My boyfriend was sick for New Years and I stayed home. While it’s nice to keep him company I mainly did it to avoid getting others sick in case I’m asymptomatic. It’s shitty in my opinion to go to parties when someone in your household is sick (even if you have no symptoms) cause you could potentially get everyone else sick.
she called me randomly yesterday about how she was so sad and she wanted to see me, but she shouldn't because my roommates would think its weird if she came. I wanted her to come over so I can give a final verdict. I wanted to tell her, you can either block this guy and admit you cheated and we can maybe repair things. Or blow it up call her a cheater and a liar and that I never want to see or hear of her again. I ended up saying no I work and left it at that.
Write this all on a little note and give it to him. He'll either respond well and make you happier, respond neutral and explain why he can't do everything right now and ask for time, or respond negative and talk about his issues with the relationship. Everything you wrote was poignant to your needs so maybe you're just missing the open dialogue that can be started by showing him this.
Yeah, I'm usually in favor of platonic friendships regardless of gender but, uh…
I would not be comfortable with my husband having this kind of emotionally enmeshed friendship when he has already tacitly supported infidelity for “reasons.”
FYI, OP, people who cheat always have a reason, oftentimes one that even seems totally valid, but that doesn't mean it's ok. It's still a betrayal to cheat on someone when you can instead act like an adult, hand mature conversations and break off a failing relationship instead.
18-20 isn’t many years but it’s a world of difference in life experience and situation. The real creep factor isn’t age gap, it’s power gap.
Animal. Cruelty.
Disgusting.
My boyfriend was sick for New Years and I stayed home. While it’s nice to keep him company I mainly did it to avoid getting others sick in case I’m asymptomatic. It’s shitty in my opinion to go to parties when someone in your household is sick (even if you have no symptoms) cause you could potentially get everyone else sick.
she called me randomly yesterday about how she was so sad and she wanted to see me, but she shouldn't because my roommates would think its weird if she came. I wanted her to come over so I can give a final verdict. I wanted to tell her, you can either block this guy and admit you cheated and we can maybe repair things. Or blow it up call her a cheater and a liar and that I never want to see or hear of her again. I ended up saying no I work and left it at that.
Write this all on a little note and give it to him. He'll either respond well and make you happier, respond neutral and explain why he can't do everything right now and ask for time, or respond negative and talk about his issues with the relationship. Everything you wrote was poignant to your needs so maybe you're just missing the open dialogue that can be started by showing him this.
Yeah, I'm usually in favor of platonic friendships regardless of gender but, uh…
I would not be comfortable with my husband having this kind of emotionally enmeshed friendship when he has already tacitly supported infidelity for “reasons.”
FYI, OP, people who cheat always have a reason, oftentimes one that even seems totally valid, but that doesn't mean it's ok. It's still a betrayal to cheat on someone when you can instead act like an adult, hand mature conversations and break off a failing relationship instead.
Yep. This is why I never wear my ring to the gym. I’m terrified of loosing it damaging it.
Hmmm. I was given said ultimatum once. I chose incorrectly.