Yes the story has changed along the way while waiting for tests, and ringing up doctors. What’s wrong with that? Also I’ve found out new things every day, what’s wrong with that? Also the story I posted in this post wasn’t new or different ? Just left out the herpes thing as it’s SO up in the air at the moment and wanted opinions based on the action rather than the STD. I feel terrible right now, like depressed over all this, and I feel like people are having a go at me on this thread 🙁 I came for support
You need to buy a big sparkly blue dress and grow your hair out long and braid it.
And then every time you think about this man, I need you to channel Elsa and just put this outfit on and start singing “let it go.” at the absolute top of your lungs. Not only will getting all of that oxygen moving make you feel great, it'll give you lots of practice singing and having your voice heard and growing your confidence.
But seriously, just break up with this dude. Do not let him move in with you. He's going to cheat on you and hurt you again and he's not going to stop. You are too young and are working on building your happy future, and that can't possibly involve him.
I know you're scared about how hot it is to find a partner when you're trans, but you need to build a bigger network of trans girl friends to help support you through this, as well as other friends who can help you build your confidence and self-esteem. You sound cool AF and this dude sounds like a real loser. I know the sub has a bad reputation as a “just break up” advice sub, but in your case, you really do need to break up.
If we had known each other for 12 years and I got angry and told you I'm gonna slit your throat in your sleep, would you still trust me?
Yes the story has changed along the way while waiting for tests, and ringing up doctors. What’s wrong with that? Also I’ve found out new things every day, what’s wrong with that? Also the story I posted in this post wasn’t new or different ? Just left out the herpes thing as it’s SO up in the air at the moment and wanted opinions based on the action rather than the STD. I feel terrible right now, like depressed over all this, and I feel like people are having a go at me on this thread 🙁 I came for support
Okay, so here's what you need to do.
You need to buy a big sparkly blue dress and grow your hair out long and braid it.
And then every time you think about this man, I need you to channel Elsa and just put this outfit on and start singing “let it go.” at the absolute top of your lungs. Not only will getting all of that oxygen moving make you feel great, it'll give you lots of practice singing and having your voice heard and growing your confidence.
But seriously, just break up with this dude. Do not let him move in with you. He's going to cheat on you and hurt you again and he's not going to stop. You are too young and are working on building your happy future, and that can't possibly involve him.
I know you're scared about how hot it is to find a partner when you're trans, but you need to build a bigger network of trans girl friends to help support you through this, as well as other friends who can help you build your confidence and self-esteem. You sound cool AF and this dude sounds like a real loser. I know the sub has a bad reputation as a “just break up” advice sub, but in your case, you really do need to break up.
That’s a very crowded room you got there OP. Fuck all space left for the elephant. Good luck. (Sounds like you’re going to need it).
Good feedback here. Protect yourself OP. Toxic people hate rejection.