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As long as you’re happy and satisfied it doesn’t matter. What’s “normal” for others might not be normal for you. Whatever works works.
Take care of your cats, dammit. Get them away from that asshole
yes, i was fine its just that i ended up vomitting. i don't remember doing anything too embarrassing.
This is what usually happens when someone is pressured into opening up their marriage against their will.
They meet someone they are more in tune with and leave their spouse.
Is he right to feel threatened? Yes, his marriage is under threat, but the culprit is his own stupidity and selfishness.
For Both you and OPs boyfriend. Walking is good for your heart and will burn some calories but weight loss is 90% or more controlling what you eat.
15 mins of soul crushing burpees which are one of the faster calorie burning cardio methods will only burn 80-150 calories. It's so much easier to skip the soda or make a portion 15% smaller.
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Can you maybe text Andrew or try to get him alone and ask him what really happened?
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Block her on all platforms. Do not respond. You don't need to feed her anything.
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Just tell her “No you don’t want to talk she is into ploy relationships and you are monogamous it will never work y’all want to completely different things” it’s best for you to not let her open that can
Thank you for this. I agree. He’s already come up with ways to prove and show me with actions and has addressed one of the underlying issues (“scared of rejection so I didn’t bring this up to you and looked for it elsewhere”) so it’s clear he’s already doing the work. His parents said no to therapy, so there’s nothing he can do ATP with no job of his own until this coming summer (we’re students). He’s trying I think, just not sure how this time will be different than the last. But thank you for sharing that post – I just shared with him
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I had the same thought. Tons of relationships are made of men who are much higher earners than their partners and people don’t typically ask the man why he is with a woman who he may have to financially support. I thought these comments were weird. The age gap is the concerning part to me.
Yes he is definitely negging. He doesn’t get to define if you are wife material for other people. It’s fine if he isn’t interested in you but he is trying to knock you down a peg with this comment and make you feel insecure.
You guys didn't have clear enough communication. That's something you can fix or work on going forward. You need to be direct and ask questions. A statement of “Hey I'm really enjoying our time together. But I'd love if we could be exclusive. To me that means no flirting, dating, or having physical relations with other people. Is that something you're able to commit to as well?” You can't assume things because that's how you get hurt. You aren't official. You aren't exclusive. Yes, this looks bad. But you can't expect him to abide by rules he wasn't explicitly made away exists.
Also, she 'randomly' showed up on a day that girlfriend is normally out of town.
I would buy a random Saturday or Sunday drop by. I'm but not a work day drop by.
Your wife is childish, and frankly, I wouldn’t support this at all. She can have good boundaries at home and take care of your children but that is their grandmother and your mother.
Not really if you do some snooping because you suspect or gut tells you they are lying its better to snoop then to find out a few weeks later bank account is cleaned out bills are three months in the rear credit cards are fully maxed and your spouse took off with another person
Thata what happened to my brother. His wife told him no and why would you accuse me of this.. She was super defensive .
Tom came home from work everything was gone.
And power was shut off He could not get it back on without paying bill in full plus late fees thats how he found out credit card was maxed. Me mom our sister all had to help him.
Took him a few years to recover his distroyed credit.
So yes snooping and baby cam or nanny cam are good so is checking the phone.
Hey, hey, don't be so hard on OP.
We are in a presence of a newborn legend. One who managed to get his girlfriend pregnant without having sex with her, just by sheer power of sarcasm. (Look, it's in his comments, magnificent).
We are on an advice sub, be gentle.
He asked how to convince his pregnant girlfriend that she doesn't need marriage. Or, maybe, that she doesn't deserve being married to OP, input unclear.
Any ideas?
I'm out of my sarcasm stash, unfortunately.
Its not rude. His “baggage' has just outweighed his plus points. No ones fault, just end it.
What you've got there is a Mansplainer.
Don't date someone who, in your own words: is condescending, belittling, dismissive, a bit of a bully, shows you little to no respect, who you constantly have to prove yourself to…. Do you need more? I mean I'm exhausted just reading this, why are you living it?
I second this! You seem like an upstanding, rational, reasonable human. That will take you far!
Does he not care about his hygiene? I get that he could get sweaty again from sex, but I would rather get sweaty from sex than add sex sweat to work sweat.
Some dudes really don't care about hygiene.
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Take solace in the fact she knows who you are and is still interested
She isn’t valuing his feelings, either. Frankly I don’t find this at all unusual. Mixed-gender bachelor/ette parties are becoming more and more common. He’s essentially going on vacation with his closest friends for a few days, and if he hasn’t done anything to earn her distrust, then OP needs to let him go. She’s valid in her feelings, but not valid in how she’s expressing them.
@OrionDecline21 – New here at Reddit. Saw you comment but strange I cant see it here. Will respond anyway. Agreement was about 3 yrs ago
Yo DO know what to do.
Split up. Easy fucking peasy.
You two are 100% incompatible.
This is an important question because if he's betting she would be impoverished by leaving him it becomes financial abuse motivation. She very obviously doesn't feel permitted to spend on pursuits that only benefit herself so maybe she has limited access?
I’m down bad. Thanks for the advice.
Hear me out , you’re projecting something on to bro that might not be there. Sounds like dude just took pictures and the wife was for it until her husband didn’t really like those pics
Part of this is, she’s taking you for granted you may need a different approach you. You need to set up a date night whether she’s working or not if she can go out with her friend someone she can make one night a week when she goes out with you. And you need to stick to it. I think when you’ve been together that long you get into a groove and you take each other for granted. Either that or you start going out at night and doing some thing on your own and see how she likes that.
Not confronted, but told him about it*
First of all, get an attorney and file for divorce.
Second, with the help of your attorney see what your options are for charging her with identify theft/fraud. You may be able to work with the bank to get any money drawn from your account back (since you didn't authorize the charges). You'll probably have to file a police report.
The amount here is going to put her into felony territory, so there is a chance she will go to jail. Are you willing/able to take full custody of the child if it comes to that?
If she uses a VPN, then the likelihood of them finding out who’s behind the email is slim to none. Could even email as a concerned friend who saw her husband with someone else .. doesn’t have to be “hey I’ve been sleeping with your husband for 8 months”
He's also abusive garbage.
Sorry you had to go through that – it’s stressful.
From the advice here, I’ve decided to change my number. Not able to move – I live in a 10 story building with decent security. I have the feeling she drives by my place just to see if I’m home (lights on). She had wanted to drive by and watch me and my father move me out of my building… which is FUCKING WEIRD.
Also accused me of lying about the time it took me to walk to work..? Bizarre.
You can’t really set boundaries with people you’re casually dating, it’s a take it or leave it situation.
I agree, a man/woman in a committed relationship shouldn’t be getting calls at 1am. But until then he’s free to do whatever
There’s no saving this shit. He was fucking someone else while you were pregnant! He only came back cause it didn’t work out with his side piece. Jesus Christ lady. Pick yourself up off the floor. You’re like the mat in front of my house door. Everyone and their mom wipes their feet on it. Even with 4 kids you can do better than this loser. There’s no reconciliation here. As soon as he finds the next woman he’s gonna be gone again but he’ll come back when that doesn’t work out cause he has his doormat waiting for him at home. I hope you don’t have any daughters cause you’re showing them what a shit relationship looks like.
He is ASHAMED of you because you don't have big boobs. He thinks a woman is just “worthy” to be his gf when she has big boobs.He showed around your sis and told his friends that she is you. Just end it. He thinks big tits is something to brag about. That’s disgusting overall.
She is 54
Here’s the thing. You don’t truly need answers, nobody does, you & the grandparents want them. But your son doesn’t owe anything to anyone.
My advice, if you want to save the relationship, would be to choose to accept him, as-is, without asking for any more information. Your love should be unconditional, not based on his answers or lack thereof.
Why are you tolerating a man that gets in your face and who gives you the finger. You have a son. Would you be really proud of your son if he turned out exactly like your boyfriend? Because he will if you stay with him. I think you overreacted to one night of your buzzed boyfriend coming home and being annoying. But. You aren’t going to change him. It sounds as if you have 2 children.
The diagnosis of obsession has already been made. ?
His coworker is being inappropriate. He needs to make it clear that he is not going to discuss anything not work related with her.
“My marriage is not a topic I'm going to discuss. Is there anything work related you need to talk about?”
At these work events he can excuse you both from sitting next to her. “Excuse us. We're going to mingle” or “I see John over there. I need to talk to him. Excuse us.”
What is asking/demanding is insane. You don't want a broken home, but what would this be for your child? This is not fair or even humane.
What about if a hook up gets pregnant or gives him an std, or gets attached and tries to harm you?
What if you did the same and sought out other men.
What if you said if he does, you will too, in the name of fair, would he be ok with you sleeping with other men.
You know this is a deal breaker, and you need to ready yourself if you need to leave.
Make an exit strategy for yourself.
Be clear and firm. It seems like he doesn't think you would go through with leaving him. He needs to know you are serious.
Also do you even want to stay with someone like this. He clearly doesn't love you, respect you or care how you feel in all.of this. This is toxic for you.
You deserve better.
I agree, a conversation outlining exactly how OP feels and that she's just been through earth-shattering trauma and spelling out that if hubby wants kids he's got to be a mature partner and put his family first, which includes OP, she's not just a bangmaid/vessel for his future children.
My partner has said some weird stuff in the past and I've addressed it each time by talking with him. He used to make fun of stuff that I did that was important to me, I told him not to, he stopped. Nobody's perfect and communication is important. Some people really need things spelled out to them.
Similarly my partner wanted our daughter to study science while she was drawn to the arts. Once I'd explained what would happen if he put his foot down, he understood and has been very supportive of her career choices ever since.
Don't do it to please him, but don't use your past trauma,he will feel youre being manipulative, he's being manipulative,using your trauma against you and this is why, we must stop trauma dumping and stop associating virginity as a gift and honour, so he's your first, unless he's a vCard collector it means little. Just tell him no, no excuses, no trauma dumping, no vCard playing, just a simple no. If there's a difference too big to overcome you'll end up seperating, if you do it to please him he'll open up with more fantasies. So No.O it's a complete sentence, be respects it or you take yourself out of this relationship and heal from your traumas and if you meet someone clean slate.
She cheated lied and is gaslighting. Talk to a few lawyers
Run away and take everything you can
Might be a boomer/millennial thing?
On the upside his mom’s forever is shorter than his… but yeah – this dynamic is bizarre and toxic. I wouldn’t proceed.