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OP, he drugged your child. He has hit you. You need to get out IMMEDIATELY, and you need to see an attorney first, then they can advise you on getting your child tested for drugs, etc.—where are you located, OP? Depending on where you are, you may not need your husband’s consent to record him. If you can get him to admit in a text that he drugged your son though, that could be admissible in court, depending on what your attorney says. You could always send voice memos, if that’s a way around it, but, I’m not a lawyer, and this is not legal advice. This man is an abuser, he clearly doesn’t see anything wrong with drugging children, so he doesn’t need custody.
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I don’t like him, he’s gay. We’ve been friends for 8 years. I’ve been trying to set healthy boundaries with him because he’s turned a little toxic lately. Example: he purposely tried to ruin his two friends relationship because one of them tried to ghost him and get her boyfriend to as well and he found out and told the boyfriend that she has been with this many guys.
You’re not a priority and he’s clearly got a lot going on. Ditch his ass. You deserve to be a priority.
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I am the one who believes all the survivors kind irrespective of their gender and sexuality. I won’t say the same about you though.
OP, he drugged your child. He has hit you. You need to get out IMMEDIATELY, and you need to see an attorney first, then they can advise you on getting your child tested for drugs, etc.—where are you located, OP? Depending on where you are, you may not need your husband’s consent to record him. If you can get him to admit in a text that he drugged your son though, that could be admissible in court, depending on what your attorney says. You could always send voice memos, if that’s a way around it, but, I’m not a lawyer, and this is not legal advice. This man is an abuser, he clearly doesn’t see anything wrong with drugging children, so he doesn’t need custody.
Most importantly: Is there anywhere safe that you can go? Can you safely and quietly pack your things and get out, without him suspecting anything? You need to get somewhere safe so you can file police reports, and possibly a restraining order if he escalates.
I don’t like him, he’s gay. We’ve been friends for 8 years. I’ve been trying to set healthy boundaries with him because he’s turned a little toxic lately. Example: he purposely tried to ruin his two friends relationship because one of them tried to ghost him and get her boyfriend to as well and he found out and told the boyfriend that she has been with this many guys.