There comes a point where you also need to choose to cope. Ex. Long term family medical issues aren’t going anywhere.
Do you want a sexual life? It’s important to be honest. Maybe you need an asexual partner or just friends.
There comes a point where stress in your life just is standard. Are you going to rise above it and accept it, putting it aside, using mental techniques to move past or 24/7 focus on it?
That would be it for me. From that point on, we stop couples counseling, I get a cutthroat lawyer, file for divorce, and the only thing we discuss is our child.
OP do you call coworkers, friends, family or strangers derogatory slurs when they aren’t getting something? I’m guessing not. So why do you think it’s ok to do to your girlfriend? Why are you blaming her for your actions? Is she taking over your body with magic and forcing you to call her slurs? If not, it is all you and all under your control. How absolutely horrible to be that kind of person.
I applied your compromise to my situation and we agreed this will work till they get their own stuff sorted out
There comes a point where you also need to choose to cope. Ex. Long term family medical issues aren’t going anywhere.
Do you want a sexual life? It’s important to be honest. Maybe you need an asexual partner or just friends.
There comes a point where stress in your life just is standard. Are you going to rise above it and accept it, putting it aside, using mental techniques to move past or 24/7 focus on it?
No.
She broke the rules over 30 times.
That would be it for me. From that point on, we stop couples counseling, I get a cutthroat lawyer, file for divorce, and the only thing we discuss is our child.
OP do you call coworkers, friends, family or strangers derogatory slurs when they aren’t getting something? I’m guessing not. So why do you think it’s ok to do to your girlfriend? Why are you blaming her for your actions? Is she taking over your body with magic and forcing you to call her slurs? If not, it is all you and all under your control. How absolutely horrible to be that kind of person.