Besides the alcoholism I suspect he may have been a victim of SA himself. From personal experience I refused to accept it happened to me and blocked it out until the panic attacks and anxiety reached a point that I had no choice but to face it and get therapy for it. Unresolved trauma can lead to drinking and alcoholism.
Just divorce her already, ya idiot. Quit treating her like crap and just end the relationship.
Besides the alcoholism I suspect he may have been a victim of SA himself. From personal experience I refused to accept it happened to me and blocked it out until the panic attacks and anxiety reached a point that I had no choice but to face it and get therapy for it. Unresolved trauma can lead to drinking and alcoholism.