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Eh. I was a nanny for a year (3-8pm, Mon-Fri. So not live-in but def not a casual baby sitter like in the OP, also not through an agency). I mostly interacted with the dad and we had a friendly working relationship. He knew basic details about my life and we would always have a chat about weekend activities, sport, family etc. He did tell me about their marriage problems but even that was 100% work related. Any communication outside of work was work related. So, if I think about our relationship person to person, I'd say “acquaintance” is probably an appropriate characterisation. No different to how I interact with my colleagues now in a standard job.
I can see from a parent's perspective why they might want more because a “friend” is generally more trustworthy than an “acquaintance” and trust is the most important thing when you are leaving your kids with someone in a private setting.
But to present an alternative perspective from the view of a carer: I am here to do a good job. It's different to most other jobs but it is a job nonetheless- I was “the nanny” not a mate. The requirements are passing a police and WWC check, meeting parent requirements/schedule, and being responsible, trustworthy, patient, kind/loving, and fun. It is obvs my strong preference to be friendly with the parents but that is in the context of my single responsibility being the children. It was a lot easier to do this, from my experience at least, by maintaining a very, very small degree of distance especially cos the kids were a handful.
I'm not saying this to be any sort of way, just providing a different perspective. To my ears OP seems defensive, it sounds cold in the context of a car crash, but it's in the context of OP suspecting cheating. Idk, I'm just glad the babysitter is OK.
Soz this comment ended up being way too long omg.