“If you're even open to the possibility that we may break up, that's not commitment.”
telling me that she didn't have a lot of time left to find the person that she's going to have children with, and my lack of commitment makes her feel insecure.
Yet it was her actions which caused the breakup. Her cheating which made your relationship insecure. Just wait until she blames you for her cheating.
She probably doesn't believe it since you are still willing to be around him!!
You need trauma therapy!!
Your wife's view is the correct one.
He abused you for 9 years and you still visit him!
Well, you warned her. Forget about them and move on to someone more deserving.
Can't remember, or is pretending not to?
And what happens next time she gets drunk?
Or if she gets drunk and meets someone else?
I know where I'd be going – for the exit sign.
You deserve better.
“If you're even open to the possibility that we may break up, that's not commitment.”
telling me that she didn't have a lot of time left to find the person that she's going to have children with, and my lack of commitment makes her feel insecure.
Yet it was her actions which caused the breakup. Her cheating which made your relationship insecure. Just wait until she blames you for her cheating.
She’s manipulating you.