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Mental heath issues can be a reason why someone is abusive. It doesn't mean they can continue doing it and not have to apologize and work on never doing it again as everyone else. It doesn't sound like your husband even thinks he did anything wrong, so why would he change?
You've given her the most advice you can about this issue. Honestly, I don't see that you have to cut her off, but you do need to stop talking about this aspect of her life. Don't hear it, don't let her tell you about it.
Setting a boundary can be difficult, but the initial conversation is pretty similar to the break up you're already contemplating. “I have told you what I think of your dating choices, and you've never taken my advice. I'm sick of being your shoulder to cry on and I don't want to hear it anymore if you're not going to change your choices.” The more difficult part about setting this boundary is enforcing it when she comes crying to you again, tries to show you matches, or asks for advice. Keep it simple “you've heard what I think before. Let's talk about [something else.]” Even if you find that there isn't a lot else to this relationship, I think it will be rewarding for you to practice setting boundaries like this.
Also, just for the record, her problem isn't that she's being promiscuous. Her problem is that she's crossing sexual bridges with untrustworthy men, and only doing so in hopes of securing relationships, when the men she's picking simply aren't looking for relationships. If she were more of a ho, she'd be happier with these encounters for their own sakes.