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Date: October 7, 2022
It sounds like he really likes you but still too soon. I would stop seeing him but put it out there that you would like him to reach out when he’s in a better place and go from there.
Hey, as someone who physically has to walk away afterward to pee, you shush.
He’s moving at a slower pace than you, it’s very normal in new relationships. Just keep doing what you normally would do, don’t mention it until he wants to bring it up. Though if you feel it’s taking too long then have a discussion where you both see and where your relationship is going.
Taking the break is another way of being a doormat anyway, just go home and divorce her.
At this point you might as well just leave. If he's acting this way so early on, he's likely only going to get worse. You definitely haven't been with him long enough for it to be worth sticking around hoping he'll change.
It's a litmus test for sure. I wouldn't bother advocating, if they're not doing it naturally they most likely don't care so just move on. Great way of identifying who's worth staying with
because I never gave him an actual confession. I don't feel like it's fair to confess that now either, and cause strain on an otherwise fine relationship that makes him happy. I don't know what to do anymore.
I think it's fine if you want to. I'd say it's better if you'd say so a lot sooner, or at least given him stronger hints you liked him romantically and not just as a friend. At the very least, you telling him would have him understand why you're hurting and he'll be more mindful of not unintentionally hurting you anymore (since he seems like a genuinely good guy, I'm sure he'd appreciate you telling him and from then on be a bit more conscientious of your feelings).
You didn't mention how long E and M had been dating, but if he's bringing her to work events, my guess is that it'd been going on for a while? I'm not sure you guys were as close as you think it was, or he'd probably have brought up he was interested in M, going on dates with her or dating someone… Perhaps you saw him as a bestfriend, but to him (apparently just a truly nice to everyone type of guy) you were a friend.
I want to salvage my friendship, but I don't know how that's possible with where I'm at.
Despite my suggestion you tell him your feelings… I will say it's definitely possible your friendship won't/can't be salvaged. But in my experience, that really depends on your side of the equation… and whether you can/want to be around him. I've only been on the other side, and I have wanted and tried to maintain a friendship with the person who confessed (but I was interested in), but it's really basically completely dependent on whether you want to/can (imo).
I need advice.
I don't exactly have any (more) advice for your current situation… but I think him having not attempted anything further when you were at his place/sleeping next to each other is a pretty big give away that you were friendzoned… (or perhaps unbeknownst to you, you led him to believe you weren't interested and friendzoned him, so he didn't make any move). Just something to keep in mind in the future if you ever crush on someone again.
There is no easy way to get over a betrayal like this. It's something that time will heal but support from your friends and family is what you really need now.
You could tell him you are still healing and would like to stay in the house for a while. If you have a mortgage in his name, he just can't stop payments without destroying his credit rating.
There are many good ideas here. If you are still worried that she is lying or something is up, you could hire a private detective. A good one can figure stuff like that our pretty quick. It might not be cheap but I bet it’s cheaper than raising a child.
Right! She’s not a victim in this at all, it’s actually quite evil what she’s done.
There was a similar post weeks ago where the man was closeted and I’m not seeing the same energy here
You ever hear of the saying “the grass is greener “ and then it’s really dying grass. Sometimes it’s best to not seek for better grass. You shouldn’t have seeked for new grass. He warned you and you laughed it off. Didn’t expect it. But you treated him horribly and still are. Please, gracefully walk away and seek therapy. You should have discussed how to bring the spark back if you cared. Not seek for a new pickle.
I hope the best for you in this journey as you heal.
24F Girlfriend is mad at me 24M because I have not shown her all of me
Get a colonoscopy and show here a different side of you.
Oh shit I put 26 xD I meant 27 sorry I just finished a 8 hours shift and am exhausted posting this I’ll repost it
Oooh boy, you better hope that your father in law has a sense of humour and discretion. If he’s missing one, the other or both… you’ll never live! this down.
He wasn’t taking a jab at her though! That’s my entire point in my last comment! HE JUST SPOKE TO HIS GIRLFRIEND! He didn’t insult her, he didn’t say anything actuallt sexist, he just brought up a conversation about womens soccer! She was in a bad mood- is it taking a jab at someone to speak to them when they’re hungry or grumpy?
What do you mean “regardless of what was said it was the intent,” he literally says he just made a comment, not about her or anything, he just said a sentence. Are you reading something I’m not? Or are you just particularly uncharitable and biased?
None of this makes sense. If your comments are based around him making the first jab, can you just link where he said that was his intent or explain why what he said was so clearly meant as a jab?
So you're going to bring a kid into this world, knowing the dad doesn't give a shit about it, knowing you have no job or secure living place, no emotional or physical support, family won't even help, scrapped for money, and you still want to keep it? Part of me wants to agree with the boyfriend on saying you're bringing this on yourself. I know a lot of people don't like abortion, but this is definitely a proper scenario for one.
Because we have DNA testing and mandated child support.
Here's the deal: If you have heterosexual sex, you are risking becoming a parent. Full fucking stop. No birth control method is 100%. NO BIRTH CONTROL METHOD IS 100%.
And yes, both parents must contribute money to raise the child. By law.
You say that as though that explains anything but you won’t answer what’s wrong with bi guys hitting in you?
Just try it. You can still cancel if she wants something inappropriate.
Break up with her. She doesn't care about yoy enough to to do literally anything that would actually inconvenient for her. Just leavr her or you will be miserable. Her baviour is understandable btw. After all she has done you are still in doormat mode so why should she bother stopping.
Leave her and in future relation break up much earlier.
This make me smile. Thank you for sharing
i get ur point but I KNOW she used to be interested 3 years ago ( when she asked me to take her out) idk about now tho thats what im trying to figure out
Not popping a boner doesn’t mean he’s lost interest in you or attraction.
Erections can pop up at the worst moments and they can not show up for any reason, maybe he’s stressed, maybe he was thinking about something.
Don’t overthink it.
No. Its horrible and they will instantly dump you. Do not do this.
Trolls gonna troll
You should probably let him break up with you and move on with your life. It doesn’t sound healthy at all…maybe try again later on if he realizes what a d bag he’s being rn…
He is not
I feel you. Do you like him enough to deal with it? Or is it a deal breaker?
It's not the first time, this relationship is toxic. Don't go back again.
Ignore the people that choose to misunderstand the post. They are most likely trolls. Just pay attention to the people giving you good feedback and advice.
Hes doesnt need marriage for citizenship does he?
You’re right, but im still scared of what the future holds??
Tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him and that you're breaking up. End one relationship before beginning another.
For future relationships, remember that it's easy, and quite logical, to think that we will be able to handle certain things, wherein reality, when we're in the middle of said things, we realize that we can't and / or don't want to.
Thank you for your reply! I would just like to clarify that I’m in a university club in Europe. We have certain formalities that may sound odd to outsiders. One of those are what we call ‘abu kisses’. This means a quick peck on the lips of a friend. It happens a lot, and is a way of showing your friendship. My boyfriend and I both have to do this on multiple occasions with different friends. We’re fine with each other doing that. It’s just this kiss was not during a formality. It happened outside, even though it was also just a peck on the lips.
i didnt mess up any settings i am good with computersp
She's taking advantage of you and seems to feel entitled to your money. Do you really want to be with someone who places so much of the value she has in you based on how much money you have. It's frankly disgusting
Simply put, thus is what to do. Refuse, OP, to allow anyone or anything ruin your wedding day. Put them behind you and gave a blast on your wedding day.
I don't know if this will reach you due to the amount of comments.
I had a boyfriend who would run out of the house occasionally during some disagreements. A lot of it was his own insecurities and his inability to actually communicate. He wanted me to look for him and for a handful of times I did. Like, literally take off out the house barefoot at 1am. This was one of the most mentally abused relationships that I had ever been in. Eventually I stopped chasing after him. I didn't have the energy. Once I stopped fighting to find him and win him back is when I started recognizing my life needed changes. I was with him for 5 years, so you bet your ass I tried to make it work.
The only advice I can give is if she doesn't know how to communicate feelings and insecurities at this age, she needs therapy sooner rather than later. My ex never received therapy and he really needed it for his behavior.
Good luck and remember to do what's best for you.
Truth
And now you know why you don't take back cheaters . You can only really blame yourself
Imagine if your partner yelled at you about being a zoophile because your dog sleeps in bed with you. And they believed that in earnest at the time they said it.
So they broke data protection by telling you who you've matched with?
“we weren't really serious back then” focus on the words he said. That means it was okay for him and his brother to rape you and others, because you did not mean much to them. Please focus on that because it illustrates who they really are, not what you want him/them to be. I really hope you get an attorney on the down low and get a solid strategy in your divorce and to build a rape case against them. For you and for the others.
However, life experience tells me that you will hang on because “you love him” and you will magnify his “goodness” to cancel out what you don't want to see. If you had a daughter, and she was with him, what advice would you give her. Would you tell her to stay?
Like dear Lord wtf did i just read..
OP I'm so sorry whether you wish to pursue legal action.. u shld… but if you aren't up for it we get..
But everyone is right. This is and was rape!
You never consented to being “shared” tf are u a fucking toy jesus..
But please tell your family get away from this man. You are legit my age. You can move on from this sick relationship. You've lost time yes but you also lost alot more to this man please don't continue doing it.
Any man that thinks its okay to pass woman around who he was seeing to his brother is sick. Like wtf think about tht shit. And you would want to have kids with him? And have his rapist brother around your children?
He already got away with it before and to have the balls to even suggest it again the “natural” way is just so fucked up and this man has issues!! Major ones.
He isn't safe to be around. Get out! Tell your family why u left don't let this man guilt u into silence because it was when you were younger the fact it was when you were younger is fucking worse!
There are alot of ways to have a baby. If u want to. U can do it alone! And u wldnt have to sleep with a fucking rapist to do it!
Wow. OP, I don't know what your relationship procedure is with phone transparency. But if you get the chance, I would check to see if any calls or texts were made between the time that he dropped the d word and then took it back.
Yeah, here’s the advice. Don’t let him back in. There’s no upside for you.
Hsv2 i assume, it is no harm for your health far as i know but can cause some discomfort etc, tho she should have warmed about this.. hsv2 is not the end of your life or sex life, don’t worry
I think it's clear your husband is the one messing with her house so she leans on him as a protective figure.
Which is obviously dangerous and unhinged.
I don't think it's disrespectful as such. My first instinct was it is a trap, you sign the paper saying everything you do is consensual and then he can do whatever he wants to you and you can't complain to anyone.
A slightly less dark interpretation is that he is worried about consent/misreading signs and can't express it in a less stupid way. Not so much that he mistrusts you as is scared of breaking some unwritten rules he does not know exists.
She’s cheating. Sorry this happened again.