Maybe try not to sit him down and discuss it. Don't do the 'I need to tell you something' bit. That could set up the conversation to make him feel tense about it and give the impression that you think it's a big deal.
Instead, try to be more relaxed and casual. In the same way you'd say 'isn't it interesting that she grew up only speaking German, you'd never know with how great her English is'.
Acting like you think it's a serious topic that needs addressing could colour his first impression of the information. Even if really he'd be cool with it.
Sounds like some “Shit test” bullshit to me…
Ooof. The mean girl who won’t go away. She’s so committed to not going away, she’s dating his best friend.
Ask him why he kept her a secret & why his best friend is now with his ex.
Also, you’re with him now. So what is she dated him? She should be pretty embarrassed about going from one friend to the next. Bleck.
Bro at I entered 28 single af and at 31 I’m married you need to chill. That anxiety will ruin more potential relationships then itll save
Maybe try not to sit him down and discuss it. Don't do the 'I need to tell you something' bit. That could set up the conversation to make him feel tense about it and give the impression that you think it's a big deal.
Instead, try to be more relaxed and casual. In the same way you'd say 'isn't it interesting that she grew up only speaking German, you'd never know with how great her English is'.
Acting like you think it's a serious topic that needs addressing could colour his first impression of the information. Even if really he'd be cool with it.