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I’m unsure right now. She can be harsh with her words and I just recently got myself out of feeling suicidal from the relationship. I’m apprehensive of her and her intentions. I do not want to fall back into that head space. I’d love to make it work if we went to couples counseling though.
IMO “trying your best” should be proceeding carefully and cautiously, not heedlessly diving in headfirst.
I just dont know what to do, i love him and our family and i wanna fix it
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My cousins have 8 kids with 2 brown eyed parents, 6 of them have blue eyes. Both grandmothers had blue eyes.
Gregor Mendel solved this puzzle in 1865 with his research in genetics. Perhaps reproducing with someone that stupid is not such a great idea.
Um, no they don't. We talk about it with our friends. Coworkers are different.
Most women who are killed, are killed by their male partners. Most women who are physically assaulted, are assaulted by their male partners. Did you know that men who assault women like to hit where it is covered by clothing, preferably underwear? So it is well hidden AND shames the victim to have to display it to law enforcement?
Domestic abuse is heavily underreported. People, on the whole, don’t stay with a person who beats them up on a first date unless they are otherwise coerced by their community. Abusers have to slowly acclimate the victim to the abuse with little hits at their self esteem. People who work with abuse victims know how incredibly difficult it can be for victims to leave once they have been manipulated and trapped by an abuser. We urge people to take several steps back at the first sign of abuse. If both parties are young, the abuser may also be able to learn that they are not entitled to act like that.
Honestly, I would break up now and save the hassle. Would he be ok with you sleeping with other guys then? Or is it only a one way thing where he can participate in an open relationship but you can’t?
You’re being you’re being so surface level it’s crazy. Just because something is legal it doesn’t make it morally just. If you have to understand what is morally right by relying on an institution tell you, so and not because your brain has figured out why it is morally wrong then I don’t know what to tell you. It used to be legal not that long ago to rape your spouse. It used to be illegal for unmarried women to have credit cards. It is still illegal in some states to get married to child brides with the parents permission. It used to be a illegal for gay couples to get married! If you only can rely on the law to tell you what’s wrong or right, then how do we as a society you’re freaking progress as a society for Christ sake.
If we are giving pats on the back to predators waiting around for teenagers to be legal age, then we are failing those teenagers. We should absolutely continue to shame creepy ass people who go after teenagers. It really isn’t that difficult to understand why we should.
yea that's a silly perspective for me to have, i just gotta not get in my head about it.
If it makes you sick to know she was intimate with others in her life before you then you need to seriously examine your judgment and understanding of how she got to be the person you love today. It is unrealistic and fantastic to imagine we are the best anything and everything our partner has ever had. Furthermore, it is almost never true save for HS sweethearts… Accept she has a history as you probably do as well. Love that it made her the woman you love today.
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It was entirely her choice to lose her son.
Yup. I would have packed up and left the moment he left.
Not opposed to it in any way, just am unfamiliar and was looking for advice. He’s self conscious about it unfortunately so handling it directly wasn’t getting me far
Girl my friends dog is smarter than him and he is afraid of his own fucking tail and barks at trees.
You have got to understand it’s not disrespect for him to share that information with you. It’s disrespectful that he DIDNT.
Your logic doesn't have to make sense. If you want to break up, break up.
What does he say when you ask him?
I’m not one to advocate for lying usually, but in this case scenario it might be best to slightly obfuscate on how long you’ve actually been dating him. She’ll probably feel very lied to if she finds out you were dating someone and didn’t tell her for 5 years (even if you have a very good reason) so if it was me I’d present it more like “he’s an old friend that I’ve stayed in contact with for years and we’ve grown closer as time has gone on and eventually we started dating but it’s not getting very serious and so I want you to meet him.” I’d say definitely stress to her that you want her to like him and meet him and get to know him etc because that’s probably important to her. Also if she is that protective I would maybe not bring up having him stay in the bedroom. At 19 you’re an adult and should be able to do what you want when it comes to sex/relationships but if having your mothers approval is important to you then offering to have him sleep in a guest room/on the couch might be a good concession (if you want to try to sneak him into the bedroom after she goes to sleep then fair play to you). As far as birth control goes if you want an iud or something like that then you’ll have to see a doctor but if you’re in the US I’d recommend taking a look at the Nurx app. It’s how I get my birth control, you can answer questions about what you’re looking for in a birth control and then they send it right to your house (or you could have it sent to a trusted friends house if you don’t feel comfortable having it sent to your mothers house).
I’ll preface this by saying my partner is amazing. He is diligent. He’s a hard worker. He’s so intelligent. I think any job would be lucky to have him.
A week later, he landed an amazing job that I didn’t expect he would be able to get. But I can’t shake the voice in the back of my head that is bitter that he got it, considering how little he’s had to work for it. My partner doesn’t deserve it, I do think my partner lucked out getting his job
I think everything you said here contradicts what you supposedly think about your partner.
There is no concrete evidence that he got it through sexism. This is completely a you issue and nothing you would have to work on.
You seem to think grades are very important when it comes to getting your job, but quite frankly they don't matter in retrospect when you have your degree( Coming from someone with good grades when I graduated). He might have just killed the interview and shown social skills and ability to articulate himself in an amazing way aswell with great knowledge about whatever field he is in.
However not once have you considered this in your post and it must be, because of some nepotism based in sexism. This all goes back to what I first pointed out you clearly don't seem to view your partner in very high regard at all….
I attend at least one Al anon meeting per day virtually. I have heard of the dry drunk before, but it’s not mentioned often in meetings. Most of those attending have an active alcoholic in their lives. It’s hard to know if and when the ‘dry drunk’ will go away, if ever. He’s done well before in his prior 6 month sober stint, but I don’t think I’m helping with my anxiety and focus on what he’s not doing for me. It’s probably impossible to put any expectations on him at this stage as far as showing up emotionally to our relationship.
I was this girl once upon a time. I've done a lot of reflecting and I'm not sure what the issue was. As soon as I started having more sex (having ruined my six year relationship) I realized how little past experiences stand out when you're with a committed partner. I guess you can't really know until you've done it though. My best guess at the time though was fear projected because of my own insecurities — as soon as I got back in shape and started doing well in school again (in college at the time) and got a good job afterwards, I never experienced any sort of jealousy or fear anywhere close to this. My advice is to help her figure out why she's so scared, and what she can improve about herself that she'll love and be confident in herself more. Looking back, it feels silly to have ever taken the approach I did, when the answer was just loving myself more the whole time.
That is opening the marriage. It is a very common thing for cheaters to suggest opening a bad marriage. If your husband was performing poorly in the bedroom and could not get it up, would you suggest going out the fuck another woman? I don't think so.
She may be feeling a combination of guilt for her cheating and it may be a ploy to wind down the marriage. She told him they are at the roommate stage if you read OP. I just do not buy the selfless go fuck another woman to find out if it is me or you. No woman is going to say that. That is just not going to happen.
I didn’t think I’d ever tell her. You’re right, I think she’s embarrassed. Our dad talks about his addiction struggles all the time but our mom is more hush hush. My siblings and I have all had addiction issues though so I think it’s fair for them to find out one way or another. But you’re right, I think I should give my mom the chance first.
Do both. Talk to her and clearly communicate, AND masturbate.
Be open and honest and thoughtful with her. Its entirely possible that she is aware of the issue impacting on the relationship and she might feel uncomfortable or worried so tread gently. Don't be afraid of talking about it, just be sensitive. Ask questions. Try to understand where she is coming from.
I can understand how painful all these comments must be for you to read. But
Your going circles here. He says what he knows you want to hear to shut you up and keep you around for his convenience.
HE DOES NOT WANT TO GET MARRIED!!!! TO YOU OR ANYONE