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Is this your GF or FWB if it’s your GF then it’s strange but the fact that she does it right there then I doubt her intentions with him are bad, if it’s your FWB then it ain’t your business
Is this your GF or FWB if it’s your GF then it’s strange but the fact that she does it right there then I doubt her intentions with him are bad, if it’s your FWB then it ain’t your business
Therapy
Get a new husband
Why is OP getting sooo many downvotes? Is it because she avoided to mention things from comments in her original post?
It’s cool to be radical. In fact, make a radical decision. Break up with him.
This is the simplest, most balanced answer. Sounds like neither of them were in a good place emotionally at that moment. Yelling and throwing things isn't okay. At the same time, I've known people who would yell, but when confronted, they would insist that they weren't yelling, they were being “firm”. None of us were there, so both OP and her husband may have been coming across as more hostile than intended toward each other. But the throwing things is still unacceptable.
I'd suggest a week or two for things to cool down, let everyone grieve the grandfather, and then suggest marriage counseling to work on communication both ways, and anger management for husband. And ensure that the husband apologizes to the children.
Welcome her with open arms, like she just got back from a business trip. Speak to her in her own love language (hugs and kisses?). Her hormones are a mess right now. A little “shell walking” would be a good idea now.
This will destroy your marriage and cause you so much pain and hurt. I know this from first hand experience. Do not agree to do this.
You goofed bro. Pregnant and not married. That’s a L my friend. Good luck
Well that could really go either way. He might just be stressed and tired. Or he could be dealing with other issues that he's internalizing and then it's coming out in other negative ways. There have been times when my husband was stressed about bills, working a lot of hours, and having personal issues with people at work. He would then have no patience at home and would vote up over little normal things. I would recommend sitting down and talking with him. Communication is key in a relationship. Sometimes the other person doesn't always realize how they're being and sometimes they are too proud or embarrassed to start the conversation. After I sat down with my husband and we talked it over, he realized he was being short and worked harder at managing his stress more appropriately. And I tried to do what I could to make his time more peaceful at home.
He's allowed to have standards. You should do a little growing as anything other than a tumor.
Yes I know the other OP mentioned this website, it is how I found it (I mentioned this in my post) I saw the other OP talk about this website and their experience, and I saw it on my real Reddit. So to be anonymous, I created a throwaway copying the other OP to share my own experience when I used it too. I don’t mind you trying to protect others if something seems suss to you, but this is not what you are insinuating it is. From the beginning I told everyone that I copied the other OP, so that is not a secret. Thanks for the advice at the bottom though.
I have to admit, I cringed when you said you bought the home with your bf and another guy. This is so risky, esp after only one year. Also, with something like this, bf should have suggested that each of get your own legal counsel just to read through the contract and make sure there's nothing in there that could come back to haunt you. He's a lawyer. He should know this.
I mention it because I think it will be torture living in the same home if you want to split (which does sound like a good idea). He has a lot of issues that may not be his fault, but if he wants to be an adult and get involved with other people, it's on him to fix it. So I suggest you online elsewhere. This is where it gets complex. You're 1/3 owner, so that part wouldn't change, but you'd need to continue paying mortgage. Then whoever lives in the room pays you that portion. Or something similar.
Another option is sell out your 1/3 to the other 2. I'm sure you don't want to do this, but it's kind of a mess and sometimes the best choice is the simplest one.
They thought you knew and didn’t want to make it any weirder than it is; you’re angry at the wrong people. This is entirely your husband’s doing, and you should be addressing it with him.
Thanks.
This was eating me up that at some point I stopped. They could realistically only go so far.
Thank you for saving my life
Go to sleep. Your drunk tired and emotional and obviously your thoughts are taking over. It’s ok.
This seems like a situation for her and her bf. You’re not involved in the slightest and I would just leave it at that. Don’t inject yourself a into other peoples relationships. She wanted someone to talk to, that won’t make you legally or morally liable. Be a friend and guide her if you want. Hanging up the phone and posting the story on Reddit is not being a good friend…
Get out of there and get to the police.
Get a DNA test to curb your own doubts. Get your husband to reign in his family. Throw anyone out of your house who insinuates that your daughter is an affair child.
Listen, he deserves to be reported, but I think you should put yourself first. Do the things you have the energy for. Don't worry about not reporting him, the girl knew what she was doing and he will not stop his behavior and karma will catch up with him eventually.
You need to ditch this guy, you're a convenient ATM to him.
It's funny, just a few days ago I said to my son if you're ever with a girl who gets jealous about things that happened before you met her, leave immediately and don't look back. I'm telling you the same thing. You will never win with people this insecure. You cannot fix it. You can't be good enough ever. They will just make shit up and attack you for it. Just. No.
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Tell him instead of role playing you wanna actually fuck whichever friend has the biggest cock. That’ll prolly change his perspective
Well this is most definitely just complete nonsense –
the visa OP mentions is for the best of the best in the arts, as in OP should be prominent in what they do and no American must be able to do what they can, it’s also a temporary visa and OP would need to leave immediately after finishing whatever art project they went to the states to do, and it’s also filled in by an employer on behalf of the person. 450 pages long? That’s also complete horseshit.
In short, OP has a talent and that talent is for writing shit fiction on Reddit. Sadly this talent doesn’t qualify for the O-1 visa they were referring to
Definitely yes
My degree is in horticulture. I see variegated and I think multicolored leaves. Like a nice Pittosporum tobira 'Variegatum'. An absolutely serviceable deer resistant shrub.
This guy gives off fedora vibes.
He hit the baby. He was so out of control that he hit the baby. Get out now.
They're your family. I doubt they'd think it's weird. Definitely talk to your dad about starting that name change process. Your stepmom would most likely be honored. I know I would. ❤️
We really can't know what this means. You must talk to him about it.
Yes but at the same time men are expected to look after their wives who may be on lower income too but who support their husbands in different ways. He is set on having kids and getting married in the future. The issue is he doesn't see that in order for that to happen you have to do things in advance. My wage has gone up now that I'm chartered but anything else he could bring would really help us out. I think it's because I've grew up in a family where my mam didn't work and my dad worked like a dog. Also he really helped me to get away from my family mother who was a bit controlling at the time and allowed me to be a more open minded person.
This makes a lot of sense. Neither of you are the same people you were at 15, 17, or even 19.
As you gain life experiences your interests and values will develop & change. You might grow together in the same direction, or more likely, you will grow apart.
This same pattern will repeat itself throughout your early 20s and begin to slow down as you reach your 30s. But it will definitely continue throughout your life.
At each turning point, you’ll have to decide what compromises (if any) you’re willing to make to continue your relationship.
I wouldn’t even moved back with him to UT and stayed in Miami. I also would’ve used the therapy to get over him and get to a place where I would never accept an unfaithful spouse.
He’s being unreasonable. What’s his actual issue with it?
Most camps are split between it being wrong to contact her workplace and it being fine
You're definitely reading things wrong OP. People are telling you that the problem was taking her away from work when you're having money issues and she's having trouble keeping up with her workload.
Also been asked things that wouldve correlated to times of the previous relationship that I've answered to, unknowingly adding to what gets thought and pictured by.
Hahaha okay
You need to tell her beforehand in case she doesn't want to see you.
Exactly my thoughts!
It sounds like his is a bit insecure of his own education and is picking at your intelligence to make himself feel better. If this is something he said because you explicitly asked and not him coming at you then I’d peg it as an insecurity of his. You sound very smart.
Fight for your baby xx people will help
Just move on. I'd also go get checked for STI'S. Seriously! If some one is skin doggin' around that much,hell even one hook up with the wrong person and God knows what she exposed you to. Hopefully anything she might have contracted is easily treated with penicillin!
Why or why are you pregnant?
Do you think she cheated?
a little drunk
Even if she was only a little drunk he's pretty rapey
If you make your move you risk your current friend situation. It sounds like he might be interested but is not too good at picking up the endless hints you're dropping. If he hasn't had many girlfriends, he might just be as nervous about messing things up as you do if he gets rejected.
I'd say just go for a kiss and see how he reacts. Good luck
Yeah, he sounds like a complete fucking psycho to me.
He wants to isolate you, control you, dress you, suuuper weird.
Get out, girl!
$3 for soy sauce?
This feels very ungracious and miserly. Did this start happening after her parents stopped paying rent?
I wouldn't treat my friends this way as it I think it is very rude.
Thanks, age is another factor. I want to settle down soon and consider starting a family. And that takes YEARS of financial prep. One of the things I love about my boyfriend is that he is already an amazing dad to his two kids, and I've grown a great relationship with them, but with his finances (their mom is the same way he is) another concern is them asking me to cover their needs in the future. When their mom learned that we might move in together in the house that I own she's already asked if he could on-line rent free in order to increase child support payments, which would basically mean I'd be paying it, so the answer was no.
You are an adult and you have the right to be in a relationship with another adult. You are not his parent and it's unhealthy for a person to take on that role for someone who is a life partner.
I disagree. If they were co-workers that would be the case, but this is a supervisor/ subordinate situation. That changes things significantly.
Exactly! Avoiding exposure to triggering content is a pretty reasonable boundary imo. I turn off anything with animal abuse in it, even if it’s just for a couple seconds. Too painful to even think about. Cheating seems to have the same effect on him, that boundary should be respected.
r/Ebbie45
He's abusing you, but you're not going to think so, yet. You need to get away from him.
Dump the wife and the shrink
What's there talk about? I would just say, I guess the saying is true, “how you get them is how you lose them. Ok, enjoy your Tinder dates.”
And watch to see how he responds but no matter what he says or the love bombing, be done. Pls, value yourself more. Amazing connection or not, he wouldn't be on Twitter if he felt the same.
“I’m a homemaker and he works full time.”
He's doing his job, you're not doing yours.
This isn't working out.
I'm on his side. You've decided to be a homemaker, and you're not making home.
lol
Post has them both being abusive, and nowhere in his account does he beat her. There two 20 year olds who had a baby at 17 and have batshit families. I don’t envy them.
This dude sounds like a dumbass.
Go to the south and get your dream job. He is prioritizing himself. You should do the same.
This man is showing extreme callousness, not only about the loss of HIS child but about your welfare and emotional state. What kind of father will he be?
I try to find lessons in life’s hardships where I can. Don’t ignore what you’re learning from this experience.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending healing thoughts.
Poly is STUPID. Either get married or don't. SeriouslY?????????????????
My favorite way to put this into perspective is to think of a person that truly cares about you, your mental health, well-being, and wants others to appreciate your value. For me, it’s my dad. If you don’t have someone like that in your life, I am so sorry and I would be happy to share my dad with you. He wants you to be happy, confident, and treated with only kindness, love, and respect by your SO.
So you pick out that person and pretend that they were watching the way your SO is treating you happen on online TV.
If they watched this and you would:
• feel the need to make excuses for, or come up with an explanation for the way they’re treating you • try to create some way to make it seem “not as bad as it looks” • feel embarrassed or ashamed for them to witness the interaction, like you need them to see an edited version and not the entire live version • be embarrassed of the way you respond to them(SO) • know that the person watching would be very upset by what they’re seeing. • tell the person watching that they have (pick one) mental health issue and sometimes they say mean, abusive, hateful things or even hit you but it’s not their fault. They can’t help it because they’re diagnosed with (pick one).
These are all signs of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse. While I was younger and dating, as soon as someone said something a little off I’ve always asked myself, “What would my dad have to say about this?” If my dad wouldn’t like how they’re treating me and the SO isn’t sorry, that’s my cue to collect my belongings and leave. I don’t deserve that. Thank you, next.
If this applies, my dad says you need to leave. The longer you wait, they harder it will be to leave. God forbid you guys bring a baby into this kind of situation.
Also dear god, DONT pretend that the person watching will be seeing the um… intimate acts. Gross. Same judgement applies, but you shouldn’t think about your parents or whoever else this person is while you’re doing the deed. ?
Your ex-boyfriend, a grown adult who groomed you when you were a teenager, and then broke up with you when you grew up and had opinions, now wants you to sit and watch him play games to re-train you not to disagree with him. He’s playing games, all right.
Don’t waste another second, never mind three hours with this guy.
Edit should be EX boyfriend
Project all you want bud. The guy’s an asshole. He doesn’t have to give up his relationship with his brother, but his girlfriend HAS to know, or else he’s just as bad.
What a callous human. Good thing you know now and can find someone positive.
you need to sit down with this guy and ask the hot questions. the ones that make him squirm and want to run away. You deserve to know where this is going and you deserve to know if this is even worth your time or not. He also had the right to have his needs and limitations respected so if all he wants is a GF type of situation then he has to realize you both want different things.
I strongly suggest you read Act like a lady Think like a man by Steve Harvey.
He has some really wonderful tips in there that help you navigate all kinds of things. there is also a follow up book for people in a relationship too.
You guys need to stop tip toeing around these subjects and dive right in.
I’m not even saying it’s your fault! You were clearly going through something and I’m sorry for that. But nobody here knows you or your girlfriend. You know her. And it’s a possibility.
Maybe you should try to have a proper talk. Get everything out on the table and don’t be afraid to show your emotions because a true life partner is someone who can know and love all of you, including the not so happy parts!
Give her a chance to love that side of you, too. If she’s still shutting you down after you try to be open and honest then maybe you’ll have a decision to make. But you deserve to be with someone safe and comfortable and so does she.
You are an adult and what your parents think is irrelevant.
Don't start off a relationship with lies. It never ends well.
Thanks for your response. I know the baby idea is not great at the moment. We weren't hoping a baby would fix things. But I'll be putting a hold on this for a while until this is sorted.
It's just so hot to know what is real / my gut warning me, and what is just my insecurities at play. Most of the time I trust him and I was working through the past betrayals, our relationship was getting stronger but these recent “betrayals” (He insists he hasn't done anything wrong) really throw me.
I hope my psychologist can help me through this.
Thanks again
You have a lot of great reasons for not wanting to online with any of these people. So why not come up with a plan to stop living with them?
I also am medicated for anxiety, so it’s not like I don’t get it. The thing is, she is only like this when I don’t end up agreeing with her/letting her have her way. When I do, she is perfectly fine.
Haha I have recently been rewatching it while on my spin bike and it’s just so cringe. You will forever be known as the girl that didn’t go to Paris. Eekkkkk
Advice?
Do not keep dating a conflicted hypocrite who judges and disdains you for sexual acts they consented to and enjoyed. Never reduce yourself to trying to be with someone who will use you for pleasure then hate you for giving it to them.
This is merely the tip of the iceberg.
She clearly stated, then I didn't like it anymore. It appears she was engaging in a 3-wayband halfway thru changed her mind.
How long have you been together? When was the last time you spoke?
Its easy to say that but reality is that I have been with him for 4 years already and I just don’t know how to be alone. And I’m scared I will never find anyone after him.
Get another job or if you can’t minimize all contact you can with the Boss
Cut her off and be more unpredictable with your next gf
I don’t think y’all are a good match.
She has a past, and you seem to really he struggling to accept that.
She totally lied to you and then lowkey tried to act like you were in the wrong for being upset.
Asking your partner to not be friends on social media with anyone they’ve had any romantic or sexual connection to is kinda extreme. But you’re entitled to feel that way, and should date someone who has similar boundaries or less of a history
So you are bringing this up to him? Are you trying to make it a self fulfilling prophecy? If so, keep talking about her.
I have stated in many comments on here how I don’t online in a big city. I would be above 100k in a big city because of how expensive it would be to live there. For example in Boston
I’m so sorry, OP. Your bf is wrong and you are still an amazing altruistic person. To help others, you have to first help yourself. Your safety and welfare are your number one priority. You can exercise your altruism in other ways that don’t pose such a risk and that don’t don’t trigger your PTSD.
No. A boundary is “I do not remain in relationships with people who treat me like that.”
“You're not allowed to go out” is controlling.
Man, this generation is fucked. Impatient and always in constant need of attention and instant gratification. I'm probably too old to help on issues like that. For older people like me, this is such a non issue to create a fuss over one way or another. I can see this through my daughter as well who is almost 3. We fucked up by letting her watch youtube. Her attention span and patience level is shattered by all this media and tech. Feel sorry for the next gen.
You'd be an idiot to stay with this man.
Its what u said, he was counting a loan from his brother like it is his money.
That big of a reaction makes me think it wasn’t so “harmless”.. dude was literally shaking like a leave in the wind. Then said if roles were swap he wouldn’t believe you.
Dropping her as a client and then what.. what if there’s another client with the same outlines, are we rinsing and repeating?
Don’t think this was a panicked reaction, but just a played hand that got caught in the act of betrayal.
I think just call her or him and explain shes not welcome to come in and ask around for you and there either is nothing to talk about, or ask her what she wants. If it had to be in person, ask why and then decide. Personally? I don't think there is anything at all worth talking to her about. Who fucking cares if she has questions about why it ended and such?
There's nothing to “help”. He's toxic, and not a project of yours.
If he WANTS to change, he will have to work on himself. This is not the case so you RUN.
Just be loving and supportive, and let time heal. If you talk about the missed promotion too much he will just dwell on it longer.
What you do is play nice until you fly home and never go back. He’s abusing you.
The rough time he’s going through may be enough for him to stop sending those texts. Does he withdraw when he’s going through difficulties?
Break it off and go NC. Do not take him back again. Some exes can get back together if the can resolve their issues. This is not the case.
Why subject yourself to this. Respect yourself and move forward.
Sounds like you just want to be single with a safety net
And then what?
Be blackmailed by an asshat?
Who- likely- is MORE the joke of the frat than Jake?
Don't have children with this man.