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Date: November 5, 2022
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He didn’t know her slippers were damaged and I explained why I didn’t clean it up in an earlier comment.
If he’s abusive and narcissistic why would you keep continuing and marrying him ?
Not saying I deserve this at all. She doesn't deserve this situation either though
He probably likes you very much, but he's a lot older than you, so he decided not to pursue the relationship any further. Respect his wish, maybe some day you guys will meet up again when you're older.
Because this us clearly a shitpost. OP even screws up the timeline. Claims she started dating the guy when the ex was in her third trimester, that the daughter turned 1 in October yet OP and the guy have been together for 2 year.
It’s so very hot especially after putting time, energy, and money into a relationship. I’m glad you’re realizing this relationship isn’t a healthy dynamic. I’m glad you have good friends to fall back on
This person is seriously insecure and controlling. That he tracks your location is a problem. That he's 14 years older than you is a problem. That he resents and tries to isolate you from friends your own age is a problem. What are you getting out of this relationship to make this bullshit worthwhile?
Other people would have ran very far away a long time ago. Stepping back sounds like the sane (for you) move.
I completely admit that I was not able to give her the space she wanted. I simply felt happier doing random things with her than by myself. This was very unusual for me as I've never gotten this close to anyone and used to spend the vast majority of my time by myself rather than with my friends or family.
When we got back to school for the year, we spent almost every night and about half of every day together. There were breaks sometimes, but I'd say I spent the night with her about 5-6 times a week.
When we first talked about this issue, I suggested some type of a schedule or specific expectations about how many days a week would be best for her. But she didn't want to do this as she does not like scheduling things.
Every time we discussed it, I would give her space for a few days and then we would sleep together one time and snowball into every night. I tried to be forthright and constantly ask if she wanted me to go to my place. For the most part, when I asked this, she would frown and say she didn't want me to leave. As she recalls it, I was good about checking in during the first few nights spent together and then it would taper off. She has mentioned feeling dependent on me since her dad died, which is part of the reason she wants more space – so she isn't dependent.
His brother is an asshole
Breaks are short for break ups. Tear off the bandaid and move on.
I'll ask my housemate to come with me 🙂
Not everyone who is married shares finances. I know a couple who doesn't
I don’t think you are compatible sadly. I think you would be much happier being with someone who actually wants to spend time with you and be close to you! And there is nothing wrong with wanting that – it’s pretty basic relationship needs!
Start calling him your ex. It doesn't matter why; it just matters that he didn't want a life with you. Grieve your loss so you can move forward. Choose as many health distractions as you can (exercise, journaling, crafting, classes) so you're not thinking about him at often. Start prioritizing yourself and what your life can look like a year from now.
Do not ever take him back. Remember how crappy you've been feeling since he started treating you badly any time you feel weak or lonely and want to talk to him. He finally showed you the true person he is. If he wanted to minimize your pain at all, he would've been honest about not wanting to get married instead of creating fake problems and bringing up old stuff. Distance yourself from his family and unfollow them on social media.
Plan something special for yourself on what would've been the wedding day. It doesn't have to be with people if you'd rather be alone, but do something nice for yourself. Start healing and loving on yourself.
If you wait a year you will have the same argument at that time and you will have set a precedent.
Break up, obviously. This liar was going to bring you to the altar having never told you he is a cheater.
Adultery is unacceptable. Get a divorce.
Thankyou ? ?
What's the problem here? That he didn't ask you to marry him?
You're actually mad he bought you a nice ring you wanted because it was labeled an engagement ring?
Damn you sound so ungrateful
She said some were very inappropriate, which I thought she meant pornographic, though she's not saying that explicitly.
It's been a month and he's displaying weirdo behaviors. Move on.
As someone whose lost more great loves than I'd like to admit, one thing I learned along the way was that each relationship taught me something, and the pain of that ending became less and less intense every time. I don't know if I'm just jaded or what, but being alone, living alone, and really having a place of my own without anyone around to mess it up gave me the unlikely gift of getting to know myself and be happy in my own company. It made me realize that whether I had someone in my life or not, I was going to be okay because i had been through all that shit before that point to prepare me.
Feel your feelings. It's not healthy to hold them in, but you need to completely block her. If she is messing with you on purpose you don't want any part of that. You need to cut ties completely to heal. I'm sorry you're going through this.
Run
Sometimes I come home tired with a headache. Being able to just sit down and have something cold to drink in silence is priceless. The thought of coming home in those circumstances and finding an outsider in my home and having to be nice to them would definitely suck. You weren't rude but you also weren't polite. But who cares?
Oh no, that wouldn't stand with me. He's very likely hiding something (or someone). As someone else said, I'd go over with some flowers or something and introduce yourself, or you can put your foot down with your boyfriend. But something is definitely amiss.
PUERTO RICAN ?? HERE
PUERTO RICANS and CUBANS have the same ideology when it comes to race. You can be pale af and still be proud of your black and native ancestry. I'm pale. My mom was born with dirty blond hair and is super pale. My dad looks like a native American/Arab, tan complexion. But when I attended public school in ??, the teachers WILL GRILL IT IN YOUR HEAD THAT NO MATTER HOW PALE OR DARK YOU LOOK, TO BE PROUD OF YOUR AFRICAN, EUROPEAN AND NATIVE ANCESTRY (Taino/Arawak). THAT WE WERE ALL THE SAME. That's why we don't say Afro-caribbean or European-Caribbean. We just call ourselves PUERTO RICAN.
I'm married to a Caucasian dude with Dainish/Swedish roots. My kid could look pale, blue eyed and I WOULD GRILL IT TO HIS HEAD HE DOES HAVE AFRICAN ANCESTRY and to be proud of it. To love his culture and speak the language (spanish) without shame.
Now with that said, does my ancestry give me an automatic pass to say “I'm a person of color”? ABSOLUTELY NOT ?. BECAUSE I CAN PASS AS A WHITE WOMAN, WHITE MIXED WOMAN. I have to convince people I'm PUERTO RICAN because people think if you are PUERTO RICAN, you must be black ??♀️??♀️??♀️ But what I will say is that I'm connected to my African roots. THATS IT.
Do I look like a straight up Africana? No. I looked more like Shakira's first cousin (we look alot alike, but my hair is not blonde, but its curly like hers). I have more of my Portuguese and Spanish ancestry coming through.
But like your girl, I do listen to punk but I also listen to old school 1970s salsa and Miami Sound Machine (Cuban ensemble from Florida with Gloria Estefan).
Your gf was completely UNJUSTIFIED to say that. You didn't deserve to be lashed out. She needs a reality check.
She does know where I live!, she was driving by routinely shouting out the window and blasting her horn it's crazy. My brother is a detective in the next county im going to chat with him more tomorrow. Thank you
Get custody of your son & dump your baby mama. She has two kids & refuses to work? Kick her to the curb. You need to focus on your son.