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Date: November 26, 2022
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I mean, at the end of the day it's completely your decision on whether or not this is a dealbreaker for you. You can definitely find guys who don't watch porn for entertainment, that's for sure. If you plan on staying with him for any amount of time I would seriously recommend trying to get him help, because what you're describing is an addiction to porn. As for what exactly he is watching, that's between you, him, and your ISP lol
I'm gonna guess this man was stationed at either Camp Lejune or Fort Bragg. No reason, just a wild ass guess. How close am I?
This. Thank you. OP is not a monster but some of these comments are so sad in the POV of a woman.
Did she have twins?
Haha ? idk
Yeah, sounds like in this case, OP should be doing the opposite of “giving her something she'll actually use.” She doesn't want to use gifts!
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Because you DID’T dump Aish. She saw that you had a non ending puppy love for another woman and she stepped out of your way. Maybe you should have told Sara and your friends that Aish realized that you loved Sara and Aish decided not to get in your way.
Bro I could have done that. But Sara would have asked me forsure if I would have anyway left Aish. I could have lied and said yes but it felt like a bigger lie at that point of time.
Plus all of Sara's and my friends are mutual, so I had to make sure they know only what Sara knows. 3 of those friends are Aish's and my friends too. They just passed on the story to the rest of our friends and I didn't correct them. How could I? What if someone told Sara.
With my luck, they didn't talk about this to Aish because Aish is a very private person. So noone really found out except Aish's dog maybe XD
How many news stories have you seen, just so far this year, of men murdering their wives/children? Your bf is the kind of person who is capable of doing that. Nice enough, normal enough to maintain a job, a relationship, a family. But doesn’t see you as fully human.
Please leave, and please be careful when you do. You don’t owe him anything, not even an explanation.
Children are priority because they didn't ask to be born
BUT, that also mean raising them to not be the center of other people's world, to grow to be their own person and to be responsible
Go for it! Goood luck!! ??
Is is a monthly service fee, or it's a monthly instalment from a payment plan?
I feel everyone’s being a bit extreme lol. We have a very loving relationship.
I never say anything mean about her personally, I’m never attacking her personality or appearance. Maybe I should have been more clear in my post.
All jokes are followed with kisses and us laughing. She takes the piss out of me too sometimes and I find that funny.
Forget it though, you come to this group for advice and just get attacked ?
this is our first meeting alone after new years eve.. we never slept together and I'm not sure if this is going to be friends or dating I'm open for both, I find her interesting enough not only for sex if you know what I mean..
thanks tho I don't agree with ghosting I always address my feelings no matter what, unless there's so much harm and the person is dealing with lots of shit.. which she's not
Girlfriend oh my God hell no. He lied to you once that should be it. Him being off and on with you shows that he doesnt want to be exclusive with you. Girl, sister to sister, don't be giving your goods for free. He doesn't get to sample you, be on tinder (which shows he isn't interested in being exclusive with you) and talk to his ex.
No he wouldn't be texting her if he was over her. We all know that's disrespectful when you are seeing someone else. Listen, I'm not one of those people who are like “you invaded his privacy by going through his phone you're terrible violating trust!”
The only reason why girls do that is because something is off, or instinct I'd telling us something is not right and we need proof to prove it to ourselves
Because what's he gunna do? TELL you what's going on? Of course not. You've got to find out yourself. You already know he's not going to be honest with you, so why are you putting your energy into this?
In my opinion he's obviously not over her and he's using you for emotional and sexual needs while also going through the 'guy trying to get over a break up thing' by sleeping around and trying to gain his confidence back.
Not to mention, your sexual health is at risk and that's pretty fucking selfish and shitty to not tell you he plans to sleep around. Shows he give two shots about you and your well being
She’s told you what she wants. You’ve told her what she wants. Neither are willing to compromise. You two are mismatched on a fundamental level. Break up and go find someone who shares your values.
You’re allowed to feel how you feel. You can’t force people to agree with you though. There are plenty of other people out there. Go find one.
It's better for them to see two healthy households than one broken one. You don't love your husband anymore, and you don't feel like you can trust him emotionally. He severed the connection by taking active steps to try and sleep with other women. The fact that he didn't because you said no doesn't change that this is what he wants, and this is how little he values monogamy. You CAN divorce a man for asking you something, even if he respects your no, if you require a partner who would never want or ask for this.
Yes, it’s a common thing.
My apologies, I thought your post was you saying you wouldn’t wear it if you didn’t like it.
Dido with other commenters about sending him links. Or commit to a super bowl, silver, 4 leaf clover shaped ring with diamonds on the band for the rest of your life.
There is no such thing as being loose
There is. But he is total asshole for force using ass hole.
He be lyin'.
Ok I’ll get right on that. Thanks for the constructive feedback.
Double whammy
Clearly in your case, no. You’ve set your boundaries. You’ve explained WHY and HOW it hurts you when he does this. Yet he still does it. After 9 years. It’s clear he doesn’t care and is never going to.
This is very weird, especially if they haven’t talked in years. It seems obsessive in my opinion. I think it’s disrespectful and creepy towards his ex and you that he holds onto these things. I can understand MAYBE keeping them in a keepsake box somewhere at most. I’m not gonna assume malicious intent with this limited information, but there’s a complete lack of boundaries on his end that’s unfortunately affecting you. I definitely would NOT chalk this up to anxiety. I think anyone would be weirded out by this and you have every right to be skeptical.
I didn't ask if you still loved him, I asked if the relationship the way it is makes you happy. Do you like how the relationship makes you feel, with the way he currently treats you? Not “Oh, I love him so much, I'm so happy to be with someone I love so much,” but, “My interactions with him today, and the past several days, made me feel happy and secure and stronger.”
There is nothing wrong with you asking him straight up about his demeanour. Ask him outright if he's upset you went away.
Stop dating people old enough to be your dad, Jesus Christ.
Hahaha!! Same…the ads are everywhere and now I feel compelled to get some.
Break up. This is a train wreck. Relationships shouldn’t ever be this much work.
this ain't right. would she have felt funny , if you had said , if it weren't for your kids you would have divorced her ? . I think not. I would let her knkw how you feel and ask her , why she thought it was funny.
That’s a delusion.