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OIL IN MY BODY AND SQUIRT IN THE GOAL [431 tokens remaining]
Date: October 16, 2022
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Sounds like she needs individual.
First, I think you should dump the guy, or at least not give up your cat. I’m sure that echoes other comments, though.
I also want to talk about the three cats v. two thing. I had two for ages, and did not plan on more. They were older cats, and one of them does have some slight behavioral problems from being separated from litter mates too early. I ended up with a kitten last year when my older cats were 9 and 10. I thought it wouldn’t go well. I thought the older ones would hate her or that she’d disrupt the dynamic too much.
To my surprise, having a kitten with the older two improved life for everyone. The one who had behavioral problems has calmed down and she actually has seemed to learn things from the youngest one, they both like the kitten more than each other, and the youngest one sometimes helps police the others. She’s helped them become better cats, and I would have expected some protests and backtracking. The dynamic among the three is better than when it was just the two. You really, really cannot predict how these things will go. Having three cats is a lot of work but it’s soooo much better than I expected in other ways.
People like that are incapable of regret because they are shallow. You are probably better off without him as now he will start getting controlling and acting like some sort of god's gift to society.
Duuuude, this is one of those moments Reddit advice is actually right….
LEAVE!!!!
No one will say anything about the age gap and the possibility of being groomed. This is the moment where I throw a joke: gender equality lol, funny isn't it?
Don't play a game that brings out your dark side, is overly competitive or makes conversation getting to know each other difficult. Destroying her would make her walk away with negative feelings either about herself or you and frustrated. Not exactly I want to see him again. Also if you are prone to being a jerk about winning then that leaves her a bad impression about you. Pick a different activity. Play Clue, card games or a different light hearted board game. Or stick with more traditional activities like dinner, museums, art gallery or other local attractions that the conversation is more casual, more aimed towards getting to know the other person and not so competitive that can be off putting if you are as intense about chess and winning as you appear in the post.
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So what are you doing to punish the person you slept with outside of your relationship, and what's your punishment? You knowingly cheated and caused someone to be an affair partner. You're a self righteous ass. Leave the man she cheated with alone regardless of anything. If he's doing something wrong it'll catch up to him eventually without your intervention
If he bought it for you, why would he take the tags off and keep it in his car instead of giving it to you? I’d be worried.
I imagine having a step dad only 11 years older than you is a bit odd…
She feels guilty is the biggest BS. Cut your loses.
That's not the same thing though.
He loves animals, i dont really understand why… he acknowledges that i handle all the care for our dog and cat. He will not do anything, his thing is he always wants to cuddle the dogs. Thats it. Lol
Why is he responsible to stand up for YOU.
The mature thing to do is do something about it yourself, why does he need to do it? You are sexist. „be a man. Be a good example“ whats wrong with you?
What's behind door number 3?
Nice of him to show off the first red flag before you've even met him. Cancel, block, delete, move on.
wait wait wait…. he allegedly forced her into sex (and with the scant details we have on that, we're missing critical info) and she still wants to go with him?!? Sorry, most women I know would take a hit on the tickets and miss the concert, ESPECIALLY if their r*pist will be there.
I really have to wonder if it actually was without her consent, or that you were going to somehow find out about it.
even a civil discussion
Would it be civil? I can't imagine it would stay civil.
I'm in my 40s and I know there is a lot of stuff I just won't ever say. The thing is, part of why I won't say it is I know it won't matter. You can say all of this stuff to them and they won't truly acknowledge it or agree with you. In my case anyway, I don't know your parents.
For me it's best to just move on. Get out of their house, become independent, on-line your own life.
I bought a bunch of loose silica to dry flowers with
So if I cut my hair and get a pixie cut my boyfriend can just refuse to have sex with me until I grow my hair back out?
Not sure why you think they should have consulted you. That’s…odd. ?♀️
Just move along and do your thing.
Ya I definitely wouldn’t take him back, this is the end for me. We just had a fight on Saturday (but didn’t break up) and he hasn’t contacted me since Sunday so idk if he was just never going to contact me again. It’s weird
If he's truly up to no good and she's not exaggerating or just jealous that he's looking at bikini pics, she needs to get sole custody and serve him with papers. She just tied herself to this dude for another 17+ years.
I’m so happy for your wife. I hope she finds someone who truly treasures her and deserves her.
Have you considered getting a pre-nup? This would protect both of you. You should get one drawn up and you each get your own lawyer to review it for fairness.
Are you offended he didn’t invite you so soon into the relationship? He also didn’t assume you could pony up the $$ for it. I would let it go. Plan your own trip with other friends. It’s been about 6 weeks since tou started dating right? You’ll seem needy if you make this a big deal.
Your dating guru friends will probably land you with a shitty rep if you take their advice. When someone says they're not interested, they're not interested. The last thing you should do is try to pressure them into caving.
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⬆️⬆️⬆️ this!!! Also, wtf was he doing out till 11 am???? Girl, it’s time to ?♀️.
Given that his past partners were absolute shit, I wouldn't romanticize how passive he was during that relationship.
From how he describes it, it sounds like he basically rolled over and allowed his exes to walk all over him. He's now doing the exact opposite.
If you're unhappy with the way he's currently behaving, talk to him about it. Don't romanticize the past, have a serious talk about the behavior you'd like from him. If you guys can't come to an agreement, stop dating.
Combined with the fact that the only reason they broke up is because OP wants kids. It’s not like they fell out of love or anything, just want different things.