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Date: October 5, 2022
Oh my god. Please tell your girlfriend to run. Your version of “love” is actually scary sounding. Like, it gives off major obsessed stabby stalker level vibes.
Anyway…. ????
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If she's not enough for you I don't see the point in you staying. Life is short; even borderline creepy stalker vibing, might end up stabbing someone one day, people deserve to be fulfilled in the right relationship.
Yes.
So he lead you to belive for years , that he was one person and now he tells you he is different from what he has been presenting. He pretty much lied about who he was for the time you knew him, you don't need to accept anything , he is a whole other person now. You should be thinking if you are compatible with the “new” him.
Both the DSM-5 and the ICD-11 define pedophilia as an attraction towards prepubescent children. Given that most children reach puberty until the age of 13, pedophiles can literally not be attracted to teenagers except for some exceptions. Being attracted to teenagers is either hebephilia or ephebophilia, which are not classified in the DSM-5 or the ICD-11.
Therefore what you say is utter nonsense.
Absolutely yes and would also ignore any future communication as that can send mixed signals if answered by you. She will eventually get the hint.
This whole relationship was just abusive and selfish. Yes it was normal to feel distant. How can you love someone who was treating you so terribly?
Everything you typed was just…heartbreaking. He was basically toying with you and using you as a verbal and emotional punching bag.
Ugh.
OK for starters, there's no way you fell in love with someone on day 1 through a video game. The fact that the two of you even thought that just boggles my mind.
Second this isn't love. You don't want him to be happy. You just want him to be with you. You're upset he found someone else, you're holding out hope, he's stringing you along – none of this is love.
Real love is, “I want this person to be happy no matter what, even if it's not with me.” I didn't see that anywhere in your massive wall of text. All I saw was how good he made you feel and how infatuated you are with him, and now you're crushed bc your fantasy isn't reality.
Third, paragraphs are your friend.
Fourth, he's not all that great. He caught feelings for someone bc you were – by your own admission – being cruel to him. You were easily replaceable.
Now you need to leave to stop the pain, and instead of him understanding he's like, “Wait, don't go! I don't love you but if this relationship with my bestie doesn't work out we can try again!”
He has you on standby. You're his fallback plan. And you think this is love?
You absolutely need to block him. That's the only way you'll ever be able to see this situation for what it really is: a mess. It just seems like both of you were lonely and you used each other, until one of you could get a better deal.
Do yourself a favor, block his number and cut off all contact without warning. Otherwise he'll keep you single and stuck with him until he no longer finds it amusing. I could easily see him getting a girlfriend and forcing you to be his side piece. And then he would laugh it about it every day.
Your family members sounds like real downers. Normal people respond to news of a new relationship with congratulations, not dire warnings.
Sure there is a chance it can last! Millions of married couples met in college. I can't deny the odds are a little better if the people are older, or if both people are deliberately looking for a permanent relationship, but there's no guarantee on any those relationships either.
Don't let the negativity get you down, or try to quantify the unquantifiable. Enjoy what you have and let the future take care of itself.
And congratulations!
This isn’t a rant sub
This reminds me of the shit brownie story. The brownies are incredible except for the one tablespoon of horseshit mixed in. Why are you still eating the brownies OP. All of his great qualities boil down to words to keep you financially on the hook. Words aren't actions that prove his intentions. Just words.
No, most people won’t react by feeling their stomach tie up.
Sometimes I wonder how people on reddit interact with the real world if even having the lunch break with a colleague put them in such a state of misery
This isn’t about her. It’s about him being a totally shit person. Kick him out and focus on you and your kid.
I had this conversation recently. We had a major life changing event happening so a lot things got kind of pushed in the back burner, including some self care.
It took me 2 weeks to work up the courage. I started stating how much I loved them and how I would never intentionally try to hurt them with words. I also wanted them to find out from me rather than someone else, I feel it's only right. I asked them questions like if they are in pain and if they've noticed any changes in their mouth.
They took it in stride and said they appreciate the honesty. And would look into it.
I think the fact that you already tried to approach her and she had a negative reaction it may be a bit harder. She may need to here it from someone else? Idk. Maybe help her find a dentist that's good with people. Show her reviews of said dentist that gentle.
Hopefully she can see you come from a place of love.
He can't tolerate the thought of anothers man semen in his presence..his masculinity just cant take it
Eh, I agree it's racist, just trying to give some thoughts for the OP to ponder. I think it's possible the “power dynamic” thing is more what the OP's boyfriend meant and just worded it badly. A bit more understandable, especially if he's experienced a lot of racism against him from white people. As I said though, I'd likely end the relationship over it, I want a life partner, not a therapy project.
Best solution is to just sit down and have the conversation. “Hey, honey I have bad news… Apparently we have terrible luck, I'm pregnant, and I don't know why. We need to get you to the urologist. And we need to talk about how we want to move forward. I'm going to assume given our use of condoms and your vasectomy still failed, after this we need to move forward with some form of permanent birth control on my side, also. I'm going to assume we want a paternity test and an STI panel – I 100% understand if you need that. Honestly if I wasn't the one who's physically knocked up, I would be worried, about cheating. And I haven't really thought beyond those things. I'm a bit in shock, this shouldn't have happened.
It establishes, understanding, gives information, stresses your own upset over this problem, and your willingness to do as needed to confirm you didn't cheat.
I should add this. Prior to the appointment described above with the mortgage broker, she said that if we were planning to get married in 2024, we didn't need to worry about a contract and everything would be fine.
In the second conversation, as described above, she said the opposite and that we had to do it. Hence the frustration that we suddenly had to do it while she told us at first we didn't have to worry about it.
One alternative is getting legally married, not holding a ceremony of any kind, and then doing the wedding that you want in 2024.
We weren't planning a traditional wedding anyway. We just want to get married legally, invite some family and friends to celebrate with us and that's that. No church or fancy wedding dresses or anything.
We never liked such a big party because we are both introverts and don't like to be the center of attention.
thank you. anymore obvious things you want to comment?
I was in a similar situation a few years ago (except i didn't actually gain weight, my posture just slightly devolved due to WFH, making it look like i gained about 5-10 lbs). My bf at the time sat me down one morning to tell me that my weight gain was going to become a problem. This sent me spiraling into disordered eating and exercise because my weight has always been my biggest insecurity. He was also encouraging the disordered eating because he encouraged me counting calories knowing full well i was deliberately staying between 500-900 calories when i was tracking with his help. But that itself isn't what broke me.
What really hurt me was that before the intervention, he watched me make steps to become healthier. I was eating more salad and protein, less fried food, and actively running at least once a week. He saw this and yet still decided to have that conversation.
And when i spoke to him about how he hurt me, he got defensive. Rather than having an adult conversation about how his actions hurt me and what we can do in the future to avoid this situation, he shamed me for continuing to act hurt. He got upset at me that I wouldn't sit near him without something covering my lap/stomach. He would cry about how he was such an awful boyfriend to the point that I would then spend the rest of the conversation assuring him he wasn't. Even so, he still never comforted me and my hurt. He only made me comfort him and got upset when i said i didn't forgive him.
The fallout was only how the situation affected him. I was still never actually considered. That's what broke me so badly. Not the comment itself. If it were just the comment and everything else was talked through rationally, i wouldn't have been nearly as devastated.
You mentioned that she tried to gaslight you that she never said that or tried to convince you she meant something else. Does she have a history of minimizing your feelings like this? My ex did and i didn't realize it until that situation highlighted what had been right in front of me the whole relationship.
Is it possible that's why this is eating at you so much? Not because of what she said, but how she responded afterward?
Your feelings are valid. Never let anyone, especially a significant other, tell you how you should feel. Value yourself.
Yup.
Yes! So many absolutely vile comments here. People truly defending watching child porn or at best simulated child porn.
For op, maybe this dude is just into the porn and would never touch your daughters, but how is it possibly worth the risk? You already know he’s seeking out sexual material with teens or people made to look like teens. Don’t let him live! with your daughters. For all the people suggesting she talk to him, what do they expect the outcome of that conversation to be? He’s just going to say what everyone else here is saying, that the women aren’t actually minors and it’s just porn. He’s gonna say that whether or not he’s planning on grooming your daughters.
Text him this
“Hi do you want to hang out sometime ?”
Agreed definitely fake. With anti-trans bills popping up left and right someone thinks they’re funny by trying to spin a this could happen to all the poor cis men if we don’t implement these laws.
OP go find some right wing subreddit to gab on
Yes but only for about 5 minutes
Thank you. I stood my ground tonight and he’s went to bed after making a big deal that I wasn’t going with him. The same old “you’ve been weird since I went to work. Did anything happen while I was gone?” ugh. my heart breaks. You give me hope though. ?
Check out r/cisparenttranskid.
He's not going to pay you back. There is a reason for the age gap: he is taking advantage of you. Take it as a lesson learned and find someone your age who doesn't need to ask you for money. If you really need the money back, you will probably have to take him to court.
Her issues are not related to that unless something is wildly mis-wired that we haven't caught yet. She goes to regular and frequent appointments for updates and scans for her conditions, though.
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