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Birth Date: 1981-10-05
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Date: December 3, 2022
We have a therapist here, what a joke
Why can’t I get everyone to be kind?
Because that's not how life works.
The people around you are not robots. It's not that, if you treat them kindly, they will just automatically treat you with kindness in return. How you treat other people is always a choice. Every single instant of every single day, you are making that decision based on who the person is, how you feel about them, how they've treated you in the past, how you treat them in the past, etc.
And some people are always going to choose to be mean, regardless of what treatment they receive beforehand. Why? Because some people are assholes. It's really that simple.
So what do you do? You walk away with your head held high. The thing you need to keep in mind about life is that you don't control how other people act, you can only control how you act. So if you did what you considered to be a good job and the other person doesn't respect or acknowledge that, eventually you accept that they're just assholes and there's no pleasing them. You've done your part to make the world a better place. If someone else chooses, makes an active decision, not to reciprocate, that's on them, not you.
Examples—based on how he talked he seemed to have vendetta against “women” in general. Didn’t like my mom or sisters, or really any woman for no reason. There was always a “problem” with them. He Only mostly liked talking to the men in my family. I think this stems from childhood trauma with his mom/ her not being there for him. He thought if woman stood up for themselves or were independent they were acting like “bad b**ches” which is unattractive to him.
he got mad at me for my parents helping us move in and setup and then blamed ME for having no time to get groceries at the grocery store as they were over all day. I told him all day to go get groceries as he didn’t need to stay while they helped us, but he refused and then said it’s my fault etc because I try to put the house together too fast.
He believed only the man can name their child if it’s a boy because that’s a special bond between son and father and woman didn’t have a say.
Everything in life seemed stupid. Wether you had to get oil changed, pay bills, get a new driver license, reply to emails, etc. “He never had time” “was busy” “get annoyed and angry”. I would always try to help him see the positive things in life and he is was getting worked up over dumb things. I went above and beyond to help him through his thoughts and stressors.
These are just slim examples as there have been more over 3 years..
Haha indeed.