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Date: October 19, 2022
If keeping up with his life is causing you to waste yours then yes, you need to block him.
It was his business when she slept with him and made him the other guy. She said she’s exclusive enough that he would be pissed that she slept with someone else. Now she’s trying to guilt him into silence.
She’s in the wrong period.
Toxic relationships leave marks and scars, healing from them takes time.
You're both better being apart
Told my boyfriend I loved him about a year before he started saying it. He has a history of very bad relationships so he obviously wasn't ready. Didn't change how I felt. Now, after 3 years together, he doesn't stop telling me how much he loves me.
People move at their own pace. Don't let his pace influence how you feel. You love that man and continue to respect his pace. He'll get there
Yes, everything happens more when you first start dating – the contact, the sex, the texting. The honeymoon period fades and things drop to a more manageable level. What do you text him about? I'm sure the conversations between him and his gamer friends are quite different than the conversations you have with him. You probably can't really compare the two.
It sounds like he is satisfied with the lower level of texting the two of you have now. Its dropped to a level he is comfortable. Asking him to text more would only be forcing him to do something he doesnt feel he needs. Having said that, if he is not responding to reasonable questions or requests then I'd talk to him about that. If its just talk that he doesnt have to respond to, and he can talk to you when he gets home, you may have to accept that this is how he communicates.
Loosen the reins a bit. He still loves you, but you BOTH need your own independent time. You can't expect 15 chats a day to continue forever. At some point you run out of things to talk about constantly.
Be less available, less clingy, and more focused on YOU. Your boyfriend is not the story of your life, just a piece of the puzzle. People need a different amount of attention from each other. You have to decide if you can compromise, and meet in the middle… or if you need more. Either way, being clingy will push him away. The best way to stop being clingy is to fill your time with social activities and hobbies of your own… that way you are the one that doesn't respond immediately to every message.
Well first of all, your brother doesn't get to make decisions for you.
You haven't really even given any details about what your GF does that is so bad. So we can't even tell you whether your brother has a good point or not.
I cannot believe your husband and everyone else in your life believes this is fine.
There’s no biological relationship so you don’t have to worry about genetics diseases. But this is still incest.
I’m so sorry, I don’t know how you move forward from here. But this internet stranger wants to let you know you’re not crazy and the situation in your home is not normal.
All I'm getting from this is he doesn't respect you.
He lies. Admitted to talking shit about you. He's shifty about this girl. Doesn't actually give you answers just talks around it (from what's provided). He could be cheating, he could be playing both sides, but it's naked to say.
He's weird. Aside from everything else, how could you trust someone who wouldn't defend you when someone said something incorrect? To add to that they further encouraged it by joining in and adding more fuel to the fire.
Did you ever get your apology from her? No? Neither of them care.
You could try another sit down and talk about it all, get to the bottom of his relationship with her and don't let him give non-answers. It's your decision to ask him to fix his behaviour, but the outlook is not optimistic.
She's comparing your boner to the other ones she might have had in the recent past. Totally unhealthy at several levels. This is a huuuuuge red flag. Good luck bro!
I took all mine on time and still ended up with a baby!
…. No you tell your GF that while you can’t stop her from seeing your abuser (use those words) you can and will stop your abuser from having anything to do with your child.
You tell her also that if she doesn’t put your well-being above her own selfish need to see your abuser, then you will end the relationship.
You need to look after yourself and your kids. Stop letting your GF walk all over you.
Super weird of him to expect you to ditch your friends because you’re in a relationship. Don’t stay with him if he tries to push you to do that.
You were defending yourself, do not let this twist to you being abusive.
In a relationship of 1 month I think its fair to not expect a gift. You both should have probably discussed this ahead of christmas.
Dude, she isn't going to remain faithful. She'll get to Europe, and the guys there will see fresh meat. There will be so many opportunities there, you won't even be an afterthought to her.
I would have thought this would bother your husband more than it would bother you seeing as it is his family. The dynamics within his family, I am sure he is very aware of but surely now he is even more aware and that must be difficult for him especially with how your SIL treats him. That is their daughter, so it is normal that they would be making decisions such as living next to each other regardless of what you think of your husband's sister. I would say this is an issue between your husband and his sister, it's not for you to feel jealous because you and your husband have your own lives separate from whatever dynamic exists between him and his family. Seeing as you are not keen on the idea of having your SIL around your kids, it sounds like things have worked out well because you are free to live! somewhere else and not be near to your in laws. Anything related to inheritance from their family is their business and whether they choose to online next door to each other, again their business. Just focus on you and your husband
She's for the seas
You can have an attraction to another person while in a relationship, where it becomes a problem is when you are so afraid of acting on that attraction that you tell your SO, switch branches and need to go to therapy. What the fuck type of shit is this. You need to avoid this person completely to keep from ripping off your clothes and throwing yourself at him/her? It's entirely the partners fault.
He's abusive and leaving is dangerous, therefore, you need to be careful.
is there anyone you can lean on? Someone who would take you in? (I suppose you two live! together, am I right?)
are you financially independent? Perhaps you should make sure you have enough money to leave.
My advice would “agree to move cities with him”. Convince him to move first with the excuse you need to sort a few things before joining him. Once he leaves you take your life back. Block him on everything and make sure, if possible obviously, to not let him know where you're staying. Making sure your friend and family know about the situation is essential.
Imo, your bf is right, by staying away and taking the easy way out (hiding until the woman who hopefully might be your future mother in law leaves), instead of fighting to get her approval back. You know you were wrong, you know you messed up, now you have to face the consequences and try and regain their faith and affection. The family was the one witnessing how much of a wreck your guy was, so I think it's understandable that they're hesitant to welcome you back.
I'm sorry about your past marriage and what happened to you, but what his mother knows is that to her you bailed once, you were firm for years that you didn't want kids and then, when with someone else, you decided you wanted her son back. Why should she believe you won't bail again?
Imo, you have to be present, patient and prove that this time you'll stick around. Maybe, at a later date once she's thawed a bit, try and explain your perspective.
I would dump you too.
No.
Sincerely,
Someone who almost bled to death after nineteen hours of labor
Where did the post go?
You need to sit down with her and gently voice how you feel and your insecurities. If she is uncaring thats a HUGE red flag on your future. If she understands and tries to discuss whats going on, thats something good to go off of and move on from. You need to say everything you feel, though.
Meh. Another man in his bed he has a right to be angry. It’s weird.
Is your husband attracted to his own sister? Does he think he’d fuck his own sister in his bed? You’re not out of line, no matter how old you’ll be it’ll always be ok to sleep with your parents and siblings, especially when someone is hurting
Your husband is a PoS.
If you're in a relationship and still hanging around with people you fucked and calling them just friends, you're an asshole and this is a recipe for disaster.
That’s even worse – you decided to live! with a girl your girlfriend clearly isn’t comfortable with without even talking to her about it…..
He may react a certain way due to his own upbringing. My husband is now coming to grips w the fact that his parents messed him up and shut him down so he does the same. It's conditioning that's naked to escape.
Honestly, it's been a struggle at times when he spirals and shuts down, like when he was a kid.
What I've said in the past is that “If you won't talk to me, then I can't help you or the situation. If you want to ignore me, that's your choice. But I will not be here for whatever this is. I'm not your enemy. Stop treating me like I am. I'm going for a walk / drive (whatever).” Then grab your purse and go clear your head. I have often found going to a drive thru and getting a sm french fry and sitting in my car and enjoying the hard, salty, crispy fries gave me enough time to not be mad at him, for being mad at me.
I've also gone on hikes or went to the beach or library alone.
My strategy is this. 1. Difuse the immediate situation if he's shut down or if he shuts you down. (leave the room, apt, etc.) 2. Start therapy for you. 3. Schedule a couples therapy session after you've gone to yours for a while. He has to be on board AND willing to participate or it's just a waste of time and money. 4. Share articles or info on specific things. Like you becoming overwhelmed w too much info.
It's a process. I've been married forever and we're still trying to be better partners to each other while NOT downplaying our own needs. But your bf has to be willing to communicate rationally and calmly or it'll be fight, make up, repeat this again and again until we die.
That's not living, that's just waiting for the next time…
When she and Bob were having their little thing, you weren't even in the picture. So don't be ticked at Bob.
At this point, if you're going to be worrying all the time about what she might or might not want, then she's obviously not the one to give you peace and contentment in your life. It's time to start looking for someone who will.
Took a lot of courage to face this head on and not delegate responsibility to someone else, you should be proud of the way you handled what must be a complete mind fuck of a situation. Have you notified the school? Might be worth letting them know what's going on with him so they can take appropriate steps to maybe help both of you
Your wife is probably tired of sneaking around behind your back and concocted this scheme to entice you into accepting her AP so she can stop the sneaking. And offering up her AP is supposed to sweeten the deal.
Personally your wife is an awful person and I d divorce her if I were you.
Oh read your post but you left out ALL the relevant info. You would give me the Ick if you were my boyfriend (also you would have been promoted to ex boyfriend/someone elses problem). Just cause she is your girlfriend, does not mean you have access to her body everytime you wanna choke your meat stick. That makes you a creep. Most girls dont wanna date a creep asking for nudes all the time and sending them dick picks, no matter how much you are into each other. She has told you to stop. NO MEANS NO. Nagging her for sexual things is sexual harassment at best. Masturbate to some porn or try to stop for a while all together and focus on trying to be a better person before it lands you in some deep shit.
If this isn’t the universe giving you a sign to GET THE FUCK OUT then idk what is ?
Mmmmmmmmm, it’s a little weird/immature.
Sounds like you are not poly and should not be in a poly relationship. I think it's really unethical how a lot of poly people attempt to bring monogamous people into these relationships. It's fine to be poly, it's fine to be mono, it's not fine to try to change someone else to fit your preference.
You tryna say you’re homophonic but your wife is the exception?
Gaslighting 101
This should be the top comment, if I had an award I would give it to you ?
Standing up and having that as a line is fine. Good for you.
But you're also setting a very high bar for your own behavior. Anything that you ever do that is remotely questionable morally or legally, you should expect others to ostracize you from their social group as you do with your friends now. Many will say that drunk driving is the worst thing you can do but I'm sure that others would consider other behaviors just as destructive and dangerous. Be proud but not too prideful.
It's not the crying that's the problem. It is okay to cry. It is not okay to cry and expect your partner to suddenly drop everything to soothe you. In this case, the OP seemed upset by the fact that her tears did not change the behavior of her boyfriend.
Then she would have simply kept on doing his laundry. You are making her a victim.
He put her clothes in the wash? That shit got me. Like dude is a keeper even if just as a friend.
I’m 21 if you’re talking about one year ago
I wanted to but I can't find it anymore huhuhu
nah, you're supposed to tell your naked opposite sex coworker how much you hate your relationship smh. Those are the rules
He's not moving. You've already put up with this for 1.5 yrs. Why would you waste more time on a guy who is happy seeing you at the weekend only (nothing wrong with this, it just isn't what you want).
This is not only dangerous but beyond suspicious and the fact she doesn’t see it is ridiculous.
Yes. He makes more than I do so we are splitting utilities evenly but I will pay 1/4 of what he pays in rent each month
This isn't about the normalization of porn. This is about your husband repeatedly crossing boundaries of your relationship. Some porn look at porn, some don't, but what's important is that the two of you are both comfortable with what each other does in the confines of your relationship. If you aren't comfortable, that's totally reasonable. And his dipping into meetup groups, well, if he cheated before, where there's smoke, there's fire. Don't stay with a man who keeps lying to you.