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This is a bit dependent on a few factors since you haven’t mentioned much in this post about where you both are at with your feelings.
Have you discussed boundaries with what the limitations of your FWB situation looks like? Are things like dates or romantic interactions on the table or is it limited to simply sexual contact?
If you’ve had conversations about where you both view your FWB status, how frequent are these conversations? Do you check in often enough to gauge his feelings alongside your own, or is it left mainly unspoken?
If you don’t feel as though you can open up to him about it, why not? What prevents this in your closeness to each other?
I’m currently in a similar situation to you with a man I’ve been seeing consistently for about 6 months. I definitely see him as someone who could be a future partner for me, but it’s just not a good time for either of us. We try to have one solid conversation about “where we’re at” every month or so just to ensure we’re on the same page with our feelings and if we are still interested in continuing to hookup and spend meaningful time with each other. It’s helped us resolve any discrepancies in how we view our time together and our role in each other’s lives.
I really do believe that the best way to have a FWB is to be communicating consistently, staying open about any possible interest or disinterest in exclusivity, and this eliminates a lot of unnecessary hurting if you both have misaligned expectations. Be open, honest, and remember that you can’t force someone to want to commit to you. You’ll never know though unless you talk about it. If he doesn’t reciprocate, I’d suggest moving along. In my experience, it’ll only hurt in the long run to be sharing sexual intimacy with someone who doesn’t reciprocate the same love you have for them.
This is a bit dependent on a few factors since you haven’t mentioned much in this post about where you both are at with your feelings.
Have you discussed boundaries with what the limitations of your FWB situation looks like? Are things like dates or romantic interactions on the table or is it limited to simply sexual contact?
If you’ve had conversations about where you both view your FWB status, how frequent are these conversations? Do you check in often enough to gauge his feelings alongside your own, or is it left mainly unspoken?
If you don’t feel as though you can open up to him about it, why not? What prevents this in your closeness to each other?
I’m currently in a similar situation to you with a man I’ve been seeing consistently for about 6 months. I definitely see him as someone who could be a future partner for me, but it’s just not a good time for either of us. We try to have one solid conversation about “where we’re at” every month or so just to ensure we’re on the same page with our feelings and if we are still interested in continuing to hookup and spend meaningful time with each other. It’s helped us resolve any discrepancies in how we view our time together and our role in each other’s lives.
I really do believe that the best way to have a FWB is to be communicating consistently, staying open about any possible interest or disinterest in exclusivity, and this eliminates a lot of unnecessary hurting if you both have misaligned expectations. Be open, honest, and remember that you can’t force someone to want to commit to you. You’ll never know though unless you talk about it. If he doesn’t reciprocate, I’d suggest moving along. In my experience, it’ll only hurt in the long run to be sharing sexual intimacy with someone who doesn’t reciprocate the same love you have for them.