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Date: October 18, 2022
Tell him to go stay with his friend and co-workers that you are done with him and you want him out. Go live your life and quit wasting it him . He's more than likely cheating on you and his friends are more important than you! Dump him and start living!
This is really horrible. First, before doing anything focus on eating, sleeping, resting, drinking water and breathing.
This is going to be a journey to get over, but you need to start off with the bare minimum. Try your best not to be alone, be with someone you know well. But keep eating, sleeping, resting and drinking water
Second this guy was not who you thought he was. I don’t want to make any judgments of him as you may feel hurt if I do. But he’s not who you thought he was.
Womp womp
My parents?
It's probably a serious mental block and he should seek therapy. I say this because we have a coworker who is famous for smelling awful. He works the previous shift as me and if he works in my area you have to air the room out for a few hours before his eye watering scent will dissipate.
He is the reason I think it's probably a serious problem for your boyfriend. My coworker has been told dozens of times by us that he needs to take his hygiene more seriously. He's been pulled into the office by the higher ups who have threatened to fire him over it. Every time he gets very aggresive and angry. The idea that he should shower at least once a week really sets this dude off. He was suspended the last time, not because of his smell, but because of the meltdown he had when he was confronted about it. And never once have these confrontations resulted in him taking a shower/doing his laundry.
On a side note, management uses him as a punsihment. If you call in sick too many times or come in late or somehow piss the managers off they will schedule you to work next to him for weeks at a time.
God bless you for having the patience of not having left him already. You have a very kind heart. You should tell him if he's not willing to get therapy to get the help he needs to stop stinking you are out of there.
as long as you’re compatible and both comfortable, it’s not weird at all!!
Exactly
This one’s 50/50. If you were worried about having a full class, you should have been there with some time to spare. That said, it’s absolutely not okay for someone to snap at you in a professional setting.
it could be the reason that her husband is no longer attracted to her as she claims
I know that you are right, but it just hurts too much to let her go.
Yeah…that might be a help.
Actually, “romance” has nothing to do with partnering. It simply a word
that identifies a particularly idealized way of regarding something. So,
for instance, in the US and Aus there are folks who regard the frontier life
of the 19th Century in an idealized or “romantic” fashion. What we call
“romance novels” are commonly sticky sweet or idealized tales of Love.
If you have that link it would be great.
Learn something new every day! 🙂
Ma’m that nigga ain’t shit you worth more you’ve tried enough and it ain’t working you’re just hurting yourself and what you mean he going to swinging parties without you that’s just straight cheating
Your wife is a selfish bitch. She’s not even a wife. Divorce her and let her “explorer” her feelings with the guy that didn’t marry her.
Why would he never? You say he loves the kitten. It didn't even do anything to make him mad. So why, exactly, would he not do the same to you?
The kitten could very easily have died. Do you think he cared about that at the time? Do you think someone who doesn't care about killing the little baby kitten they're raising has the basic empathy required to not push their girlfriend down the stairs when they're mad or drunk?
He can't see that throwing the kitten is bad because he doesn't mind hurting the things that love him. You are also a thing that loves him.
Please revise “he will never hurt me” in your mind to “he has never hurt me YET.”
Please rehome the kitten somewhere it will not be abused even if you won't do the same courtesy for yourself. And do not have kids with this man, ffs.
Why does he have so much free time?
Why isn’t he working?
Your conscience should be the least of your attention right now. Your GF is exhibiting textbook behavior of shifting her emotional energy elsewhere. Ask her about it, there’s a betting chance that she’s crushing or worse on a coworker or manager.
Yeah man everyone posts on their main account about suspecting their girlfriend lying about abuse
r/nonmonogamy and r/polyamory would probably be more relevant here.
Lol I also had issues with an ex of mine who would turn me down for sex and then lock himself in the bathroom to watch porn and jerk off…especially when I could hear him through the connecting walls. And he wasn’t even trying to chat the nude women he watched up like you do!
So yeah this sounds less about an issue relating to her respecting your boundaries and more about an issue around you not being happy about your safe space to borderline cheat being taken away.
50 other men at 19? And you feel just “uncomfortable”? Lol Man you have two choices. Just ignore this and keep up with her or dodge the bullet before you become the 51st.
I’m five years since leaving my dv marriage.
His life has gotten worse(without me there keeping him out of trouble and cleaning his messes) and mine has gotten SO MUCH BETTER. And my children are THRIVING not seeing the abuse anymore. He’s stayed in trouble legally for beating the various gfs/wives he’s has in five years, so the kids don’t even see him anymore. They’re happier. We all are. You aren’t to blame for the consequences of HER actions. Protect yourself and your children
This one incredibly drunk massive fuck up is the only thing that shows otherwise in 3 years together.
That's the only fuck-up you know about.
I love my wife, when I get drunk and horny, I go home and fuck my wife.
Your wife heard you were in the hospital and thought it was a good idea to get drunk and fuck her co-worker. Which was a sequence of choices by the way, not one fuck-up.
What the hell? I thought you were like 270 -300 lbs or something. Nothing at all is wrong with your weight, you husband is just a spineless prick who sounds like he wants you to be anorexic. I know you love him but let him leave if he wants, don't hurt yourself trying to live up to his image
I’ve read that post as well. There’s a bit, actually a huge bit of difference between walking in front of your siblings partner nude and getting them an expensive gift. We don’t know how much this guy earns and we don’t know if he has a crush or not. Whereas what the woman did was hugely inappropriate and went way over the line.
My sister has a partner of 5 years. I now consider him family and a friend. I wouldn’t be able to afford to get him a $200 gift but if I saw something I knew he would like, I would quite happily get it for him for Xmas or his birthday. Wouldn’t think twice about it and there would definitely be no ulterior motives, nor would my sister think so. It’s what I do for anyone I care about and I come from a very generous family.
0 brain cells
We've never interacted before.
Lawyer up, lawyer down, lawyer all around, & stay focused on the things that need to be established after the divorce is finalized; custody, child support, living situation, work, bills, money, back accounts, assets, etc.
PLEASE do what the above comments suggest – force her to be your stepmom, take you to the nail salon/shopping/whatever, treat her like a decrepit old woman who’s embarrassing as hell and out of touch while also constantly reminding her that she’s literally your age, just make it as ridiculously uncomfortable as possible without going overboard. And make sure to gush to dad about how great y’all are getting along. It’ll be great.
Omg there’s gotta be some major pros and cons to that ahha
& as for right now he’s in school and doesn’t have a lot of free time and im out of school and have a lot of free time so I think when he’s done with school we could try but I want him to make friends while he’s still in college!
If your wife gifts you an engraved diamond tiara, I hope you never exchange it and wear it out in public on special occasions to show how much you appreciate it ?
I appreciate you trying to make sense of this, but my mother's life choices are one of my main driving forces to BE better in the first place. These two men don't share all that many similarities on the outside. I may have fucked up in getting with someone who's so much older than me, but that was never her particular problem. I suppose you mean choosing the wrong partners in general? But I mean, it did take three years for this to happen and I'm immediately considering leaving, so do we really have to put it on the same level?
I appreciate you trying to make sense of this, but my mother's life choices are one of my main driving forces to BE better in the first place. These two men don't share all that many similarities on the outside. I may have fucked up in getting with someone who's so much older than me, but that was never her particular problem. I suppose you mean choosing the wrong partners in general? But I mean, it did take three years for this to happen and I'm immediately considering leaving, so do we really have to put it on the same level?
Is it really a beautiful relationship if your needs aren't getting met and if he can't really communicate with you? I'd vote no.
You both deserve better, even if that means being on your own. He's settled for you, and you deserve better than that.
Hopefully you won’t ever blindly trust like that again. All humans are capable sod horrific actions.
Also I wouldn’t let him around the baby after cheating on you with someone who’s husband cheats on them before getting tested. TONS of diseases get passed orally, and just about every disease is deadly to the baby
Bro she literally was trying to control your life. Telling you who you can and can’t follow meanwhile when you tried to set the same boundaries she instantly told you know and was gaslighting the shit out of you. She took advantage of you during the whole thing. My guy listen to me and listen clearly you did nothing wrong except for letting her walk all over you. You did nothing wrong . I understand man love is nude but remember from here on out 3 things you need to make sure you do before you get in another relationship so to protect yourself and to weeded out all the bad apples. 1) work on boundaries, so that you can weeded out all the bad apples.2) love is not a one way street it’s 50/50 no more no less, if a women is putting all these restrictions on you but when you start to set your own boundaries and she won’t let you then red flags should be sounding off in your head.)3 I know us kind heart people don’t like confrontation or getting involved with drama but don’t ever ever let someone disrespect you no matter who it is stand your ground and don’t let no other human treat you differently or with little to no respect. You got this dawg you really do you will just have to get it through your mind that this was not love.
Please bring it up anyway. Therapists are not worried about losing clients. But it is their job to listen, be affirmative and help you realize on your own the patterns of your own behavior that are harmful to you. They may try to see why you should question your behavior but they are not there to hold you accountable or tell you that you are wrong. You need to dig deep to figure out why you think this type of behavior is okay. Strangers on the internet are not going to solve this.
I do everything i cook i clean i do the laundry. She won't get off the couch to help me ever.
Why did you think marrying her was a good idea?
I’ve had two they’re so cute.
Call the police.
Are you that desperate to want to keep a man who you “llllllooovvveee” who cant keep his dick where it belongs? Throw in verbal abuse, and manipulation and we can all see why you dont want to lose him…ugh
Wake up, open your eyes, have some self respect, and be thrilled that you can get out of this now.
You dumped him he doesn't owe you any conversation. I understand why you dumped him (obviously), but I'm not sure why you were so shocked that he decided to ignore you.
Most likely when he reached out he was going to see if you guys could rekindle the relationship. You didn't respond and now he has someone, so that moment (in his mind) has passed.
Run from this spoiled little bitch.
Firstly, that's rape and secondly I think the problem is less your vagina and more that he probably masturbates with a death grip. Despite what some sexist men would like you to believe vaginas don't actually getting looser the more sex you have. This is absolutely a him problem.
say sike
You should be old enough not to fall for all the standard cheater lines but alas
Enjoy it while it lasts and maybe figure out how comfy you are with cheating
So, this might get mixed reviews but…
The first year of marriage is really stressful, even in a happy marriage when it's good stress. It's a very big life change. So it's moving to another country alone without a spouse. High stress situations do align themselves with poorer use of prefrontal cortex…
Points in her favor: She could've easily pretended that that message was nothing and kept the lie going, it at least you alluded to that… but it was her guilt that finally outed her.
It seems (I could be wrong though) from the post and your comments that you've looked through her messages and that's all you've found in the three years since it happened… so it appears she's telling the truth about it being the one guy, and has now gone five times longer without cheating than she has prior to the one (long) episode.
Points against her: It wasn't just sex. It was a whole ass relationship. And it lasted for months..
It took over three years for you to find out, so how much longer would it take to find out about another?
She hasn't blocked him altogether
I agree with one of the most rational commenters: Step 1: make NO decisions right now. Give it a good 6 months. Step 2: individual and group counseling. Non-negotiable Step 3: she blocks him from every platform/ form of communication forever. No goodbye, no explanation to him. Block and be done. Step 4: start working NOW to become independent, so should you decide this was a deal breaker, there are fewer barriers to leaving.
I was the one in your shoes (kinda), 5 years ago. Found out nearly 3 years afterward, while very pregnant, that during the PRIOR pregnancy, a year into marriage, that he was working on a whole relationship, for months, with someone else, right under my nose. Luckily? There was no sex, but near the end, an alone time outing was being planned (or attempted), when a family emergency caused her to realize who his wife was (we actually knew each other) and saw how pregnant I was, and she shut the whole thing down (NOT him). I found out because of imessage and an old iPad being found for FaceTime calls while he was away for a week. There were a few messages that somehow got missed in the deleting all the evidence process from the iPad, then forgotten about…
this discovery, at a time when he had just left for a week and couldn't return to deal with it, was distressing to say the least and after for days of what felt like torture, ragen and devastation on my end, and complete open communication and only remorse on his, I went into preterm labor, and was forced to GTFover it ASAP… so I messaged her, calmly explaining the situation, and that i really just needed to expedite the closure process but to do that i felt i needed corroboration from her to see if there were any other lies. A few small details were different but the big picture items were pretty consistent (but not overly consistent as a jointly rehearsed story would've been). She was also very apologetic and told me how guilty she felt about it are realizing it was me on the other side. And then when he got back, he let/ made me slap him, was perfectly fine with every one of my demands, which ended up with her blocked, and every other female friend on social media who wasn't kin to one of us or over 60 unfriended, and a few other somewhat unreasonable demands, but then again, I was also pregnant, so….
We worked through it. That was 5 years ago. And i don't really think about it anymore.
Hiya… thank you. Your advice is really helpful.. thank you. You know when you start to wonder if you're going crazy. The relationship has basically crumbled cos of lack of time but he's handled it so badly. He has trust issues going back to things that happened before we were exclusive. I almost feel like the break would be best but it'd a little nude atm x
Something to keep in mind – arguments should not be about “winning”. You both need to learn to approach disagreements with kindness and learn how to talk things out to a mutually beneficial ending. Make a ground rule that there is no yelling or name calling, also.
I do understand how you feel. Even if something isn’t inherently sexual, it can still feel intimate or familiar in a way that shouldn’t be shared with someone that isn’t your partner. It is totally okay you to feel weird about it.
If he hadn’t lied I’d be saying chalk it up to innocently not realising it would be a boundary, make sure you’re both clear on it and move on, but the lie does make me think he knew it wouldn’t be viewed favourably.
Grab your shit and go
Aversion therapy?
Yes. Stick to women who have fully developed brains. Next time she does it – ask her what she's hiding?
Her – nothing.
I'd ask you why you are staying with someone who's lying to you as far as you're concerned since she keeps doing it?
Her – none of your business.
Someone's phone should be private. I'd ask you why you are staying with someone that you don't trust?
Her – I'm not hiding anything and proceeds to show you that she's playing some mobile game. End of story.
Or many other scenarios.
If you don't trust your girlfriend, then why are you with your girlfriend?
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