improve your communication and trust.
It is important to remember that sexual assault is never the victim's fault, and it is important to believe and support your girlfriend through this difficult time. However, it is also important to take care of yourself and your own emotions. It may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or a support group for partners of sexual assault victims.
I'd be fucking furious if my gf pissed off on a cinema date on a night we had plans
Then again, that would be because I wouldn't be having her sat around not knowing if I was turning up, getting stoned so I couldnt be assed meeting her
Thus leaving her to either go home or try to enjoy the movie we were supposed to see
Some movies only deserve one watch, some boyfriends deserve only one fail
This was his, he taught you he doesnt value you, your time or have any self awareness whatsoever
It wont be hot to do better (for you)
Do you get along with his fiancé?
Don't look past it.
I personally wouldn't even stay in a relationship where I'm being treated like this. But if I would, then I'd start only buying food for myself and only cooking for myself.
Have to agree. You can’t tease someone about a known sensitive topic and then get pouty when they do the same in return.
Some couples thrive on loving teasing, others use “jokes” as an excuse to air real resentments and criticisms.
Just say it out loud. Mel is a bully. The fact that she's your sister doesn't excuse it or mean that any of you have to tolerate it. Mel hates Alexa for two reasons; the first is because she won't be bullied by Mel or allow her to bully Anna in her presence. The second is because Mel's (allegedly) new found zeal for her faith is now an excuse for some good old fashioned religious homophobia.
Stop worrying about Mel's “big day” being ruined by this. If there's any gaps in the wedding party and seating plans, if there are any awkward questions about why you or Anna and Alexa aren't there then that's Mel's problem to deal with, not yours. She's done all the work to bring this situation about so let her enjoy the fruits of her labors. It's time to stop rugsweeping and enabling her behaviour and force her to accept the consequences of being a shitty person and a shitty sister.
You're both assholes
Hold up. By “very excited to get some action” you mean your buddy was excited to cheat on his fiancée, and you helped him set it up? Then fooled around with a stripper yourself?
Birds of a feather, I guess. Your girlfriend and his fiancée both deserve to be told the truth, but I seriously doubt you’re willing to do it despite all your performative self-loathing on display here.
Therapy only works if you are open and honest and willing to change. This guy wouldn’t even do couples counseling because he didn’t want someone else to tell him he’s wrong, probably because he knows he is in the wrong. This doesn’t sound like someone open and ready for change.
Dump this guy before it escalates into him giving you a reason to leave. That sounds like where it is headed.
She watched him while they drove off, how is it not her fault for letting them know?? Christ fuck