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Just tell him to order his own gift like you had to do with yours. And if he doesn't get himself anything he just has himself to blame for it. He sounds like an AH to be honest just out to make you feel like crap and unworthy. Sounds like he's succeeding
My ex and I coparent this way, and his now wife and I are on great terms! It is definitely a his wife problem (Ops) and doesn’t need to be. Our daughter is happy, we can all go out as a group and have fun together, and scheduling is a breeze.
Without being there it is difficult to say with any certainty.
He could be manipulating you. Though, I don't see that with the distance. Often manipulation is to get what you want. Ghosting you doesn't fully fit that behavior.
At the same time, exactly what is he so hurt about? Inadequacy in the bedroom?? It turns you off. Change gears and get your motor running. I fail to understand the problem.
What I do see and understand is the lack if emotional maturity. You have attempted to bridge the gap amicably. Personally, the best solution is a clear expectation.
“I've tried to work through this issue. I've tried to have an adult conversation with you. You are upset, but I don't know why. Take all the time you need. When you are ready, let me know. I WILL NOT wait for you. I make NO promises.”
Leave him to face the reality of losing you. Should he come back. Do not apologize for not enjoying that specific form of foreplay. Avoid using the word “sorry” in general.
Also have a conversation in what an adult conversation looks like. What he thinks working through problems look like vs what you think it should look like.
Just tell him to order his own gift like you had to do with yours. And if he doesn't get himself anything he just has himself to blame for it. He sounds like an AH to be honest just out to make you feel like crap and unworthy. Sounds like he's succeeding
My ex and I coparent this way, and his now wife and I are on great terms! It is definitely a his wife problem (Ops) and doesn’t need to be. Our daughter is happy, we can all go out as a group and have fun together, and scheduling is a breeze.
you can tell him tomorrow that you were really disappointed.
Without being there it is difficult to say with any certainty.
He could be manipulating you. Though, I don't see that with the distance. Often manipulation is to get what you want. Ghosting you doesn't fully fit that behavior.
At the same time, exactly what is he so hurt about? Inadequacy in the bedroom?? It turns you off. Change gears and get your motor running. I fail to understand the problem.
What I do see and understand is the lack if emotional maturity. You have attempted to bridge the gap amicably. Personally, the best solution is a clear expectation.
“I've tried to work through this issue. I've tried to have an adult conversation with you. You are upset, but I don't know why. Take all the time you need. When you are ready, let me know. I WILL NOT wait for you. I make NO promises.”
Leave him to face the reality of losing you. Should he come back. Do not apologize for not enjoying that specific form of foreplay. Avoid using the word “sorry” in general.
Also have a conversation in what an adult conversation looks like. What he thinks working through problems look like vs what you think it should look like.
Good luck.