That’s a nice history but you both need to discuss this out or end it.
All that history should be helping you working together but it’s not. The secret language is now becoming a language of insults and anger.
You need to both get honest that the relationship has serious problems and both want to fix them. Maybe marriage counselling, if you both need assistance communicating.
Avoidance will only make it grow worse.
Why does he feel so comfortable being unkind to you? It’s a very serious problem. If he can be hurtful to his SO, the one he loves then what does that say about the relationship?
Yes, but are you not because you're female?
Break up with him already. He is a lousy boyfriend.
That’s a nice history but you both need to discuss this out or end it.
All that history should be helping you working together but it’s not. The secret language is now becoming a language of insults and anger.
You need to both get honest that the relationship has serious problems and both want to fix them. Maybe marriage counselling, if you both need assistance communicating.
Avoidance will only make it grow worse.
Why does he feel so comfortable being unkind to you? It’s a very serious problem. If he can be hurtful to his SO, the one he loves then what does that say about the relationship?