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Date: October 10, 2022
Am I dumb for considering going through with this?
You need to ask?
Does he watch porn? Does he turn away if a sex scene comes on tv as by his own logic, that is cheating?
Well, no, hot disagree.
He set a boundary. What sounds like the only boundary he set clearly, the rest he assumed she knew. He didn’t want details unless he asked. If I said that, and my partner started dropping hints, I’d assume they were trying to brag or get me jealous. Either way, it wasn’t what we agreed on.
Honestly I wish someone would do this for me even if they weren’t anonymous. send screenshots pictures whatever just be mindful that you’re probably going to break her heart.
You should tell him and you should let him go. I know you love him! Hes your husband of 9 years and you have a family together but now youve seen how he really truly feels about you and his current life. If you love him set him free!
Assuming you traveled separately, just tell him that you made it home safe. As a guy, I want to know that my date made it home
You’re right, thank you. I haven’t considered calling it an intrusive thought (which it is) I will look into ways to deal with that. I honestly wouldn’t have known what to call the anxiety I’m having.
If you're a grown adult dating another adult, it's extremely immature/childish to make a huge fuss over the fact that normal life experiences aren't a “first” for you.
I'd be concerned whether he has some gross and retrograde double standards about women (e.g., that it's fine for men to have past sexual experiences, but women who do the same have less value somehow).
And a sex party has nothing to do with my comment so it makes no sense that you would mention it. You think that people who ask for sterilization just woke up one day and decided to request surgery? That’s absurd. Most people have known what they want for years before pursuing a permanent fix. It’s an ongoing decision, not a one-time action.
It's not because I'm a woman for fucks sake, get a grip. That's so ridiculous to me. This sub is swarmed with fake posts every single day it's not weird if a few of them seem fake to me.
Cool with cheaters? That's a ridiculous assumption from what I told Op.
Listen, op is here on Reddit making him out to be hot done by and a martyr for choosing to his wife over her.
I pointed out that's not the case. He's good, he weighed up what was on offer from each choice and chose the best choice for himself. He's happy. He's got wifey happy he's back, but worried she won't be able to keep him satisfied and op treating him like a martyr for ditching her and the life he and she could have had.
What he's doing isn't selfless, it's selfish.
Sometimes people will refuse to see reality unless you challenge their personal stance. It's when you 'offend' sensibilities, you can sometimes cause the crack that floods their brain with light, and seeing things more clearly helps them to stop being used.
Honestly, I still don’t see the joke.
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Thank you for your feedback, I didn’t know the term stonewalling so I’ll look this up.
I appreciate that approaching her may amount to more frustration. I am learning to have more radical acceptance in my life.
Your girlfriend unceremoniosly dumped a sick woman from her own bed. I think you should have walked out and never looked back.
It doesn't sound like she was using you to masturbate or masturbating at all but trying to initiate sex, noticed something was wrong and stopped when you said to.
This is way too much drama in the span of seven months. She doesn't appreciate you or what you do. You are too young to put up with this much bs. She doesn't care about you or your feelings, and you'd be better off breaking up. She is toxic for you.
This is way too much drama in the span of seven months. She doesn't appreciate you or what you do. You are too young to put up with this much bs. She doesn't care about you or your feelings, and you'd be better off breaking up. She is toxic for you.
Thats just it. If she had told me right from the beginning about this guy, about the plans, etc. I don’t believe I would be in this situation. Apparently her family has submitted documents and her name is in there. The process was started before she met me.
What feedback does he offer on this? You have been ramping up your touching and cuddles, so what more has he asked for? Has he given actual examples?
You've known her for ten years, got married a month ago and THEN decided you needed to know if this was a “dead bedroom”? Buddy, what did you get married for if you were worried about that?
My parents would tell them to fuck off tbh
They are suggesting OP changes his name to match her name not change the first child's name
Or someone who isn't a judgemental moron
You’re abusing that dog, too. You are actively participating in animal abuse. You’re choosing this every single day.
You gotta tell her. You can't let her be humiliated like that, you can't let her be the last person to know.
Wouldn't you want to know?
Be careful, though. Messing with a cop's family is dangerous. Watch your back, but still. Be brave. Tell her.
She’s probably just looking for some sort of closure. Whether you play along is up to you. Just remember how you ended up how you did.
Yep. I don't see many other options..
Nah, opens the door to debate the facts. Plus is exhausting. I’d just tell her Don’t be ridiculous, then block them all.
Narcissist! Run away! Gaslighting and manipulation. Nope!
I would never have a girlfriend that still thinks about her ex, I'm not stupid.
Well well well 😀 There's nothing you can do to “make her” stop thinking about her ex.
“We have had many issues throughout our relationship of me leaving it details because I don't want to justify them”
So you constantly lie to your wife, she found out about your cheeky little lunch dates with your work wife, and you’re wondering why she’s upset and doesn’t trust you?
Yup. Its on the toxic treat em mean to keep ‘em keen spectrum. You don’t need to play into that!
I would be very upset and worried also. I mean exes and coworkers are the biggest source of a fair partners. She already has a relationship with him and the fact that she continues with daily texting all with him and then meeting him without letting you know are pretty big red flags. I would be extremely uncomfortable if I was in your shoes.
you cant stop her if she want to go. But, you can let her know is crosses boundaries for you and she can choose what is important to her. We all have our needs and wants
You saw with your own eyes. You know with your own heart. You don’t NEED him to admit truths you ALREADY KNOW. Get a lawyer and kick him out (or start your exit strategy and leave). He has shown you, repeatedly, who he is. Believe him.
Beg her for attention, tell her you'll do anything she wants and will be her emotional crutch and serve her in any way she desires
So you forgive him, and he continues cheating on you and disrespecting you? You find that acceptable? How would you feel if a close friend did that?
Love yourself and put you first. This troll does not lo e you. He is willingly cheating and exposing you to disease.
Walk away and keep your head held high. Be strong. There is a world waiting on you.
What the hell? Don't pay for the hotel room of the girl your boyfriend is TRYING TO FUCK.
I’m not even trolling tf, I’m trying to explain how I feel
I’m not even trolling tf, I’m trying to explain how I feel
I’m not even trolling tf, I’m trying to explain how I feel
Restraining order or abuse prevention order ASAP. Bring all the proof. It's a headache, but once she's served she cannot contact you lest she wants to spend the night in jail.
Too bad. That rug really tied the room together.
You think this is insufferable? Try coffee, 16 hour dehydration breath after 20 years of marriage.
Figure it out
Yep.
I don't know if a BF really wants to her , ” oh I know how it looks but you have nothing to worry about ” either
She really needs to be more direct and tell this guy that she doesn't want to receive love songs from a guy friend as it's not a good look for her in her boyfriends eyes , he should probably just talk to her instead of writing songs she never gets.
Also the boyfriend needs to always see this guys communication until this is sorted.
It's all about perception in a relationship , you might be in the right but how does it look
Just my two cents any way