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At first I thought maybe it’s innocent and then when I read that your daughter is a young adult my mind changed. Also with the fantasies he has even though you say people shouldn’t be ashamed of fantasies yeah of course but it depends on whether the fantasy stays as a fantasy. In this case he clearly is wanting to develop that fantasy a bit further and it is creepy I’m sorry. It’s obvious especially if he has seen a picture of your daughter already. If he hadn’t seen a picture then maybe but there’s something about him wanting to see more of her that’s based on what he’s already seen and it’s quite clear. This isn’t about fantasies of people related to each other this is simply about your daughter and him wanting to see her.
Yeah that sounds like a common issue, often people want something but have to come to terms with the fact that it will never be “not horrible” for their partner, so definitive choices have to be made, there's just not getting both things (in this case being a stripper and having a happy partner).
This is a very similar dynamic to the “How do I get my partner to be happy about me being poli and seeing other people” threads
Don’t listen to this hater. Don’t let them have a say in your life just because it does t fit into their idea of who you are are “supposed” to date. It’s unorthodox so people will have their opinion but at least try ? Everyone wants it to fail so try? If it fails they will reassure it’s the right thing. If it works you will show us what it means to love unconditionally.
I know what I need to do.. it just sucks. I hate myself for putting in so much effort
You’ve already taken the first step by identifying your different social styles. It’s really up to you to accept it. Ask yourself why you can’t. It seems like you don’t believe her on some level and think she’s doing something to you as opposed to her taking care of herself in this way. Good luck.
You're more concerned about your reputation at work than the fact you cheated on your bf. Again. Sheesh, what a lucky guy
You’re welcome. All the best to you!
No most people would not do that. You were right to shit him down. With kids around and strangers and being in another country…no last place I want to break a law and end up in jail is another country.
Also trying to get you to do stuff around kids not cool. Oh and he may be into public sex that may be his kink, but everyone around watching didn’t consent to share his kink. The thrill of public sex is doing it where you may get caught, not right out in the open for all to see!!
Yes it’s this exactly, I don’t have a problem with the kids being seen hard. It’s more that if any adult other than my wife (or me but I wouldn’t do it) is hot around my nude kid, I would like to know about it before hand.
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This isn’t what I want though, my boyfriend isn’t interested in these topics, it’s a different dynamic/conversation. My boyfriend is skeptic so if all males really, and I don’t intend to have with always with me when I’m with them…
Actually, it is possible. Did I want my kids suckling on my mothers breasts? Absolutely not. It is possible though and I think more likely if they breastfed in their time that their milk can come back. Wet nurses were a thing.
Boundaries, it took a long time to learn how to set boundaries with that woman.
not op, but i really appreciate this kind of reframing.
Then take down the post. Your issue is solvable by letting conversation breathe. No use bellyaching over anything
You must be one of these women who have no self respect and react with irritation when other women do have it then lmao…
Thank you that helped me alot you made really valid points. Idk I've never been in this position before lol it wrecked me when I found out. I just now got to a point where I feel confident in myself again. Idk if I'm stupid or making the right decision lol
Jesus, how many abusive relationships have you been in that this ISN’T a huge red flag to run away?
Why would you still stick around if a) you’ve been treated like that and b) you’re even wondering if “trying to break you” is an ambition of your romantic partner?
Therapy, now. If you keep on letting these jerks into your life you’ll be wondering why all your relationships end up so badly. You don’t “just attract jerks”, no one does, but you need to figure out why you’re letting them get so entrenched in your life like this. It’s not normal and it’s not healthy.
Guess it wasn’t really friendship.
Ya know, sometimes I really want a relationship, but other times I read posts like these and give thanks for just being emotionally invested in a household pet. Bite the bullet and leave, OP. I wish you nothing but good luck.
Assuming it was really her sending the messages, save them (in case you need them later) and block her on everything. Let mutual friends, if any, know what she did so they know to avoid putting you in contact with her. Show the messages so there is no he said, she said. Take what she gave you (both the support and the freedom) and move on.
I would runnnnn
Yeah it’s a tough call from an unbiased bystander view. First off, I’m really sorry this happened to you, that’s hard. Second, I wouldn’t take anything as a reflection of yourself. He seems to be very undecided about where he wants his roots to be and unfortunately sees you as part of his entire undecided equation. Fact of the matter is, you’re willing to fight for things he isn’t at the end of the day. It’s a harsh reality but it’s a reality that will be fine. I’ve definitely broken up for this same reason before and it’s extremely difficult not going to an “I’m not good enough” place. Don’t let that happen. Keep living your life, enjoy the things you enjoy and let this or another situation play out as it will. That’s all anyone can really do. It’s going to be ok and again I’m sorry, it will slowly start to get better I promise. Take the time to feel sad when you need to and it will help your overall recovery.
I’m sorry for your loss.
Your boyfriend needs to believe and trust you. If he won’t, please consider breaking up and finding someone who treats you better. There are guys out there who would be supporting you and giving you attention – not falsely accusing you of cheating and then ignoring you for his friends. I wish you well.
Pap smears aren't just for sexually active women. They are for every woman over the age of 21 to prevent cervical cancer. Cervical cancer can affect anyone regardless of if they've had sex or not.
Lol dude. Asking men if they want to go on a “date” is literally her job.
I was wondering the same – where’s the ‘why’? I would have hoped that maybe even back in the college days that mom or dad would’ve asked the girls why they don’t visit when OP is home. Have the parents been letting this go and get worse for 15yrs? Do they know and just not told OP? Does OP know and isn’t saying?
But if the entire story is portrayed correctly I’d say OP is doing the right thing, it’s not on him anymore to fix
Move on my guy. Like seriously.
3.5 billion other people in the world for you to date. It’s not your job to fix her from past relationships. Not only that she said don’t talk to her. Respect that and her.
It seems that you love drama.
No trust me I don’t mean to paint physical violence like it’s just a normal thing. I definitely don’t condone it and am embarrassed I even stopped so low to physically assault someone. But yes where I grew up fights were fairly common, especially in high school. Unfortunately this girl and I had this drama we had never settled and when you throw alcohol in the mix then emotions can get out of hand, not that it’s an excuse but hey it’s a reality.
No we will not be physically fighting again, I will certainly never try physically fighting someone again. But there is a certain embarrassment that comes with getting beat up, regardless of if fighting is okay or not.
Dude… You need to find another way of boosting your confidence, that's why your relationship with your wife improved.
What you done is pretty messed up, you need to come clean with your wife and let her decide if she wanna still wanna be with you. If you were that unhappy, you should have tried fix the problem/find a solution or break it up. This is so wrong in so many levels, age gap + cheating.
You are pathetic and sad. Come clean to your wife immediately and get yourself into some therapy.
I was thinking the same thing. Wth is she doing with him?!!!!
I would assume a lot of those girls are asian. A lot of especially japanese/Korean girls look VERY young, but are legal the vast majority of times. The discovery page IS based on what you like but not necessarily what you follow and like currently. I used to follow some of these type of girls a year ago, but unfollowed every single one because i got into a relationship and she wasn't comfortable with it(totally fair). I never liked any of the pictures (as in not a single one ever). My Discovery page is still full of girls so it is definitely possible that he doesn't actively search for it anymore, however he for sure did in the past. What you want to do with this information is up to you
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes OP. Your husband and his coworker got exactly what was coming, unfortunately
The colleague has fantasies about her husband watching her having sex with another man.
Her husband apparently missed the memo on this fantasy of hers. Fuck around and find out fits this situation to a T. Colleague wanted to fuck your husband and have her husband watch. Never did it cross her narcissistic mind that maybe you and her husband would also have fun in this scenario.
Don’t tolerate these hateful texts. Craft a lovely response back to her, borrowing from all these greatly worded responses you’ve gotten on this thread and then block her. Or, just send her a link to this thread and then block her. Not sure what to do about your husband. Do you want to salvage this?
This person broke their vows and then kept it a secret. What kind of evil person are you thinking about staying with.
You talk about sunk cost due to all the years spent together. You were investing your time into a person who did not exist.
How do they make it clear?
You want him to change? Shun him. Refuse to hang out with him. Tell him you won't be around him until he stops treating people like shit. Refuse to be okay with his behavior by changing yours. This is the best thing that can happen to him.
People don't change when they see the light. They change when they feel the heat.
I will say he’s an amazing dude. We have our gripes but I love him and best relationship I been in so far
“ I think it would be awesome if you were to paint your toes red. Would you do that for me? “
So you think my reasons are not valid?
I agree – we had a conversation before I left for vacation that we were on the same page! He said multiple times he can’t wait to see me he seemed genuine but now I reckon he wasn’t
He has a valid point and so do you. But I will side with you because it's important to live! together first in an apartment before making a big commitment to buy a house. And of course your sleep is very important. Unless he is planning on proposing to you same time he's planning to buy a house then I can understand his point of view but if he is not… you need to take care of you and your mental state…sleep deprivation is very serious and can mess with you and your mental and physical health and that means moving out and getting your own place and if you can't afford it by yourself…try finding a female roommate.
Considering half the country doesn't think you exist as a person, it might be time to start talking about those issues with him.
…someone has to be the adult and rip the band-aid off.
That's the only way in your situation. And if he is clueless and blindsided, you can tell him it also because he does not pay attention to you or invest effort in the relationship, and that's something you need. So just do it.
Yeah the blocking has come up a few times, we have our mutual friends interstate wedding next week so I am conscious of not wanting to bring bad energy or drama into that situation, I think after the wedding it needs to be done.
OP, go on the trip. Don’t let your husband keep you from it. Which sounds ridiculously obvious and unhelpful lol. But like.. literally do not let him. Just go. Tell him you’re going, arrange childcare for the day of travel (or the whole time, if you want I guess but I wouldn’t) if necessary and let him know where the kids are, and just go. You’re an adult, and are freely allowed to where you please. You aren’t abandoning your children, you aren’t running away, you’re literally just trying to go on a trip. One where you shouldn’t still have to be responsible for childcare (and husbandcare). A solo trip. Alone time. Especially since your husband gets that. The commenter who is insisting it isn’t the same because you aren’t even interested in your husband’s trips is wildly wrong; it is the exact same. Your husband gets his solo trips for his interests, friends, and whatnot. You all have family trips. So you deserve your solo trips for your interests, your friends, and your whatnots.
If this is how much she cared, she wasn't worth clinging to. If she is okay with her friend chasing all her partners away, that's her problem.
You should be more worried about the fact your fiancé was snooping and resolved things with physical violence than your friends personal meanderings.