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That’s the hope. But, the ball is in his court. If he chooses me, then he really did love me as much as he said that he did. If he chooses her, then he didn’t… and probably doesn’t truly love her either because he still has feelings for me and isn’t over me. I feel bad for the other woman… but, this is my soulmate.
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You are way, way too young to be putting your relationship before your career. He told you he wouldn't do long distance. There's your answer.
I'm sorry I meant to say I haven't seen him in a while since he currently has covid.
Would you agree that a man's action speak louder than words? Hence verbally saying it, is an action.
I am indeed insecure. It's difficult to trust when that person may not even trust themselves.
A 12 year old child doesn't need to be exposed to further trauma to sate your curiosity. All this is going to do is further the problems going on. Your brothers both need therapy, not to have one's birth being analyzed like he's an object. It's not going to just fix their relationship.
she just wants permission to cheat on you bud
she might already be cheating tbh
Yes. Let her gain weight, if that’s really what’s important to you, I can assure you that there is a great chance her weigh issues will stop as soon as she get the help she needs mentally. I’m also pretty sure that how she feels mentally is connected with how attracted you feel to her. If she’s irritable and in a bad mood it’s obvious you won’t feel attracted to her anymore. Trust me I’ve been through a very similar thing.
From someone who has ADD and was put on medication – 40-50mg Vyvanse, which is the medium-high dose, this was 100% me.
I lost interest in people because I wanted to DO things – chores, studying, hobbies, etc that felt important to me at the time. Doing things with people felt like it was tearing me away from what had to be done and when I WAS doing stuff with them (ex. having dinner) I would feel so irritable because I just wanted to get back to the other stuff. It was almost a painful feeling. It's what the meds often do, they hyperfocus you. They can make you hella irritable. They can make you robotic and lose empathy. They can make you detached from others and not even realize it. They can give you wicked mood swings since their half lives are so short. They may very much help you with focus and motivation – I got more done in the year I was on them than in my entire life. But I lost myself and by the end of the year my self esteem was incredibly low, I was having major mood swings and I was thinking dark thoughts. I got off them.
Medication affects everyone differently. It sounds like his dose is too high – even if it helps him focus, the lack of appetite, mood changes, irritability, those are all side effects indicating he should lower his dose. This may not be the right medication for him, either – there are lots of other ADHD meds to try. Vyvanse never fully worked for me, even on small doses it made me feel hyperfocused and detached.
I'd recommend talking with him and rather than accusations or ultimatums, ask him how he's feeling about the stimulants, if he's noticed changes in mood, if he feels irritable towards you and the kids, if he feels he could go a few days without them. Have you helped him feel supported? New meds are a scary journey and maybe he doesn't feel confident sharing the side effects with you because he's feeling a bit of relief from his ADHD symptoms and isn't sure how to feel, or feels embarassed and shameful with his irritability, avoidance, etc. He might finally feel like he has focus or motivation and is scared of going back to before. He may not know that he does NOT have to endure these new side effects forever at the cost of focus. There are other ones to try and different doses/timing.
Also – make sure you know what your ultimate goal when talking to him is. Do you want him to “be like he was before”? That might not be something he can control, and what should be important is that he keeps treating you with love and respect. Do you want him to acknowledge his mood changes? He may already know that they exist and just not feel comfortable talking about them. Or do you just want to feel loved and supported? This one is the most important and you have every right to tell him what you need and set your boundaries. Your daughter included.
As another poster said, stimulant abuse is possible, but unless he's getting more from his doctor or off the street, it sounds like the dose is just too high or the med is wrong for him (since so many people feel these exact symptoms). Tell him what you need and if he won't make an effort, on meds or not, that's a reflection of his respect for you and how he ultimately feels.
Even if these meds made him feel amazing and he was blind to all side effects, if someone he loves and cares about and respects is telling him they're hurting, he should ask what he can do to help support you. If he doesn't do that, that's not a good sign.
Your brother implying pussies aren’t tough? Tell him pussies can give birth to human beings, and they can also take a pounding.
we've been together for about 6 months now. i think im gonna try one last time to get my point across and see if she can understand me atleast. if not, yeah im definitely heading out
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I don't think he did know – she said she never told him it bothered her.
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It doesn't sound like he loves her very much. I'm bisexual but I'd never choose a random (literal) dick over my girlfriend
Great insight. Drawing a firm boundary is a good way to go about it. I’ll present it more like that ?? and yeah, I can’t imagine the headspace he must be in when he struggles with using. I’ll try to ask him to elaborate on that more as well so I can help him with that too, if he’s open to it. I’ll do some research on the topic too. Thank you so much for all your advice!
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Thank you!!! I actually listened to a couple of episodes of that podcast awhile ago but didn’t get too into it. I’ll go back and check that one out.
Honestly, you’re kind of adorable. It’s so cute how proud of your statements you are but you are the one that is confused.
I made two separate statements, that you seem to be combining together to form a single thought which just isn’t there. Yes, defamation can be illegal in certain places including 13 states. However, when I said, OP could get into legal trouble I meant in civil court, because her ex could sue her for defamation. I think that’s where the confusion lies, legal troubles, aren’t just criminal… They can be civil.
I hope I cleared that up for you.
You shouldn't marry if you know each other for 6 months, it's way too early. Do you already on-line together? And why this need to be married ?
You are trying to bridge 2 cultures. Difficult and with challenges. I’d go for it and hope your parents come around
I’m hoping that there’s a way to have both, but I’m on your boat- I want this abstinence thing to be great, but it’s difficult when it’s “supposed to be difficult”
What? Do you think lying is justified “because you dont want them to find the truth”?
Would you defend a spouse lying to their s/o? Would you think its rude to find out you are being cheated on?
She is their fucking sister. She isnt their colleague. They have a fucking blood relationship and this brings a lot of things OP is entitled to ask.
Please don’t. She literally showed you what kind of person she is. You need to take this time to heal and find yourself. Be happy alone, then find someone better.
Damn dude chill. She’s on birth control. She doesn’t want a kid either. Just take a deep breath and calm down.
You NEED to get out while you can. His violence will only escalate from here. He's shown you who he really is and you need to listen to that.
It is NOT safe to come back. He is violent and now a danger to your safety. You will absolutely never trust him again after this and you know it.
It sounds like you don't have a home together. Pull out your money from joint accounts and open a new bank account ASAP and go stay with friends or family. You also need to document your face, bruises he left, and the play-by-play of exactly what happened while it's fresh in your mind.
…Why would be protect you from yourself? You’re a full grown adult
And don’t try to use being on the spectrum as an excuse for your behavior. I’m on it as well and I’m still responsible for what I say and smart enough to know not to get drunk if I can’t keep my mouth shut
I would have loved to show it to her, she still hasn't even opened my texts, and at this point I'm done trying. This isn't the first time she's blatantly called me a liar even when I had proof
Wait so are you trying to be friends with him or are you trying to date him? It seems like y'all were platonic friends who go out together sometimes but you have a crush on him and thought y'all were working towards a relationship.
If she's really sweet she wouldn't be stringing her boy friend along. she would just break it off if it isn't working for her. Even if you are the better fighter he could use a gun or just get lucky. If I was you I would cool my jets until she is truly single then go for it if you want to.
This is especially shitty because he’s hiding you AND blaming you for it. You’d think he’d at least blame his friends or something but no, he’s intentionally keeping you down so you don’t question him but rather question yourself. I mean you’re already buying into it too (“it probably is true” Really? You apparently act “unpredictability” yet you’re totally unaware until this moment? C’mon).
You want your daughter and partner to get along? Then get your partner to stop being an asshole. Problem solved.
She might be playing naked to get.
It’s not about being valid. It’s about unity. A family stands under the same name.What name do you put on Christmas cards? What letter do you have on the front doormat? And if the response is 2 then why even get married
Then you know a contractor and an employee are two entirely different things, right?
This is the trouble with being a 'homemaker' when you don't have children to care for. If this is literally your only job then of course he will expect it to be done to a certain standard. Terrible idea to willingly rely on someone else's income like that without good reason, it means you're beholden to him.
Get a job and get your independence, then you will both have to put the effort into cleaning and cooking and things will be more equal.
Have to say though, it's not great that he's witholding affection like that. So maybe just get a job and get your own place away from him.
Sorry but what… you're 43… with a 2 year old… and married to a man who is the same age as your son…. and you see nothing wrong with this!? It's so weird to me… like when I'm 43 my son will be 20 I cringe at the thought of doing something remotely close to this… ? sorry but like you said you opened yourself to criticism and that's what your getting. You're 43… and your husband is 22… like, what?!
I didn’t realize he was deceitful until during our relationship and after realizing it, we broke up. Unfortunately I gave him the benefit of doubt like every other woman who’s in love. I’m definitely not proud of it but I can’t go back in time.
For me, logic comes first. We have an argument and she caves.
you sound exhausting and if this is repeated, it is lowkey emotionally abusive.
Your stream rolling her at every angle, and she's not “pissed at herself” – shes pissed at you for being a bully.
Watching mass-viewed videos without personal interaction is not cheating. If there was a rule against it that would be something they need to work out, but it's not cheating.
I see nothing to justify the invasion of privacy and he should have stopped up for himself and said no that's personal.
But its for $200
Having a crush on him is not a bad thing.
Having anxiety is not bad either.
Communicating a need for space was the right thing to do.
Being prone to word vomit can be adorable.
Being roofied was not your fault.
HOWEVER, are you getting help for your anxiety and trauma? If you aren't, then you will not be able to have a healthy relationship with anyone. I have been in therapy for 2 years and I cannot recommend it enough, it saved me and continues to teach me.
i didn't violate any of the boundaries of my relationship and i never got the sense that he was trying to push things to go any further than they did. it was always just backrubs and him asking me “do you feel appreciated in our friendship?”
Not enough context here to determine. Does this happen often, where she fails to provide pertinent information? Have you had issues with your parents in the past?
She sound immature and controlling. I known it will be naked but stop sending her messages and calling when she does that. Send 1 message or make 1 call. If you don’t get a response back then go on with your life till you do.
Both are durable and get used quite often so I don’t think my spelling matters much as the point comes across regardless either way.
He’s lying. I’d stake my house on it. If you need the stuff back you can maybe ask a friend to meet him somewhere public for it.
Otherwise I’d delete, block, and move on.
I’ve mostly travelled by myself actually so I think I might! Thank you for the example too, it does make it easier to think about
This girl isn't worth it dude. It's not normal to have someone else on standby if you're happy in your relationship. She's going to keep doing this shit to you and eventually cheat on you