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Date: February 5, 2023
Don’t tell her she can stay as long as she wants. Tell her she needs to find her own place and give her a time limit. Also don’t pay any of her bills.
I don't want to upset my parents but they are partially complicit in this, and they have put the onerous of “fixing” this on me, which at this point is just unfair. Last night my mom basically literally just asked me if I would continue to deal with it for “her sake” because she doesn't want to see her children's relationship severed.
Your parents are stuck with the children they don't like and are scared of at the expense of the one that they do.
My advice to you is don't do anything. Take yourself out of the group chat. block their numbers and live your life. Don't explain, don't complain. You already did that and it amounted to nothing. Do you really want to bring a spouse into that unhealthy dynamic? No.
Focus on your life and your goals and make a family that enjoys you. There is no point in wasting another second on parents who don't support you and sisters who actively act like AH's with you.
And next time you feel like you need to go to the hospital, call a cab or an ambulance.
Sorry about your brother but very glad to hear you’re doing so well. Is the bike something you could just let go for now until your brother is finished his sentence?
The reason I’m upset is because the hospital was 15 mins away and they were going to be at the carnival the whole afternoon before the formal- but they still said they were too busy.
Okay… well what would you have done if you didn't have these friends?
What other options methods would you have taken?
At the end of the day, this is your responsibility and not your friends.
If they were not in your life, are you saying that you would have just stayed at home and done nothing about it?
No.
You would have found other means to get there.
And if you throw up in the back in an uber, who cares.. You're dealing with a medical emergency.
My point being… The only person who is ever… EVER going to look out for you the most… is going to be you.
One of your friends took you to the hospital, you should be saying thank you, instead you're upset that it wasn't up to your standards…
If he's still facing finals at 31 then he's a wee bit delayed in terms of being able to make big, adult decisions. That by definition means that any of your life decisions that involve him will likewise happen later than you may have wished. But moving in together is a huge thing. It takes immense care, time and effort for that transition to not destroy the relationship. So if he's busy and stressed with school and knows he won't have the time to shepherd that process he's probably making the right move by not doing it just yet. If you want to preserve this relationship you're going to have to adapt to his later-in-life scheduling.