This post is a prime example of why many of us always encourage leaving instead of mamby Pamby counseling when a member reveals abuse. In the meantime go to police and court and show them text messages where he acknowledges it’s your cat and the attempts to bribe you with her. If you don’t have any text, message and get him to incriminate self. You can get a police escort to get your cat with you. If you get him to incriminate himself for murdering a cat you can also have him charged with cruelty to animals. Good luck
Your friend developed an ongoing fantasy with a specific fixation: you. See a therapist if you need help mourning and moving on from that friendship. You don't want to develop trust issues as a result. I think most people would, and you don't want that to negatively affect your relationship with your fiancé down the road.
As an American, please break up with him before coming to the United States.
I’d make sure to watch your bank statements for the refund, because I’d bet big money that the refund never comes
This post is a prime example of why many of us always encourage leaving instead of mamby Pamby counseling when a member reveals abuse. In the meantime go to police and court and show them text messages where he acknowledges it’s your cat and the attempts to bribe you with her. If you don’t have any text, message and get him to incriminate self. You can get a police escort to get your cat with you. If you get him to incriminate himself for murdering a cat you can also have him charged with cruelty to animals. Good luck
Your friend developed an ongoing fantasy with a specific fixation: you. See a therapist if you need help mourning and moving on from that friendship. You don't want to develop trust issues as a result. I think most people would, and you don't want that to negatively affect your relationship with your fiancé down the road.