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Date: October 12, 2022
The young woman is a human being. Treat her with respect and enjoy your relationship. Do not make accusations. If you are not in a long term relationship her job is not critical. Neither of you has sworn off other people. Obviously practice safe sex.
Stop being her friend, a real friend wouldn’t keep insisting. Not to mention she’s asking you to help her cheat on her husband so she’s not even a good person to begin with
Ok, that wasn't really clear to me, thanks. If that is the case then that is not a good situation, obviously. I don't really understand how finances would never “mix” if you get married though. Which bank account are the groceries coming out of? If you take a vacation or do date nights, are you each paying for your own meals and expenses out of your own account? That just makes no sense, that is not a partnership. That's just two people having sex and maybe living together. That's not a marriage.
I'm glad to hear you say that. You need to steel yourself & get a plan to get away. Look on-line about tips on how to leave an abusive boyfriend.
There are good guidelines. You don't want your death to come out of you trying to respectfully break up with him. Find out what the science says and execute that plan.
The first instance she wanted to visit me on his day off(he would be home) he didn't want her to come so we argued ALOT till I caved
Does this sound reasonable on his part to you?
But he didnt told me tho. As soon as he said that he left. I asked what was wrong and he called me xenophobic and said i was disrespectful to his culture (also said fuck your culture). I mean. I understand if what i said was wrong and I apologized to him already but saying i dont listen to his feelings or insult him is a bit misleading. He made the same joke minutes before about how beans and tortillas weren’t breakfast and i said sandwiches weren’t breakfast but then he got upset. I got worried if i was being racist, but now about the way he handled how he felt.
Sounds like she wants a free ride.
Tell her it’s 50/50, or 100/0 as she can find a new place to online.
Sounds like they had a nice romantic weekend, slow dancing followed by a date to the museum. 1:1 dinners to follow. This is a tried and true script. Sorry.
No, you didn't. You just have a different sense of humor.
My niblings to a tee. Two of them you can tell are siblings because despite some differences in skin color (one got the dark olive almost brown E. European skin from their dad, the other has their mom's ivory skin) their faces both resemble their mother and each other. The other is ghost-pale just like me, but with bright blue eyes (mine are hazel), light brown hair (mine is red) and freckles (same as me). Looks absolutely nothing like their siblings, especially the one with darker skin, and while the pale skin/freckle combo has led to me being mistaken for their mother over their actual mother when we're all out together, they don't actually resemble me much in any other features. Don't actually resemble ANYONE in the family for that matter, save for their blue eyes which are copy-paste from their dad. It's like all the random recessive genes had a party with that one!
thank you!
You should stop cooking for him, because he's a shmuck.
Like it’s not awkward to be years into a relationship and your family not know their name and just make noises?
But why not admit it though?
Ok, then change it to “that” and the rest stands.
This is very good and honest advice.
But that’s what FWB is….it’s just sex.
Honestly if you want to continue this, maybe suggest couples therapy. That would address her concerns and yours.
I never said accept her behavior, I said understand it. But you have no solid proof of her cheating, it's all speculation. Oooo she's been friendly with a man, oh she's posting the same selfies almost every woman posts, she took a picture leaning against a friend, she's GOTTA be cheating. I get that you were raised in a “one love” type of household, I was too. That mindset almost got my mother killed because she ignored the glaring red flags for the sake of that “one love” and that “one love” mindset caused my father to accuse her of cheating so much it made him turn violent towards her. So, although I do believe in being fully committed to the person you're with, I also believe everyone needs to stop pointing fingers before facing their own toxic traits and working on them. Also, you SHOULD be friends with your romantic partner.
I personally don't think your girlfriend is cheating, I think she's just seeking the validation she wants from you and neither of you know how to communicate very well. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!
Yeah, this happened.
Better safe than sorry
You could bring it up casually if that makes you feel better? Like “wow the girl I dated in highschool just reached out, its been ages, so weird to think highschool was so long ago etc” so you’ve brought it up and she knows, but its not the subject of the conversation. Youre telling her the truth but packing it in a casual conversation sandwich
You are worried about your dog, but you have a baby in the house who is being exposed to this animal abuse and volatile man. You have no business putting your baby in harm's way by forcing them to on-line in an abusive home. Your child has no way to escape or make decisions for themselves. Your selfishness of needing to be with this man will result in anxiety in your child, and mental health issues along with behavioural problems.
Children only have one chance to have their brains develop in a healthy way. You exposing your child to this man will cause life long issues. I grew up with a dad like that. My mental health as an adult is fucked because I'm stuck in fight or flight mode from my dad being unpredictable.
And you better believe that if your bf can beat a dog, he can beat on your child too. And scream at them, and throw things across the room to smash them. He will terrify you child the same way the poor poor dog is terrified. Stop chosing your boyfriend, and chose your child's wellbeing. You want your kid turning out as abusive and fucked up as your boyfriend? Cos that's the example you are providing for your child right now, and you refusing to leave teaches your baby that abusive behaviour is acceptable.
If you know you have an STD you should tell your partner FFS. This shouldn't be controversial.
It's called informed consent.
Just flipped roles. Yeah there are more issues attached to it, but respecting ones bodily autonomy is kind of the foundation for a relationship. I think having that slap in the face after being dismissed for an entire week is fair. “I've already told you my stance, why don't you do it if it means that much to you”
You don't get a vasectomy because “it's reversible” in fact you're warned that it is more likely to not be reversible, and you have a small window that just gets smaller over time.
Just mutilate your body so that I know your serious???
Does she have an iPhone… go to the text messages, click edit, then click recently deleted. It stores for 30 days until it completely deletes it
part of me still loves her
Love is not enough for a true relationship.
I gag when I’m stressed out but I’m diagnosed with GeRD and I think more extremely bad case bc even my mother whom I got it from never gaged in the cold or heat or with odd smells or food. The way your explaining hers is she needs therapy mostly couples bc it seems like a defensive thing
I said in my post I said I should talk about it with her no matter how uncomfortable. It’s not that I “can’t” I just didn’t know where to start
Sorry for the late response man, but I really do appreciate the reply. It’s helps to know I’m not the only one that’s dealt with this (not that I’m glad you had to go through this too). And no, the things I replay in my head over and over do me no good, but it’s almost like every time I replay them in my head my brain tricks me into thinking it’s doing me a favor by holding onto this bitterness and pain from it, which ultimately makes me wanna be shitty to her or just leave her altogether, which I’m still considering if I’m being honest. I know with time it’ll get better, but you said it best, it’s mental torture. I wish you well my friend.
Well written.
Fiction, but well written.
Just leave your boyfriend obviously you want to listen to your father and you want him to control your life forever so let this dude go since you really don’t care for him because this should be an easy decision
Go out with him. Take him to a gym, movies, join a club with him. Encourage him to volunteer somewhere.
The idea is to get him out of his normal patterns of behavior and moving in a different direction
This is a rough situation for sure. I’m glad you at least have finances to work with.
You might want to let him go with his portion like you said. But set up a trust for him so the money is rationed out over time.
How old is he and the younger one?
Is he projecting?
You’re a dipshit, OP. Sorry. Grow up, and try again. There is no pride in cheating. You’re not ready for a serious relationship.
I think you should get married when you’re ready to get married. Have that conversation with your boyfriend and he should understand. There’s no timeline for this stuff, just because other people tell you that you should do something, doesn’t mean that’s the right decision for you. It’s your life after all
I've just asked my best friend and her response was “I am genuinely traumatized just at the mere thought of touching anything you have” hahaha
Uhhh this Is ridiculous go to him and throw yourself on to his feet you literally could have left him to die and all you had to do was tap on the glass? Bang on the side of the truck? Man I wouldnt even want to talk to you either. And instead of trying to fix it you came on-line and ask strangers what the move ?