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Yup. Never said they were.
Therapist are not there to parent our children. They're there to help kids and parents alike deal with emotions that come along with traumatic issues such as this. Because not everyone is super well equipped to deal with trauma. Especially with situations as complicated as this. It not about unpacking politics its about dealing with the complex feelings and traumatic experience Of your Uncle sending you porn in this case.. wasn't aware that was something you're so well versed in
Go slow….. go very slow………
You are still vulnerable.
This shows he's not sorry and cannot perspective take, please find someone else
I agree lol if this is todays dating then I hope I never have to be single again lol ?
If my man asked for a contract to wake me up head I’d tell him to GTF aswell lol
If it was an extreme kink then definitely have a conversation before hand and maybe even a safe word, but OPs gf request is just normal sexual act you do for somone you love, heck I’m jealous it’s even an option for them lol I have kids so Wev lost that option.
Oh HELL NO! This is every single bit as abusive as the SA! Emotional and psychological abuse are real things. Emotional abuse is much more confusing though because it’s not as clear cut. Victims aren’t always sure what is going on or blame themselves for how they were treated even years later and into adulthood. Whereas things are more clear with physical assaults, at least as adults. Even silent treatment is a form of abuse if it goes on more than several hours and is vindictive and meant to punish. So calling you a liar, refusing sex and intimacy etc, I guarantee it’s extremely toxic. I urge you to nope right out of there.
You should be.
I’ve definitely been taken advantage of for being nice, but even in hindsight I’d rather be too nice than be shitty to people. But I do think you can learn from not moving in and sharing bills without putting things in writing. And if it ever got worse than this? Courts do not like to straighten these things out. So lesson learned on that. Put things in your name and put things in writing
Hardly a day goes by that I don't think about my ex who abused me and wishing I could call him and tell him that he's a piece of shit and that I will be so happy the day that someone buries him in the ground. It's been years. But you know what? That doesn't mean I don't love my current partner. That does not mean I want to get back together with my abusive ex-boyfriend. It means that he fucked up my brain. He fucked up my life. So yeah, sometimes abusers are on your mind for a long time atter and you want to dish it back to them until you realize it's probably the worst thing you could do to invite that negative piece of shit back into your life.
I am very much against violence in education but for him now and then when children really f*ck up they need a slap on the face.
He is for traditional gender education and it would bother him if his son was “too feminine” or if he likes too much “feminine” stuff.
I am for children choosing for themselves even when they're little but I feel like he is more for parents choosing for children (clothing, hair, some activities…).
He is against showing homosexual couples in cartoons because cartoons are for children and they shouldn't see that.
He is very critical toward trans and non binary people.
He sometimes hardly understands women struggles and feminism, for example for him there isn't more pressure towards women to be beautiful and young women in social media sexualizing themselves is all their fault.
He once said that suicide is cowardly.
He sees drug addicts as garbage who don't want to be helped.
He doesn't want his children to drink alcohol (under 18).
He wants his son to be circumcised (not sure that I want).
I have actually been very supportive and understanding but at the same time I dont want to feel like I need to change what I want and expect considering that I specifically explained this at the beginning. I am fine with 130. Im ok with 150 as long as shes working at it. When you say “how little you would have to eat”. It's calorie in, calorie out. I do it. I dont love having to watch what I eat but I do it. And she loves how I look. She's proud to be next to me and having all the women checking me out, but it takes work.
Please tell me you are no older than 14… this kind of behavior cannot be something an adult does
There’s a coworker she wants to bang or is already banging
You can do it anonymously. If you're going that route block your ex boyfriend at the same time, if the bridge is burned there's no reasons to keep contact, and this way you won't be impacted as much by the aftermath.
At the end of the day it's up to you, if you want my personnal opinion, I think it's a good idea and I would do it if I was in your shoes, but we're not the same person !
Delete this before husband sees lol
Oh I know. Just seems odd
Cancel the lease if you can. That's a real shit thing to do to a supposed friend
because he just wants sex and he is using you. it's pretty simple, unfortunately.
That’s 6 hours. I don’t know how far the school is, if your kid takes them, etc, but let’s say a half hour for getting the kid to and from school. That means she actually only has 5 hours, 5 days a week, without the kid.
Reactionary abuse. He tormented you and put you at edge and when you snapped back you’re the abuser.
Why would you stay with someone intent on making you uncomfortable in your own home? He should have stopped when you first asked, he should have stopped when you left, he should have stopped when you started FUCKING CRYING because of his torment.
Look into reactionary abuse and see if he has any other behaviour like this because he is basically exploiting your disability to hurt you as much as possible (I’m disabled – it’s not a bad word)
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That is true. I'll be telling him ASAP just so I don't have to deal with going to work and having the anxious stomach drops all day.
It's definitely a weird flag
First, why did you become interested in a 21 year old at 30? You were in different life stages, had different timelines, there's a maturity and life experience gap….
He only buys me gifts sporadically. In the 5 years we have been together he has gifted me: an expensive gold heart necklace, Nike trainers, a rose, a costume jewellery watch, and snacks/drinks. Is that enough gifts for the duration of a 5 year relationship?
Are you for real? Is this the reason why guys your age weren't interested?
I like it. Thanks. You’re right. Open device policy should definitely be in affect.
I think they call this a Red Flag
This is a deal breaker. He escalated a fight into the physical. He will do it again, and it will get worse. His mum will be on tv blaming you when your body turns up in an oil drum.
Cool story. But again, watching a movie that has a violent scene that you are upset at and getting off on it are not the same thing.
Do you keep the same energy when children are involved in getting off?
No? Thought so. Yes? You’re too fucked up to have a rational conversation.
Monstrosity is a spectrum, my dude.
Well, I am 35 and if I date someone/in the relationship I have the same problem. He turns me on with everything. You may want to think about the compatibility. Partner with super high libido and one wiyh super low will not go long way. However having partner with equally high libido is exhausting. Having sex every day and sometimes couple times for months or years, becomes such a waste of time, even tho its amazing. If he had just a slighter low libido, but still meets your balance needs, then you will be fine. Also, there is no need to get frustrated over yourself, it's OK to get turn on, even tho it is annoying to experience. And you just need to look at your partner saying no, as them having lower libido, not a rejection. That helps a lot
If you are serious about masturbatinh 10 times per day, then yoh may have a problem tho and may want to speak with specialist about it.
You have options about the pregnancy
No I wasn’t mad, I’ve burned a lot of bridges in this thread and gotten a lot of hate, I assumed some might think I’m a guy or sexist based on the backlash. I just thought it was funny.
You have serious issues.
Thank you for the advice. I’ll do my best to encourage him to seek professional help from a therapist and hopefully it pans out.
If you're working (an hour a day more than him) why is he paying fir everything and what happens to your wage apart from paying the phone and wifi?
EVERYBODY who breaks up says “lets be friends.” It is, like, the ubiquitous phrase that's included in 99% of break-up conversations.
She won't be surprised to hear it… she WILL be surprised if you text her the next day like “HEY FRIEND! Did you catch the Superbowl?” Because most people don't mean it.
I'm just saying, if you say you want to be friends, and she says “Sure, of course,” it's likely that “becoming friends” is a whole 'nother ball of wax.
So he lies because he is afraid if he tells the truth, you will leave him?
He won't do anything to address the problem, like therapy.
If you have not already, explain that him telling you the truth about something does not mean you'll breakup with him. However, if he keeps lying, you 100% will breakup with him.
Just be prepared to breakup with him once he lies again.. or as others have said, be prepared to live! with a chronic liar. Will never be able to trust him.
Please don't have kids with him
Some people just don’t want to be helped. Your friend is one of those people. Not your problem either way. Let her keep making piss poor decisions
Let him leave. Why are you fighting to hold on to someone who cheats on you and doesn’t care if it hurts?
He sounds unhinged… He accused you of holding him hostage? And he’s afraid of you, but it’s fine as long as you forgive him?
That's not very reasonable though, they should just be understanding of people that can't make it for any reason.
Yes definitely tell him it's weird. If she's been having him do this he obviously thinks it's normal. He needs to know it's weird so he can decide to do something about it or not. He needs to know it'll affect all his relationships down the line
TLDR but advice is walk away and leave her alone.
That's what I was thinking, he should be glad she reacted like that ?
Nope. When people cheat (or act the way your GF is acting), it’s on them and only them. Doesn’t speak to you at all.
There’s only something wrong with you if you put up with it.
You guys don’t seem like the right match. I’d say stay broken up
Drop him, he’s clearly not that supportive if getting more tattoos is enough to make him drop you. You’re super young, find someone who accepts you with more tattoos if you want more
People have left some good comments, so I just wanted to leave a little suggestion about your work situation. I understand not wanting to work until your kid(s) are in school, however my sister is also a nanny and she was actually able to take her infant son with her to nanny when she felt like she was ready to go to work. She was able to still care for him and he also got to socialize with young kids his age. Just a possibility!