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Or maybe he has a porn addiction. Or he's running away from more than sex.
Jacking off to porn is a “cheap” way to get sexual gratification. It requires no emotional intimacy, no care for anyone else's pleasure. No real effort.
This has to be approached at a deeper level than just the act of having sex. Something is wrong. It's probably not your body even if he says it is. He is avoiding closeness with you. That's the question you need to ask him why about.
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Having a husband is a bit overrated, no?
What a great perspective! Thank you so much!
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It’s because he doesn’t want to care for you. He’s the kind of guy doctors and nurses warn you about if you get seriously ill, and how they will abandon/ breakup/ divorce you because they don’t want to be carers.
She probably wants to get married at some point so she’s probably going to leave you
Doesn’t matter. If you have them 50/50 and make more money than your wife you’ll likely pay child support.
Ellie was barely an adult when this started and it seems as if she's been around since her pre-teen years. She has no family and it seems as if she has been groomed. Your BIL is a predator and this is not your fault.
What a mess. I would try to get her side to the story, though.
This!
Okay he's right– and everyone had told you this.
I'm just here to tell you to go on that trip with your boyfriend. Portugal is a beautiful country ❤️ and it's such an affordable trip.
So many possibilities.
He broke up to cheat.
He's using the push n pull method of abuse to keep you interested.
He's genuinely got issues and felt bad you had to deal with them.
You need to have a clear direct conversation about what happened. His feelings. And why.
Then decide from there if you accept it. Because that's why you feel a wall. You don't currently accept the situation. You need more info
Why the **** do people try and 'joke' at important moments.
Here's a free tip if she wasn't laughing it wasn't a joke.
Stop having sex with him. If you live! together, go stay somewhere else. He wants kids and you don't. That is a difference that's a relationship ender.
Regardless of the basis in which you got pregnant you have to think the of the logistics of raising a child and also prepare for the possibilty you may have to do it alone if the relationship doesn't work out.
If you decide to keep the baby you don't have long to establish a whole new dynamic with your fwb in terms of having a more personal connection beyond sex and acting as a couple.
And once the baby is born you are tested beyond your limits for various reasons that can even destroy the strongest of relationships and marriages let alone one that is based on just having a baby together. A way to look at it is this: if you didn't fall pregnant would you if ended up being together anyway?
And there's the practicalities such as the financial and living situation, maternity/paternity leave, and childcare when baby is older depending on who will be the main earner etc. As a parent myself i can assure you it is a huge struggle at times with a lot challenges, sacrifices and limitations but motherhood is also very rewarding and the best experience of your life!
Just make sure you make an informed decision based on all factors and of course you can take on board what your fwb wants but ultimately this is your decision and it will be you the most affected in the scenario rather than him.
Best bet is asking the bank to cancel the transfer if it's not too late.
He crossed your boundary so that was bad on him but at the same time good luck trying to prevent a 20 year old man from watching porn.
Reading in the comments sounds like you had some bad experiences with previous GFs, so try thinking about your current GF – is she an over-sharer? Does she like a good story? Does she often comment about other men’s appearances or fixate on big D? Is this unique occurrence or does she often share stories of her friends’ hookups? Or does she share all the stories that her friends, co-workers, and family do? And when you tell her to stop does she usually listen or doesn’t she?
There’s a lot of details you alone will know and should reflect on. I once had a friend who loved telling sex stories. She grew up in a very sex positive household so for her it wasn’t so much the topic as it was the attention. She knew sex stories grabbed people’s attention and she enjoyed being the center of it for a brief moment.
But I also have known more than one person who would repeat sex stories because they admittedly weren’t satisfied with their own sex life and was living vicariously through others. Only one woman tho – everyone else I knew who did it were men, if that’s worth anything.
I think what really catches my attention is you told her to stop but she ignored you. She disregarded your discomfort. If it’s a rarity ask her why she refused to listen or why she insisted in telling you basically “locker room talk”. If it is a persisting thing you may want to consider that and if you want to be in a relationship where someone habitually ignores you. Because if it is already habit it won’t change.
Look man, i get the frustration, but at the end of the day his appearance is up to him. He can listen to your opinions and take them on board, sure, but if he likes the mustache hes a perfect liberty to keep it. If you were a man complaining about an aspect of your wife's appearance, people would be tearing shreds off you and telling you to accept her how she is and that she can look how she wants. Same applies here. Your opinions, preferences and feelings are valid, but since they pertain to his body and personal appearance, they are secondary to his.
I had this EXACT issue a few years back, only it had went on for years before I finally addressed it. The “friend” was one of my long time bffs. I think through high school and college I just chalked it up to 'this is just how he is and how he expresses', and me having social anxiety and low self esteem I accepted the behavior for years (because I was just happy to have friends), but it got much worse when he came back from being in the military, then started having issues in his marriage. I started paying attention to how he talked to me versus our other guy friends in our circle (including his brother). He talked shit to everyone but not on this level. It got to the point where I dreaded getting together with my friends, as if it was a torturous chore instead of fun solely because of how he would talk to me and how it would make me feel. (And I loved hanging out with everyone else which made it so much harder to address/deal with). I finally had enough of being called a “fucking retard”, “fucking moron”, “stupid”, “fucking idiot” multiple times every single time we'd hang out and I asked in front of the group in an live! chat why he talks to me so much differently from everyone else. He bailed out of/permenantly exited the group chat. I asked my friends if they ever noticed how he talks to them differently than he did to me and they hadn't ever really thought about/noticed/focused on it. I sent him a DM and asked if something was up, or if we needed to iron shit out between us because the way he addressed me was just no longer acceptable in my book and he flipped his shit, called me a “Snowflake”, told me he didnt need this bullshit in his life, and blocked me on all social media (but I'm the “snowflake…”).
Never got closure. Still wonder wtf was going on with him. I can't tell if that was his way of showing he liked me a lot (we were close for many, many years), and he was just THAT emotionally stunted in showing it, or he had just identified me as his own personal punching bag to take out all his life frustrations on, or he had just started to be jealous of me, or started to dislike me for some reason… idk. Either way I was changing my life and wouldn't tolerate that kind of treatment anymore, as it was just feeding into my self esteem issues and creating issues in all my relationships/life. Haven't heard from him since. And honestly my life has been MUCH better because of that. It just blew my mind that I came to him calmly with a problem that was bothering me that much, approached it in a very non-confrontational way, and that was his reaction/response to it after all those years as friends.
I felt guilt that maybe he reacted that way because I tolerated it for so long without calling him out on it and then finally blindsided him with the fact that I wasn't cool being spoken to that way, but that's honestly just me excusing his behavior I think.
Since then I only surround myself with people who treat me respectfully, even guys. I get that guys like to take playful jabs at each other, which I'm totally cool with, but he was going WAY above and beyond light hearted banter. I'm sad/disappointed it went down the way it did/his reaction, but I've never regretted speaking up for myself. I hold no ill will, I wish him the best and hope he finds the happiness he's looking for, as I'm infinitely happier in my life now that I don't have someone in it treating me that way.
So definitely speak up to him respectfully and calmly. Tell him it feels like he's going past playful jabs with you, ask him if there's something you two need to iron out. If not, and he still doesn't see that his behavior is bothering you then honestly your life will be better without him in it. It may disrupt your circle, but eventually it will anyway if you don't address it (like it did me) and not addressing it will cause you more issues personally.
What are you on about? Do you know how many men have had lives destroyed or put in prison for years with no evidence? ‘Women’ of Reddit never cease to surprise me.
Reminds me of the “I used to be a piece of shit” sketch on I Think You Should Leave
There's a lot to unpack here honestly. He makes a few (honestly minor) points about you figuring out what triggers your migraines by possibly sleeping elsewhere during the experiments. Once you know for sure if it matters that takes you to a different decision point.
The much bigger issue seems to be some real problems around his demands/expectations and general lack of support for you. I'd recommend some couples therapy as it almost seems impossible that he could think his current form of communication is helpful.
Ya, it all fell into place nicely didnt it? The mom calling, the coach. Him all of a sudden being affectionate.
It would be more believable to find out she caught a case of amnesia and forgot the last 12 months. Id watch that romcom.
This is seriously sketchy. If he uses the money for a down payment from an account that only has his name on it to buy a house it looks like he’s the one purchasing the house without your financial support/backing. I know you’re partners but it’s always good to keep agency over your own finances since this is the way you two have always and will continue (aside from half your paycheck!!)!!! to manage your money.
Hey. Thank you. 🙂 It's not often that a healthy revelation is made on reddit.
Seriously. I appreciate you saying what you did. Your comment was articulated in a way I wouldn't have done myself but understood immediatly.
I would also like to add that there’s nothing wrong with getting a nanny, either right now or in the event of divorce. There’s no shame in using all of the resources available.
She likes the attention. If wife goes file for divorce. Go to surviving w.com it helped me with a cheating wife. It has great tips to detect cheating. Check phone and social media they may be secretly talking. Look for a 2nd phone. A 2nd phone is standard for cheating
If you’re putting girlfriend in quotes, you need to just stop interacting with her and move on
You're not compatible, it's on her but just break up. I wouldn't want to date someone with those hobbies either but that's the thing, for me they're mostly a turnoff so I wouldn't waste someone's time.
You don't have to love eachother a hobbies but if she dislikes them so much it's shitty of her to dump on them. It's not like you sprung it on her.
He can say that all he wants, but he still says you are the more emotional one while he conveniently forgets anger is an emotion, which is misogyny 101. It's already affecting your relationship, it isn't theoretical. He's spiraling and you can't logic him out of a stance he emotion-ed his way into. This will only get worse, because he's angry that he's unemployed which he self-medicates with drinking, and then uses the alt-right to solidify his belief that all of his failings aren't his fault. You can't save him, all you can do is choose whether or not you are willing to get dragged down with him.
Does eating protein help a lot? She sometimes eats either chicken or turkey. She eats something small for breakfast like cereal or a bagel with cream cheese. And usually eats once a day and it’s not that much food. She gets full really fast. She’s been trying to eat more but her stomach ends up hurting. She tells me she drinks tea but it’s not a lot and forgets to drink water a lot.
because I was still mad from earlier
i find it really interesting that you completely leave out what the earlier fight was that set the stage for this whole toxic exchange
It’s only been 5 months. I’d just break up and move on. This sounds exhausting. Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life?
It feels like you're leaning towards something. Like something specific will be said.
If it's nothing specific, then why care? Cut your losses. She's a loser, in every sense of the word. Why would you care what she (or anyone who believes her) would think? Unless they have leverage against you that could financially impact you, I genuinely don't get why you'd entertain this situation.